Peace with others means equality, dullness and calmness. Treat every moment of life equally, treat every success or failure of life calmly, and wait for every ups and downs of life calmly. These are the three realms of life.
In ancient times, young people took their official career as their responsibility. No matter how many cold windows study hard in front and how many lights are on at midnight, their lofty ambition of "seeing the end of the world" can't be defeated. This is to treat life equally, treat the past and the future equally, and don't sell yourself short, let alone sell yourself short. The ancients did this, but today people can't?
With the youthful ambition of "pointing out the mountains and inspiring the writing", Runzhi completed the revolutionary road of the whole new China. He never lost his sight, walked his life calmly and started a new era. People born in troubled times can still have a wonderful life, while those born in peaceful times are ignorant. Why? Just because he has a wrong view of life.
People who despise life will be arrogant, and arrogant people will tie themselves up and tie themselves up. So sad! And those who treat life equally never waver, never waver. Its ambition is, how can life not be wonderful?
Therefore, people who treat life equally will have a wonderful life.
People who bear the burden of humiliation will know the meaning of insipid. If you don't panic when you are in trouble, you will have more space to do anything and less regret. If anger replaces it, you have nothing to regret when the world is a foregone conclusion. Be a plain person, be more self-disciplined and less ostentatious, be a sensible brother and be filial to a child.
Therefore, people who look at life in a dull way will surely achieve great things.
However, equal and plain people are not as good as calm people.
Ji Lao, a master of Chinese studies, once said, "As long as people live for one day, there will be a dusk at the end of this day." The highest state of life is to know that "a dead life is a false birth and Peng Qi's sadness is an illusion". Looking back on the course of life is like "suddenly looking back, that person is in a dim light." This is also a calm person's perception of life.
Therefore, calm people do not pursue official positions, fame and fortune, stay aloof from the world and return to their hearts.
Equal people have a wonderful life, and ordinary people have achieved their careers and returned to their hearts calmly. Treat his life with peace of mind, and flower of life will bloom in the world.
The true meaning of life is not impetuousness, but peace.