Everyone has the right to love someone, but also the right to choose love. Love and being loved are not a person's business, so I hope everyone can read this piece of advice from psychologists to men and women in love in a certified way. Whether you are in love or not, you should watch it several times. If you like, please reprint and share.

People who regard love as passion often regard love as a game. When they are tired for a long time, they will change roles. No matter how they change, love is just a game that wastes youth and plays with others. If the actor is serious, Shakespeare will have another play.

Love is not a game, this is the most common slogan for men and women in love, because feelings can't be hurt, but not many people can really treat love as a game. They will have a big fight or even break up because of something irrelevant. They can say that this is not a game, but a life.

There is nothing wrong with a person's personality, but he is too self-centered. Because what you think may not be what others can think, if you want the other person to know, you might as well compromise, temporarily put down your personality and make the love story beautiful.

The so-called character is nothing more than character. There is no need to explain how personality is produced. People who don't understand ask Baidu. We only talk about love here.

Everyone has his own understanding of love and has many requirements for love. No matter how you understand the requirements, there is no doubt that there are only two choices, emotional and material.

In today's era, the first choice for the post-90s generation is that more people care about material things before feelings. The relative rationality of the post-80s generation means that material and feelings are on the same starting line. Only a few people will put their feelings first, so the divorce rate is now 30%, which means that one third of 100 couples will divorce at a specific time, and there is an upward trend.

In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, most people put material things first. Everyone has a morbid psychology of not getting what they want, but not cherishing it. So when they get what they want, they will come back and put their feelings first, so they have an affair and let more mistresses debut.

This is the era of mistresses flooding. The fundamental reason is that most men are lewd, while women are young and easy to get old. He became someone else's mistress when he was young. After marriage, their husbands went to find other mistresses, so countless families broke up, not because of material things, but because of mutual suspicion of feelings.

Material society needs emotional dependence more. If there is only material things without feelings, there is no doubt that the wealth you have won for face and vanity is just a cloud. Love without feelings will not last long. Maybe young and beautiful can win a good impression for several years, but when you are no longer young and beautiful, what is left? What else can we rely on to consolidate a family with material security? It's always women who get hurt when a marriage breaks up. Second-hand women will never be on the same level as second-hand men.

Everyone can't live without material things, and even more can't live without feelings. Even the escort has feelings. Their love was buried in a brothel only because of their parents' indifference and social incomprehension. There was Du Shiniang in ancient times, but now there is Xifeng. A person can have no money for the time being, but he must have no feelings.

Money is a thing outside the body. Not now doesn't mean never. Now some may not always be there, but only feelings will never change.

In fact, most boys value girls' beauty and youth, while girls really value each other's career and family.

The difference between traditional love and free love is that others mainly introduce age and have to get married. The value of reference is what material guarantee the other party can give me and how much youth and beauty the other party can give me. We can create new human beings without making too many mistakes in simple language. Men and women who are in free love will put their feelings first, and of course, they will not rule out lewd and rich people. They came together because they like each other, so material is in the second place for the time being. Instead of talking about whether there is a house and how much money there is, as introduced.

According to the survey, the marriage ratio of free love after 80s and 90s is 3: 2, and the divorce ratio is 1:3. In other words, the post-90s generation is still very young. In this impetuous society, they have hastily created the next generation before they can understand love. Tragedy is not only for themselves, but also for the next generation affected by the disagreement between their parents.

Don't take material things too seriously. What can't run is yours, not yours. Even if you get it, you can certainly do things. Advise young friends that money is earned by people, but feelings can never be earned. Don't get temporary satisfaction and block your life. Don't care what the world says, because your tragedy can only be understood by yourself. No one will share any for you.

Filial piety can't buy your own happiness, because your unhappiness will make the original filial piety pale and powerless, and the poor after 50 s and 60 s are afraid, so the first thing they choose for their children is material. In their naive and short-sighted eyes, material can guarantee everything, but they are wrong, times are different, and materials without feelings are just graves. Feelings are cultivated, but the premise must be that neither of them has a history of love. Otherwise, suspicion will remind each other of their past, and contradictions are inevitable. Maybe they will hold back their tears for their children, but neither of them may think so.

Love is actually very simple, but everyone makes it too complicated. Through comparison and contrast, they always compare their love with that of others. They got married in America, and they ate snacks together ... you have to remember, it was someone else's love. If you want to live that life, then end your existing love and find someone who can give you that life, instead of blindly comparing. People just don't feel satisfied, they only see the good of others and their own bad. You didn't see others fighting for divorce, and you didn't see your lover willing to be unknown for his own happiness.

People who don't know how to cherish always think that they are cherishing, and they are angry with others because they don't know how to cherish themselves. Some things must not be one, and they are endless from the beginning. Maybe his love vows to you can bind him for life, but over time, I believe that love vows will deteriorate and will not be as simple as they were at the beginning.

If you love someone, don't be stingy with your vows. Even if you know you can't do it, at least let the other person know that you have this idea. I believe that there is not a couple who have never vowed to each other. Although they can do very little, love sometimes needs this hypocrisy. After all, beautiful hypocrisy will make people happy for a short time. Some love ends in breaking up, mostly because the society is too realistic and has to be separated. In fact, this is a big lie. What is the relationship between your love and the real society? I can only say that I feel the same way. Society has always been like this, and reality has never changed. What did you do when you first fell in love? If the society is so cruel, will the other party be restricted by the real society forever? Why are so many people still not defeated by the so-called real society?

People who cannot face the reality will never be happy, because it is their hypocrisy that leads to the so-called real society. Society is unrealistic. What kind of society is that? There is nothing wrong with reality. Society is still so bad. It's just an excuse for deceiving yourself.

Love has a shelf life. When you hurt each other countless times, the original love will quietly go away. Not all apologies are debts. Not everything is broad-minded. That is a kind of helpless heartache. You can see my distant back, but you can't see that I'm going to hell.

/kloc-love at the age of 0/6 is just a kind of like, a kind of fun, and there is not much future, because love at that age is still unknown. Love at the age of 20 can also be understood as a continuation of youth. If you break up, you will soon find a new lover. Love at the age of 24 is profound. In the years of love, they tolerate each other and strive for each other. If they break up, they may become friends, or they may get drunk and cry a few times, and then forget the relationship in a few years. 26-year-old love has faced the choice of marriage. On the basis of feelings, we know each other better. If we break up, only a few people will be indifferent to that relationship. Love at the age of 30 can't afford to be hurt. If the flowers bloom, it will only be this time. Maturity doomed the tragedy after the breakup. Because people in this era have buried love and dislike in their hearts, and no one can replace them.

40-year-old love, career is basically fixed, feelings are relatively affected by reality, there is almost no love at all, just afraid of loneliness. If you break up, there are only two words: whatever. 50-year-old love, if you have a mistress, the best compensation for breaking up is the 60-year-old love. If you break up, you will get back together because there is no passion for love.

It can be seen that the feelings after breaking up are different at different ages, so don't break up after a year of passion, because you can't get it back, and what you want may not be as beautiful as you think.

Why do you always look up to others because you don't know them well enough? Just like Zhao Zhongxiang, the famous host of CCTV, he is the idol of many people. He may be a standard lover model husband after 60' s and 70' s. It can be said that he is a rare person, no matter in manners, popularity or material, but he is such a perfect person. If you get close to him or even become his wife, you will have a chance to regret that your original dream turned out to be just a nightmare, and the seemingly gentle people turned out to be a family. This is just a small official report. After all, it is detrimental to the image of CCTV. If we say something related to Weiss decryption, it is easy to be reconciled by relevant departments under the banner of maintaining stability. Not much to say, just warning everyone not to just look at the appearance, but to pay attention to the heart.

In love, nobody is right or wrong. Without it, there is no reason. Everything happens for a reason. Many things are simple. It is because of my misjudgment and personality that simple things become complicated and even break up. How can people who are injured as a result continue?

If you no longer love, then choose to break up, because you have the right to be loved and the right to choose to love, and don't hurt each other. Turn against each other. Some things you do may be a temporary trend, but the consequences may be a lifelong scar, or even ruin a person's fate. If you can't fix it, if you don't have enough ability to fix it, then don't take any chances. Think about what the worst consequences will be or what you want to achieve.

Empathy is the best medicine to keep love fresh. More care, more understanding, more tolerance, less self, less demands, less harm, you will gain more, not lose anything.

Love is not temporary, but a lifetime. You can't ruin the happiness of two people for a lifetime because of a temporary impulse. If you know the result clearly, then don't say you are sorry. Obviously, 10,000 sorry sentences are just an excuse for being irresponsible to yourself.

When prosperity confuses the eyes of love, when loneliness invades your heart, then you should stop talking about love. Any beautiful excuse is just a true lie. There is only one result of love, and that is to be together.

I can't stand loneliness and I can't be happy. Cherish is not just asking others, and you are not the only one who can say sorry. If you love, love deeply and love once without reservation. If you don't love, separate, completely separate, don't say sorry, because you don't love anyone, who will you say sorry to?

There is a lot of helplessness in life. Helplessness is not just someone's patent. Others can overcome it and you don't, which means you haven't really paid. If two people love each other, there should be less helplessness.

Love is simple, embrace each other and wait for the end of the world.

Love has no excuse, just as love has no reason. Love is love, and loving each other is like loving yourself. Two people holding hands, walking in the wind and rain or hugging tightly in the cold wind, don't care about the vulgar eyes of the world, only care about the hands that hold each other. Whether they are rich or poor, they are temporary. As long as two people can be together, what can be happier than this?

As long as you are hungry, you will hopefully become a billionaire, unless you refuse to trust each other's abilities. As long as you don't give up, you will be happy all your life. You don't know that you will fail if you don't try.

People who love each other should not break up easily, and they will be hurt once. If you are destined to be inseparable, you should cherish each other. One day they will suffer, one day they will hate and one day they will be happy. Everything is temporary. Don't be a victim of love because you can't stand a moment's injustice, let alone never apologize because of a moment's mistake. No one will look down on you if you make a mistake, because you cherish love.

In the face of love, everyone will make some mistakes. When you know that you are wrong, you should speak up. People who love you will not oppose you because love is tolerant. When you love someone, you should concentrate, regardless of intentional or unintentional indifference, and tell the other person that love has come to an end.

Love can't stand being hurt, let alone waiting. He said he was really not tired when he was not tired, and he was really tired when he was really tired. If you miss the money, you can earn it back. Everyone earns money. If you miss love, you really miss it.

During the cold war, many people wanted to give each other a chance, whether it was a month or a year. Actually, it means the same thing. If you truly repent, there is no need to limit time, because limiting time is equivalent to not giving up the opportunity to limit time next time. If a person needs to calm down, it won't take long. The length of time is just to get used to whether you will really get used to it.

Some people will understand a truth when they hear a sentence, and some people will never understand that truth. As long as you believe in love, don't doubt it.

Love is not easy to pay, so since it is paid, it is a lifetime. When you are loved, you must enjoy the sweetness of being loved Don't miss it when passing by. Either sacrifice each other for love or sacrifice yourself.