Reading a work can give us a lot of enlightenment. At this time, how can the most critical feelings be reviewed? How to write a good book review? The following is my review of family education lectures (5 selected articles) for your reference, hoping to help friends in need.
Comments on lectures on family education 1 I watched the lectures on family education in Lu Qin, which really benefited me a lot. As a child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds have a profound influence on children, and family education plays a vital role in children's life. So for parents, parenting and education are equally important. Let me share with you my feelings after watching the lecture:
First of all, after watching her lecture, I know what I am facing as a parent in the new century. Let us know that as parents, we should keep learning and adapt to the era of informationization, networking, modernization and digitalization, because our children are born in the new century. As parents in the new century, we should also let our children experience the society personally and let them know how to be grateful to the society, just as Teacher Lu said.
Secondly, there is a sentence in Teacher Lu's speech that most educates me. She said that parents should have a normal mind, and their mentality directly affects their children's life. Any parent with a good attitude will have a happy child around him. Parents with bad attitudes will have a disabled child around them. Don't compare your children with others' children, don't let vanity hurt your children, don't let compensation replace your normal heart, give your children courage and give them their own sky.
Finally, after listening to Lu Qin's lecture, I deeply feel that parents are good teachers and friends on the road of children's growth. Without the guidance of tutors and the care of friends, there will be no happy growth process. We can't help children for life and accompany them for life. "It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish." Leaving children money, houses, cars and other wealth, it is better to teach children good habits so that they can benefit for life. As parents, let's be the best audience for children, cheer for their efforts and cheer for their growth! Whether it's success.
Success or failure, let our understanding accompany children to grow up. Spend more time with children reading, playing and listening to their voices.
In short, loving children is to fulfill an educational responsibility; Love does not do everything for children, but teaches children to be self-reliant, self-reliant, self-respecting and self-loving; Love is not a rude command, but fully respects children's hobbies and explores their potential abilities and advantages; If you love children, don't turn them into flowers in the greenhouse, but let them fly freely like petrels and face difficulties bravely. Let's remember what Teacher Lu Qin said and practice hard from now on!
Comments on Family Education Lecture 2 This morning, I watched the program "Family Education for Primary and Secondary School Students" taught by teacher Wang Kun, mainly expounding the three major educations that affect children's life, the five major strengths that parents give their children, and the six major ideas on how to awaken children. The lecture focuses on the relationship between parents and children, connecting with life examples, running through ancient and modern China and foreign countries, and the content is simple. It teaches and dispels doubts at the level of family education, and it also benefits our parents a lot.
As the first button of a child's life, parents' family education is very important, and the power of example should not be underestimated, which plays an important guiding role in world outlook, values and outlook on life. From ancient times to the present, parents generally have very high educational expectations for their children, and most of them aim at "looking forward to their children's success" and "looking forward to their daughters' success". But do parents live up to their children's expectations? Why do children evolve from parents they adore in childhood to rebellious parents in adolescence? Are you a good role model? These questions go straight to the heart, and every sentence goes to the bone, which gives me a deeper understanding and feeling of the word "role model" and a clearer understanding of the weight of parents as "role models" in children's hearts.
As a parent of a senior one student, senior three is a special but wonderful, difficult and important life journey. We need to spend * * * with our children, grow * *, and achieve * * *. On the one hand, we should try to be a good example. "Never too old to learn", learning is the homework of the whole family. In the process of doing homework with children on weekends, read classics, read Chinese and foreign history books, learn professional knowledge, provide a strong family learning atmosphere and give children endogenous learning motivation. Under the background of "double drop" policy and college entrance examination reform, students' participation and parents' treasures should become the past, and the all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty is no longer the slogan of quality education. Our parents need to practice and implement in family education, be honest and trustworthy, set an example, study hard, keep fit, be gentle and modest, be good at persuading, respect and love labor. On the other hand, we should look for good examples. There are many good examples worthy of respect and admiration in history and life, such as the great founding head of state, epidemic prevention medical staff, brave fire officers and soldiers, and hard-working farm gardeners. With the rapid development of China's economy and society, the unique educational value of labor education may not have been paid enough attention. It is very important to set an example for children's work, which cannot be involved in school education. We should educate and guide children to admire and respect labor at home and understand that labor is the most glorious, sublime, greatest and beautiful truth.
Comments on Family Education Part III: Healthy psychology is the necessary condition and foundation for a person's all-round development. Excellent psychological quality plays an important role in improving the overall quality of universities, and will certainly have a positive and far-reaching impact on the quality of talents in the 2 1 century. As a college student, you should first have this excellent and healthy psychological quality.
Mental health refers to a state in which people have a sense of stability in the internal environment and can adapt to any form of external environment in society. In other words, when they encounter any obstacles and difficulties, their psychology will not be out of balance, and they can be overcome by appropriate behavior. This stable and adaptive state is a state of mental health.
Mental health is the foundation of college students' success. Mental health can promote the all-round development of college students' healthy psychological quality, which is the basic requirement of college students' all-round development, and it is also an important condition for them to go to society in the future, play their intellectual level in their jobs, actively engage in social activities, and constantly develop to a higher level. Fully understanding the harmonious development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor is based on healthy psychological quality, which directly affects and restricts the realization of all-round development.
Mental health can help college students overcome their dependence on psychology and enhance their independence. After hard work and fierce competition, college students bid farewell to middle schools, enter universities and enter a brand-new world of life. College students must shift from relying on their parents to relying on themselves. Before they went to college, the university they imagined was like heaven, romantic, strange and wonderful. After going to college, it is difficult for them to adapt to the intense study, strict discipline and living environment. Therefore, college students must attach importance to mental health, overcome dependence as soon as possible, enhance independence, actively adapt to college life, and live a full and meaningful college life.
Mental health is a solid psychological foundation for college students to achieve career success. At present, the distribution of China university graduates has changed greatly. College students all implement the methods of meeting supply and demand, two-way selection and merit-based employment. Competition in choosing a job will inevitably make college students feel psychologically confused and uneasy.
Mental health is beneficial for college students to cultivate healthy personality psychology. The psychological characteristics of college students' personality refer to the various characteristics that they often and stably display in psychology and behavior, usually in two main aspects: temperament and personality. Temperament mainly refers to the characteristics of emotional reflection, and personality includes not only the characteristics of temperament, but also the characteristics of will reflection. The psychological characteristics of contemporary college students are generally characterized by active thinking, good at independent thinking, strong sense of participation and abundant mental state, which are conducive to the healthy growth of college students.
In my opinion, mental health is an optimistic attitude towards life and study. Have a correct sense of self-subjectivity, be able to master self-control emotions, properly handle the relationship between classmates and teachers and students, actively integrate into the group, love learning, and better adapt to the new environment.
College life is very different from middle school life, but in college, we still need to adhere to a strong interest in learning and desire for job hunting. Learning is the main task of a university. If you are interested in learning, you can consciously jump into the vast ocean of knowledge, desperately absorb new knowledge, develop various skills and improve your own quality. At the same time, we should actively participate in various innovation competitions, so that the multi-directional development of thinking can also exercise our hands-on ability. What deserves more attention is English. English has become a trend in modern society, and it can also be said that it is one of the necessary qualities for everyone, so spoken English is more important.
College students should adhere to positive and optimistic mood, cheerful mood, full of confidence and expectation for the future. Actively participate in student unions, youth league committees, etc. It not only enriches college life but also exercises self-skills. Everyone is eager to get a platform to show themselves and make themselves a bright spot. Actively participate in extracurricular activities and develop social relations. Colorful extracurricular activities not only enrich the life of college students, but also provide opportunities for their healthy development. College students should cultivate a variety of interests, develop hobbies, participate in various extracurricular activities, give full play to their potential, cheer up their spirits, relieve tension and maintain physical and mental health. But when you encounter sad things, you should learn to adjust yourself properly, express and control your emotions.
As a college student in the 2 1 century, we should constantly strengthen the training of psychological qualities such as adaptability, endurance, control, willpower, thinking, creativity and self-confidence, and truly understand that if we want to occupy the future, we should not only do a good job in ideological and moral, intellectual and physical reserves, but also be prepared to overcome various difficulties and setbacks, so as to scientifically get out of the misunderstanding of self-knowledge, renew our concepts, break through time and space, and surpass ourselves.
Comments on Family Education Lecture 4 Today, I was lucky enough to watch Wang Kun's family education lecture, which really benefited me a lot. With the theme of "Five Forces for Children to Go from Excellence to Excellence", the lecture shared with parents how to educate their children scientifically and correctly. As the child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds are influencing the child, and family education plays a vital role in the child's life. So for parents, parenting and education are equally important.
So, as parents, how should we educate our children scientifically and correctly? Let me share with you some feelings after watching the lecture.
First of all, I learned from The Power of Awakening and The Power of Discovery that we should know children correctly. Every child is unique. Love is not to fill a basket, but to light a child's heart. To awaken children, it is necessary to cultivate children's "six views": to awaken children's health view and cultivate their vigorous vitality; Awaken children's outlook on life and let them have dreams and ambitions; Awaken children's wealth view, children who don't know money have no future; Awaken children's values and let them know how to behave; Awaken children's love concept and let them know the bottom line, ethics and principles; Wake up children's world outlook and let them experience the world more. Parents should not criticize their children blindly, but should discover their talents and advantages, help them display their talents and advantages, and accompany and understand them.
Secondly, I realize the importance of parents setting an example from the "power of example". Parents should create a good family learning atmosphere, create a positive communication atmosphere, keep their word, and be punctual and trustworthy. Parents should teach their children how to respect, the rules of being a man, the rules of doing things, and the rules of social morality. Parents are arrogant, children are arrogant, parents are modest, children are humble, parents are immoral, and children are unqualified. Husband and wife should be harmonious, loving and filial to their elders.
Then, I learned from The Power of Love that the most important reason for children to lose their temper is that they don't feel love. Many parents will say that they love their children very much, so how to love their children correctly? We should love our children completely, and children should be advantages in parents' hearts. Let children feel their parents' love with tolerance and encouragement, be a loving child, love themselves, parents, teachers, classmates, schools and society, and children will naturally be sunny and cheerful.
Finally, I learned from the "power of faith" that parents should trust their children. Children are what parents type in. Encouragement can turn an idiot into a genius, and criticism can turn a genius into an idiot. If you scold a child, he will not love you, but he will not love himself. Never attack, criticize and abuse your children. No matter what your children do, they are not as good as others. He or she is also your unique child, so you must trust, encourage and support your child.
Parents who love their children should fulfill their educational responsibilities. Let's practice family education together and teach children to know self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-reliance.
Comments on Family Education Lecture 5 Our son, Xu Kaiwa, is a third-grade student of Anjuyuan Primary School in Hefei, with excellent academic performance. He published a short paper in the magazine King of Mathematics, and our parents are often proud of their children. Here, I want to share with you some thoughts and experiences in the process of cultivating children. Please forgive me if there is any mistake.
First, cultivate children's interest in learning and let them "learn happily"
Xu has loved learning since he was a child. Our parents have seen this characteristic of children very well, paying special attention to cultivating children's interest in learning and protecting their interest in learning, so that children have always regarded learning as a very happy thing since childhood. Our parents never set learning tasks for their children, but often guide them through games, such as counting 24 points with playing cards and playing computer educational game software in the early days. The most important thing is that whenever a child is found to have made progress in learning and mastered some new knowledge, parents should praise him without stint, enhance his happiness in learning, and guide and cultivate his habit of loving learning.
Second, don't put pressure on children to study, and help them decompress when appropriate.
Children's minds are fragile, and too much pressure may have a negative impact on children and even lose interest in learning. Our parents never put pressure on their children to study, did not ask them to get more points in the exam, and so on. Sometimes Xu Kaiping does badly in tests or exams, and he is particularly depressed. At this time, our parents often protect, comfort, encourage and help their children to relieve the pressure, let him get rid of the shadow of failure quickly, and then sum up the reasons for the last failure after a while. We feel that this not only protects children, but also teaches them how to face failure correctly.
Third, cultivate children's habit of conscious learning and autonomous learning.
Parents should not accompany their children when they are studying, so that they can develop the habit of autonomous learning and conscious learning. Every day after school, Xu basically finishes his homework quickly before his parents go home. After children finish their homework, they can watch TV or do other things according to their own wishes. Our parents never interfere. In this way, it not only cultivates children's ability to study consciously and independently, but also develops a good habit of not procrastinating in homework.
Fourth, respect children's interests and pay attention to cultivating children's good interests.
When Xu was very young, when he saw other children learning musical instruments, our parents signed him up to learn electronic piano according to their own ideas, but the children were not interested in learning piano and cried when they practiced. Looking at the sad look of the child, we reflected on our own practices and finally decided to let the child give up learning the piano. This incident has also been affecting our educational philosophy. We should respect children's interests rather than parents' wishes. Parents should pay attention to cultivating children's good interests, lead children to experience some activities instead of compulsion, guide some of his good interests, such as learning, let children experience happiness in the process of learning, and regard learning as a happy thing.
Fifth, pay attention to praise children's strengths and specialties and enhance their self-confidence.
Children often do not know what advantages and specialties they have. Our parents should be good at discovering children's advantages and specialties, guiding children to play their own advantages and specialties, and enhancing their self-confidence. Like all children, Xu has advantages in some aspects and disadvantages in others. Our parents often pay attention to praise children's advantages and consciously guide them to participate in some projects with their own advantages. On the one hand, give play to children's specialties, and more importantly, cultivate children's self-confidence.
Sixth, pay attention to communication with children.
We often communicate with children on an equal footing, encourage them to express their feelings and emotions, understand their emotions, and adopt an open and inclusive attitude towards everything they say. We sometimes let them take part in some adult activities. In the process of communication, not only can we grasp the children's dynamics, but more importantly, we can arouse the children's pride and sense of responsibility as a man through equal dialogue.
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