Self-confidence is a life attitude that modern people should have. On the other hand, believe in yourself, that is, believe in yourself. We should believe in ourselves. If you don't believe in yourself, what else in this world is worth believing in? Only by believing in yourself can we establish confidence in success and move towards success. Many people are not confident because of inferiority complex. They don't think they can do it. They have given up hope. So can they expect hope from others? So I think believing in yourself is the cornerstone of success. But that doesn't mean we can refuse to listen to other people's opinions. "Go your own way and let others talk!" It sounds chic, but no one can really do it. It is true that we should stick to our beliefs and not be interfered by outsiders. But when others give you sincere advice, I think you should accept it with an open mind. "All bets are off, but modest gains" means that overconfidence will lead to losses, while accepting others' opinions modestly will be beneficial, which requires us to learn to correctly handle the relationship between believing in ourselves and listening to others' opinions.
Believe in yourself instead of blindly believing in yourself, accept others' opinions with an open mind instead of blindly following, fully understand and know yourself, know your own ability and kindness, fully believe in your own self-confidence and kindness, listen to others' opinions properly in areas you don't know much about or when you don't know much about them, and make correct judgments based on your own ideas.
The road of life is very long, and the progress is full of thorns. We always face turning points again and again. How to take every step well depends on our own choice. No one can help us, we must rely on ourselves, we must believe that every step we take is correct and go on without regrets. People who often ask for directions won't get lost. We can't rely on others, but we can ask others for advice and find new ways. In the process of growing up, we gradually know how to believe in ourselves. It's like listening to others' well-intentioned advice, taking your own path and accepting others' rational correction. The road seems to be no longer rugged, and we seem to see hope on the other side.
"Believing all people's mistakes is the same as doubting all people's mistakes." We are opposed to extreme thoughts, and we also have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Correctly understand your own position and ideas, think carefully about others' opinions, combine believing in yourself with listening to others' opinions, carefully and firmly take every step of your life, and you will surely see a rainbow not far away.
Fan Wen-er on modesty: "Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind." This sentence has benefited me a lot. I think having a modest heart is the foundation of being a man.
There are two kinds of people in this society. The first kind: self-satisfaction and self-expansion after small achievements, showing off everywhere. The second type: not satisfied with your own success, keep learning from others with an open mind. The first kind of people will never make progress and always stand in the middle of the runway of life. The second kind of people will make progress again and again and eventually reach the peak of their lives.
I have developed the bad habit of being proud. I am a very arrogant person. When I was in kindergarten, my father often said, "Alas! Still so young, I have formed such a bad habit. How to do it in the future? " At that time, I was not sensible. What my father says always goes in one ear and out the other. I don't care at all. I often think in my heart, I am yes in kindergarten, anything will do, and I am often praised by teachers, hum! I'm not afraid! But in retrospect, I was just a little better than others at school. I could finish my homework, dance and draw on time.
This bad habit didn't change until last year, because of one thing. That was when I first entered the third grade. As the knowledge I learned became more and more difficult, I was a little at a loss in my study, which led to the gradual instability of my grades. Many units are not as full as before, and I only got 80 points on several occasions. On the contrary, students whose grades are not as high as mine are getting better and better. I began to reflect on myself. It turns out that I am proud of my good grades. I am often distracted when the teacher tells me some simple knowledge in class. When class is over, I always actively go to the playground to play, while other students are seriously previewing their lessons. If you don't understand, go to the office and ask the teacher, including some students whose grades are better than mine.
I regret it so much that I suddenly feel like a defeated rooster. But I am not discouraged. At this time, I suddenly remembered a famous saying of Confucius: "A threesome requires a teacher." This sentence means that in a group of people, everyone has his own advantages worth learning. I suddenly realized, put down my pride, and learn their brilliance from every classmate with an open mind. I hope I will not be arrogant even if I get a little achievement in my future exams and life.
After this, I got rid of the bad habit of pride. I have been thinking about this sentence: modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind.