All men are created equal. I don't know how to say this sentence All men are created equal, yes, God gave everyone life to come into this world, which can be said to be equal. However, some people are born with thousands of pets, while others are born abandoned. Is this equality?
Objectively speaking, people are born unequal, and it is people's subjective desire to be born equal.
People can't choose what kind of family and social environment they were born in; If you can't decide your own talent, these objective factors may make everyone equal? Even opportunity can't make everyone equal. For human dignity and interpersonal communication, equality means treating others as people like themselves, and this kind of equality is what people can really do. But in today's society, deception is everywhere, and while people's selfish desires are gradually deepening, equality will really become a wish.
Equality is a simple word, but these two words are an ultimate idealized state. How can it be realized simply by saying it?
Respect, respect, respect.
The communication between people should be based on sincerity and respect. Only when people respect others can they respect themselves and win the respect of others.
Equality and respect seem inseparable. It is impossible to respect others if they are not treated equally; Respect others and gain respect for yourself. This is equality.
Equality and respect, this topic is too big to be understood in just a few words. This topic has been discussed since ancient times, but who can really understand it?
Chapter II: Equality and Respect I read an article "A Fantasy in Ma Xiaotiao" today. This article is mainly written like this: After school in the afternoon, Ma Xiaotiao wanted to play with his friends, but before he left the school gate, he was stopped by Luhmann. Luhmann said that the teacher asked Ma Xiaotiao to go to the office. Ma Xiaotiao didn't take it seriously. When he came to the office, Mr. Qin asked him as soon as he met. What happened today? In order to escape as soon as possible, Ma Xiaotiao admitted three mistakes in a row, but the teacher said there was another one. Ma Xiaotiao vowed that it was gone. Teacher Qin asked him to hand over Luhmann's notebook. "I didn't bring her!" Ma Xiaotiao refused to take it. But Mr Qin decided that Ma Xiaotiao took it, because it was all Ma Xiaotiao's performance. Ma Xiaotiao repeatedly explained that Miss Qin just wouldn't listen and asked Ma Xiaotiao to go back and write a check. The next day, Mao Chao promised to bring a small notebook. Ma Xiaotiao wished Miss Qin and Luhmann could admit that they were wrong, but they didn't apologize to Ma Xiaotiao.
After reading this article, I have a heavy heart and feel very wronged for Ma Xiaotiao. I can't help thinking about things between my classmates and me.
Once, I forgot to bring my eraser, so I borrowed it from my deskmate. But in the afternoon, the eraser disappeared. She said, "You must have taken it. For your own use. " I argued, "I didn't take your eraser." "Not who you are! Nobody borrowed my eraser! " "If you didn't take it, you didn't take it!" Then, she told the teacher that as soon as I got to the teacher's office, the teacher ordered me: "Hand over the eraser!" " "I was almost crying, so I thought, teacher, why don't you ask me wrong? I argued tearfully: "I didn't take it." "At this time, the deskmate came straight over in a hurry and told us breathlessly that the eraser was found and fell to the ground. Then she kept apologizing to me. The teacher became kind, came to my side, gently stroked my head and apologized to me. Suddenly my tears came down, and there were both grievances and happiness in those tears. I think I'm really happy, I get respect, and I'm much luckier than Ma Xiaotiao.
Hermit, we all deserve equal respect. Look at a person, don't wear colored glasses, be self-righteous, and respect everyone. Only with equal respect can we have a healthy, harmonious and perfect childhood!
I remember a year ago in winter, my mother took me to a remote village, where I lived a hard life for a few days and felt the life.
The car drove for several hours before reaching the destination, and then my mother and I chose an old farmer's house to live in. Walking into the ventilated house, I found that the old farmhouse was dirty and messy, and even the furniture was incomplete. The room was very cold, there was no heating, and a big fire pit was dug under the bed, as if to burn people to death. At this time, I was a little thirsty and asked my mother if she wanted coke Sprite. My mother said that this time I came to let you experience life, and I only gave you a bowl of cold water, which was dirty and broken ... At this moment, a little girl in rags suddenly came out, as if she were younger than me. Holding a brand-new teacup in her rough hand, she said to me, "Sister, please drink water! This is a new cup I bought with the money I usually saved. I haven't used it once, so I can't bear to use it. Now I'll give it to you. " Reluctantly, I picked up the cup, took a sip and put it on the table disdainfully.
It's very cold. Fortunately, I brought shuttlecock and skipping rope, and I wanted to go out for some exercise. But that little sister kept following me and said she wanted to play with me. I really have no choice but to agree. I thought to myself: you can't beat me anyway, and you will definitely lose. But unexpectedly, I played one hundred badminton, but she played one hundred and twenty. I think it might be a coincidence. Then I jumped rope. I didn't expect my rope to jump a hundred times, but she jumped a hundred and thirty times. Still unconvinced, I compared writing with her, but what I didn't expect was that children in our city usually use high-grade stationery, but my little sister used a rotten pen to write her homework, not to mention her beautiful handwriting in the exercise book. Later, I learned that my little sister had to climb two mountains to go to school. Looking at this young lady in front of me and thinking about myself, I bowed my head in shame.
After this incident, I deeply realized that poverty and wealth do not mean anything, and people are equal. If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others!
Chapter 4: The concept of parents who are nervous, relaxed, respectful and equal still exists, and today's new school has also started a series of practices to require today's children to have a good future. Next to the gate of XX school, we can see a huge piece of paper:
"Students who have entered shimen middle school are: XXX, XXX, XXX. ...
Students who have entered Nanhai Middle School are: XXX, XXXX, XXX. ...
Students who have entered Jiujiang Middle School are: XXX, XXX, XXX. ...
XX primary school shows "
This practice makes those children who have just entered primary school realize that "I must enter a key high school so that I can be on the list." However, who has ever thought about how many hardships and difficulties are hidden behind these children? Perhaps, some people think that this is just to make children more motivated and have a sense of urgency in advance. A child who has just turned six will begin to shoulder such a great responsibility, and at this age, shouldn't he enjoy that wonderful and happy childhood?
When I was in kindergarten, I had to take an exam every day. If I didn't get 100, I felt sorry for my parents. Worried about exams all day, I can think of exams in my dreams. Where is the happy childhood? In junior high school, the military training here is even more suffocating. Three big exams in one semester have been divided, but in the second day of junior high school, the so-called boarding classes and non-boarding classes have been divided, which is even more different. Non-boarding classes are competing to attend boarding classes; The students in the boarding class all want to be among the best in the class, and finally get a good ranking in the class, but the ranking in the class is far from that in the first grade! Every student tries his best to win the place in the class for himself, but the result is often unexpected, which makes us scared every day.
So soon there was such a heavy sense of oppression, and when I grew up, I had to adapt to life, the environment, the boss and so on. So what? Life, is it necessary to be so nervous?
I once saw a public opinion poll on TV, which was about "Do you agree with the implementation of the examination system in kindergartens?" The result is that 60% people disagree, 30% people agree, and the remaining 10% people don't care. Those who disagree believe that children should have a wonderful childhood and should not strangle their innocence and become slaves of learning in this flower season. Yes, learning so fast will only be a machine for homework. However, the behavior of this school has greatly deepened the pressure on our teenagers. Maybe the people on the list will feel very satisfied and happy. However, has this school ever thought about not going to that key high school, resulting in its anonymity on the list? What will their mood be like? Maybe it is a difference of one point; Maybe someone who is not so famous in high school now; Maybe this student is not suitable for the so-called arts and sciences, but wants to enroll in some technical schools. It's all possible. What will they think when they see a notice without their own name? Is it possible to feel inferior? If this school can think of these problems, not only the so-called grades, scores, but also the honor of the school. Can these seemingly useful things save a child's self-esteem? Achievements, grades and school honors are important, but can you be so indifferent to people's feelings? Seriously, it's unfair to wait for people and not look them in the eye!
Because of the fierce competition now, college students may not be able to find jobs, so people are forced to read blindly because of the situation, and finally they just read the dead books that white-haired people gave to black-haired people! Even if I can have a career when I grow up, will I feel lonely when I look back? Looking at your descendants, are you willing to make their childhood gray? Learning is easy and happy, but we make it a tense environment. Passive learning attitude and active learning attitude are completely different, and the results are completely different!
Living in ancient Zhou Enlai, I was determined to study for the rise of China since I was a child. Students from Jinlai studied to repay their parents, to study for a smooth employment, and to study for a better life. This sentence came from my friend in Zhou Enlai at that time. What is the difference between this and the previous feudal society?
A successful person is often cultivated by a child. However, this kind of training is learned from life, not from boring books. When reading, we should also have a childhood, have fun in study, find happiness in books and find happiness in class. This is what a child should do. Relax when you should relax, and be nervous when you should be nervous. Similarly, a dazzling person does not want to leave bad memories at his alma mater. However, this school is killing them. I have no position in this alma mater. I think that when I was studying in this alma mater, I was so hard and worried about studying every day. However, I don't have that amazing prestige today. Poor man!
Now, we should learn to respect the pillars of the motherland, pay more attention to their childhood, and make their childhood happier, more free and without regrets. Tension and relaxation must happen in the same life. The problem is how to solve it. In school, parents need to care, but they can't indulge their behavior. They should learn to treat others equally. There is also the old idea of son preference. I hope everyone here who once had this idea will correct it, because it is unfair to every girl. Let's have a happy childhood, when we relax, we will be nervous, and when we are nervous, we will relax, so that we can do it right!