First, we should study and understand diligently and apply what we have learned.
"If you want to do a good job, you must sharpen your tools first; If a scholar wants to declare his righteousness, he must read his book first. " For example, our working hours are not long, and only through continuous learning can we improve our ability and quality. First of all, you should study hard, and then you can learn scientifically. Einstein had a famous formula for success: "Diligence+correct method+efficiency = success". Among them, diligence is regarded as the primary factor, which shows that to succeed in any aspect, we must have the spirit of diligence. Diligence is not only a spirit, but also a method, that is, study hard, remember hard and think hard. Confucius said, "Learning without thinking is useless, and dying without learning." If a person wants to increase his knowledge and talents, he must study hard and think hard, and neither can be neglected. He should form the habit of thinking and summing up by himself, and form his own well-founded judgment through his knowledge reserve, that is, study hard, be brave in practice, be good at summing up, and regularly sort out and refine his feelings and understanding, which is the most important thing for him to constantly review old knowledge and acquire new knowledge. Only by "understanding" can we improve ourselves in the process of self-growth and get twice the result with half the effort; If you get "enlightenment", you will be suddenly enlightened and have new methods for new problems, rather than being helpless.
2. Loving others is like loving yourself, and respecting others is like loving yourself.
Modern people generally want to be cared for and respected by others, but seldom think about why they should pay for it. Some people are self-centered, supercilious and nobody cares. Some people swear when they say it, whether others accept it or not. Those who love them will always love them, and those who respect them will always respect them. For example (paper net 5 1 provided), if there is no one else in your heart, it is difficult to get the respect of others, especially many unhappy people in life, who are more worried than happy, and it is even more difficult to achieve supreme self-love. Therefore, we should always keep a sincere heart, praise others sincerely, treat others sincerely, accept their goodwill sincerely, complain directly with good deeds, and guide our actions with the spirit of The Analects.
Third, let's re-examine our outlook on life with what kind of mentality.
Everyone's life will inevitably have regrets and disappointments. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. One of the essences of The Analects tells us that how to treat the regrets and sufferings in life with a peaceful attitude, people should first be able to face the regrets in life correctly, and don't dwell on it, and ask questions repeatedly, which will only aggravate your pain. The second attitude is to admit the deficiency of reality and make up for it through your own efforts. This is what The Analects of Confucius tells us about the attitude towards life defects. In the way of dealing with the world, Confucius advocated that "if you are not in office, you will not seek politics", which means that "if you are in office, you will seek politics". In our work, everyone has his own post, and doing his job well is the premise. Society is a big school. If you want to make a difference in your work and be truly competent, you must listen more, watch more, think more, be cautious in your words and deeds, and combine your own personal practice with others' indirect experience to make yourself comfortable in your work. Confucius said that "cultivating the people" is a noble belief, feeling and social tolerance. As ordinary people, we have no ability to take care of our understanding. What we have to do is to do our job well from the first step. If everyone can do his job well, then the whole collective is harmonious and positive.
Fourth, we should correctly treat the gains and losses in life.
As an important spiritual heritage of the Chinese nation, The Analects of Confucius has great inheritance value, and there are many places worth learning, which can really be described as "learning without regrets". In particular, it is refreshing to see the book The Analects of Confucius written by Professor Peking University Yu Dan. What attracts me most is every short story confirmed in it. Although the content is brief, it contains many philosophies and principles of life. For example, Yu Dan told such a story in The Analects of Confucius, which impressed me deeply: there is a finely carved granite Buddha statue in a temple, and many people come to worship every day. The steps through the Buddha statue are also made of granite from the same mountain. The steps protested against the Buddha statue: I am a brother, so why should people step on us and worship you? What's so great about you? The Buddha said flatly, I thought it took you four knives to take the leadership position, and I took thousands of knives to become a Buddha. I tell you, when we compare with others consciously or unconsciously, the premise is that we are comparable. The key is that the comparative method should be scientific and reasonable. Through comparison, find the gap and generate pressure and motivation. Because of the logo, it is convenient to locate and determine the target. Its goal should be to make people progress. Compared with this, I feel much more peaceful in my heart and less resentful. As the saying goes, you have your happiness and I have my happiness.
Reading the Analects of Confucius teaches us a kind of wisdom, a correct attitude towards our own gains and losses, a rational view of our friends, a state of mind, and a rational morality integrated into real life. We often say today that climate, geographical location and harmony between people are the basis of national prosperity and career success, especially in today's efforts to create a harmonious society, harmony between people is particularly important.