The sky contains every cloud, whether it is beautiful or ugly, so the sky can be vast; High mountains contain every rock, no matter how big or small it is, so high mountains can be magnificent; The sea contains every spray, whether it is clear or turbid, so the sea can be vast. This is tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue and the most touching quality. In the modern society with fierce competition, it is inevitable to collide with each other. In our social interaction, things like losing money, being misunderstood and being wronged often happen. We certainly hope that these things will not happen, but once they do, the wisest choice is tolerance. Tolerance not only includes understanding and forgiveness, but also shows tolerance and mind, strength and firmness. Be tolerant of others, but give yourself happiness. Many people changed his life because of tolerance. Be tolerant of yourself, don't be too hard on yourself, be strict with yourself and be tolerant of others. This is the principle we abide by. So some people think that it is enough to be tolerant of others, but be hard on yourself. They should always remind themselves that they must work hard and try again, and they must never allow themselves to make any mistakes. If you make a little mistake, you can't forgive yourself, live in remorse and guilt all day, can't walk out of the shadow you set for yourself, and dare not try again, then a person's life is over. In fact, we don't need to do this at all, because we are not saints or immortals after all, and there is no need to think so much about ourselves. Let bygones be bygones. It's no use worrying about things unnecessarily. All our lives are spent in mistakes, and mistakes are not all meaningless. At least, they can help us learn a lesson and avoid making the same mistake again. In this case, we should not stay in the mistake itself and ruin our future. People make mistakes, and horses trip. Once they are wrong, is it really necessary to put an invisible shackle in their hearts? In order to continue to complete our own value, we must tear up the old calendar rationally and decisively, and then seek a new self and new happiness. To understand that a person must first know how to be kind to himself, in order to be kind to others better. If you don't cherish and respect yourself, being kind to others will become a bubble and empty talk. Don't be too hard on yourself. It is not only to face up to and tolerate your mistakes, but also to show that we should give ourselves a proper holiday, don't push ourselves too hard in everything, relax when it is time to relax, and why bother yourself. Some people know how to tolerate themselves, so they live happily; Others are worried, worried about a small mistake. This kind of life is a little depressed and a little regrettable. If life is a painting for you to paint, do you have the heart to make it full of gray? People who know how to paint must know how to live and know how to be happy. Only by being kind to yourself and forgiving yourself can you live happily. You know, living can never be the same as living, but living happily is really living. Busy people, please slow down your pace and enjoy the beautiful scenery around you; Nervous people, please listen to music to relieve your nervous nerves. Don't always bury yourself in learning to get the first place, and don't always study hard to get advanced. Try to realize what you wish, and don't make yourself miserable. Working hard and studying hard is for our better life. Why do we have to live so tired? Don't be too hard on yourself, you will find how wonderful life is.