Advance and retreat is a strategy, which varies from thing to thing. Indigenous people living in the Amazon basin have a deep understanding of this. When they meet a python, they will take a static approach and wait for the python to swallow themselves bit by bit. When they swallow their thighs, they will not hesitate to stab the python's eyes with the knife they carry, and take the opportunity to escape from the python's mouth. And when they meet rattlesnakes, they will immediately turn around and run. In this way, they often avoid disasters. This kind of advance and retreat has rich coping strategies. If you run when you meet a python, you will be tightly entangled with it, and it will get tighter and tighter until you suffocate. To deal with poisonous snakes like rattlesnakes, escape is the best way. Otherwise, once you get its venom, you will die immediately. Quiet as a virgin, moving as a rabbit. In different situations and environments, there should be two different strategies: advance and retreat.
Advance and retreat is a strategy, which varies from person to person and from ambition to ambition. Life and WTO entry have been diametrically opposed since ancient times. "Relatives or sorrow, others have songs. When Mr. Jing wrote this poem in Sang Jie, he was probably sitting in his own small yard, sipping wine made of chrysanthemum, savoring delicacies made of game, talking about farming and brewing poetry, and then he got the famous sentence "Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely". He doesn't want to follow the crowd, and he doesn't want to bend over for five buckets of rice. As a result, the sky above him vented in the sinkhole, which was extremely clear. He lived a quiet and leisurely life like a wild crane in the clouds. This is to abandon the official and retreat. Others chose to enter. Liu Huangshu was not easily denied by Wolong's sentence "I am an old man from Shan Ye, born lazy" ... ",but he visited the cottage and finally invited Zhuge Liang to" run for help "for him. This is also because Kong Ming hopes that he will have a chance to be born and achieve great achievements. So he became Liu Bei's strategist, the marquis of Shu, and Liu Chan's phase father ... Although he was still a "dead man before he could conquer" all his life, he should be satisfied. He doesn't have too many regrets, because he chose a road that he thought was the most suitable. After all, he showed his life and tried his best. From this perspective, he should be a winner-at least psychologically.
Going forward and going back seems to be just a choice between two words, but it is not. "One small step will be a lifelong regret." A little carelessness will make a big mistake and endanger life. Advance and retreat is a kind of strategy, which varies with people, events, feelings and circumstances. Therefore, when we need to make a choice, please carefully analyze and consider each step: forward or backward, so as to make our life better.