dignity
Self-esteem and dignity are no longer strange to us. However, in today's society, there are many people who defend their own dignity and many people who trample on others' self-esteem.
I don't know when an uninvited guest came to the snack street, a dirty beggar in rags. No matter who walks by, they will give him a look of disgust. I am no exception.
In a small talk, you talked about him, and I disdained to say: You have hands and feet, but you want something for nothing. Such people deserve it! ? Luo gave me a helpless look and said, who would hire a fool? Exiled from a mental hospital, it's good to be living and wandering now. ? I was shocked to hear that. I only know that he was exiled here, but I never knew he was.
Since then, every time I see him, I have less contempt and disdain in my eyes, only sympathy and a little admiration. Unfortunately, there are many factors that help him.
I sympathize with this unexpected guest; I respect these artists.
When I am at home, I often see people begging at home. I hate it when they disturb the unique tranquility of small villages. Holding the erhu is harsh, and the wooden sign is scratching. The villagers regard them as plagues. When you see them from a distance, close the door at once as if no one were at home.
One day, sitting in a daze on the balcony, I saw a pair of beggars playing erhu brought in by Dad. I was curious and ran down the stairs. Noise? Coming over, I couldn't help frowning and looking at them with a little complaint, but I accidentally saw their smiles, not the kind of fake smiles that I usually bow my head when begging, as if from the heart, accompanied by excitement, I was lost in thought, and a compliment brought me back to reality. At this time, they are receiving money from ABBA. But what seems different is that the original bent waist is straight?
After seeing them off, I looked at my father. He just patted me on the head with an ambiguous smile and said that dignity is not only priceless, but also equal. ? I stayed alone in the yard, thinking. Suddenly, I had an epiphany, and I understood.
No one wants to be a beggar who gets something for nothing and looks at others' faces. That is equivalent to giving up the most important dignity as a person. However, because of the pressure of life, they have to put down their self-esteem. But I still hope to get the money they need through labor, because what I get in this way is not charity, but reward! The erhu in their hands is the best proof. Here, I apologize to them, because of my ignorance and arrogance, I despised, hated and hated them more than once. If I don't know how to reflect, what qualifications do I have as a person?
dignity
A dignified person must respect all dignified personalities. Similarly, if you insult one person, you insult everyone and yourself.
Napoleon, who defeated the anti-French alliance several times and built a formidable career, proudly said in front of the monarch of the small country after conquering it. Surrender to me and you can get anything you want in this world. ? Unexpectedly, the monarch said: I just want to get the inch of land under your feet. ? This story tells us that no matter how small people or things are, they all have dignity. Anyone who wants to trample on the dignity of others is just embarrassing himself.
Give another example that everyone likes to hear. On the court, if a player swears at another player in order to change the situation, he doesn't care about the dignity of another player. Then the attacked player may have two reactions. One is that blood rushes to the forehead and directly tells the other person how stupid his behavior is with his fist. Second, respect your opponent and win the game with your own strength, so as to shut him up. Don't think about the result of the first behavior: being banned, fined and bombarded by the media after the game, not only failed to protect their dignity, but made them lose more. The second method is different, which can not only win the game, but also gain the respect of others.
Maybe someone will ask: Is a person's dignity really so noble and invulnerable?
In fact, each of us has some defects, such as rights, property, knowledge, appearance and so on. When you are in a weak state, you often feel inferior, but your dignity will come out to help you overcome this inferiority complex and thus stand upright in this society.
Therefore, when you hurt the dignity of the other person, you actually hit his most vulnerable place. How can this be tolerated?
Therefore, the most important thing in dealing with people is to respect each other and safeguard their dignity.
But there is such a person in this world who has no sense of dignity and makes no sense. I don't know what to do once I meet them. Because I think the only basis of communication is dignity, and the only weapon to fight with others is reason, I have to believe that such people are separated from us by infinite distance. For such people, we should not keep silent, but tell them the true meaning of being a man from practical actions.
Dignity is the lower limit of being a man. Only those who protect the dignity of themselves and others will be respected by others, but at the same time, dignity is the upper limit. It is the noblest part of the human spirit, and people are not allowed to touch it easily. Therefore, it is very important for us to grasp the degree and scale of dignity. Dignity, sometimes like a naughty child, can't be too spoiled or too strict. When you smile at him, he will give you a sweeter response.
It is better to live with dignity than to live well.
As the saying goes? Can a scholar be killed without humiliation? In other words, I would rather lose my life? Don't give up on yourself, okay? We should live with dignity. Lost dignity, lost self-esteem, that is, lost the foundation of life, no dignity means no backbone.
An American writer wrote about his personal experience: once he was walking in the street, a beggar asked him for money, but he searched all his pockets and couldn't find any money, so he said helplessly, sorry, brother, there is really no money. ? Just when he felt very helpless, the beggar said, Sir, did you call me? Brother? You put me on the same line as you, and it's ten thousand times more honored than giving me money. ?
American writers inadvertently gave the beggar dignity, gave him human dignity and gave him backbone. Let beggars feel that they are not humble.