Talk to young patients about progress and retrogression in life. There will always be advances and retreats in the course of life. Only when people advance and retreat can they handle their own lives well. When you are young, when you are not sick, you must enter! Progress requires effort, struggle, responsibility and frustration. Every time you do something, as long as you have worked hard and struggled, success is the best, and there is no need to regret failure. When you are old or not, but you are seriously ill, you need to retreat, return to calm and return to indifference. Be kind to your retirement and accept it calmly. Some patients are young, and after more than five years of rehabilitation, they quit this society, unwilling to go back to work, and their inner choices are very difficult. Go ahead, once your immunity drops due to overwork, you will be in poor health. By that time, your family will blame you, outsiders will laugh at you, and it will be too late for you to regret it. Don't go, I'm still young, I'm well, I have no job at home all day, and I can't help being lonely. After work, I have the feeling of returning to society, extensive crowd communication and emotional sustenance. I feel that I am useful to society again, and my heart is comforted. You can also earn some money to supplement your family. Why not? However, there is a problem that needs to be clarified. The "five-year cure rate" in medicine only means that there are no specific manifestations of cancer in the past five years, and the body surface is asymptomatic. This is called "clinical cure", that is, benign tumor or appendicitis is either removed or "completely cured". Although cancer has no specific symptoms in the body for five years or even longer, once you are tired, your immunity will decline, and the course of the disease will be difficult to grasp. No one can predict the future development. Therefore, it is not impossible to go to work, but we must master the sense of proportion, don't be overworked, don't have too much pressure, and don't have mental pain. Then do it. But to be thorough, the work will never be finished and the money will never be enough. But life is really limited, 20 this year, and it will not change next year 18. Life is too short. If you walk like this, you can't go back, which requires us to make a good choice. Now that today's things have retired and returned to freedom, your family has no worries about food and clothing, which objectively makes you make the best choice in order to live this short life. Everyone thinks differently about life and lives in different ways. They can only choose to advance and retreat according to their own situation. It takes courage to move forward and calmness to retreat. You don't have to worry about what other people think. What others say can only be used for reference. In short, whether you are going forward or retreating, you must do it according to your own ideas in the end, because only you know yourself best.