Once upon a time, there was a boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him to nail one on the fence of the yard every time he lost his temper or quarreled with others. On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. In the next few days, he learned to control his temper, and the number of nails nailed every day gradually decreased. He found that it was much easier to control his temper than to nail it. Finally one day, he didn't nail any nails. He told his father about it happily.
Dad said, "From now on, as long as you don't lose your temper, pull out a nail on this day." Day by day passed, and finally, all the nails were pulled out. Dad took him to the edge of the fence and said to him, "son, you did a good job, but look at the nail holes in the fence." These holes will never be restored. Just like when you quarrel with someone and say something ugly, you leave a wound in his heart, just like this nail hole. " Inserting a knife into a person's body and then pulling it out will make it difficult for the wound to heal. No matter how you apologize, the wound is always there. You know, physical trauma is as difficult to recover as mental trauma. Your friends are your precious property. They make you laugh and make you braver. They always listen to your sadness at any time. When you need them, they will support you and open up to you. "Tell your friends how much you love them, tell all the people you think are friends, and your actions can start with mailing this little story. One day, when this letter comes back to your mailbox. You will find that your circle of friends is very large.
Finally, I want to say: "One of the joys of friendship is knowing who you can talk to." If you receive this letter, it is because someone is silently blessing you, because you also love some people around you. If you always say that you are too busy to forward this letter, you always say, "Send it another day." You'll never do it. So, don't make excuses, read this story from ancient India calmly, and then decide to do something for your friend, just start by sending this letter. When you say "You are my good friend", please say it seriously. Please look the other person in the eye when you apologize.
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About happiness
It is a kind of happiness to be satisfied when you need it!
There was a man who was kind and helpful before his death, so he went to heaven and became an angel after his death. After becoming an angel, he still often helps people on earth, hoping to feel the taste of happiness.
One day, he met a farmer. The farmer looked annoyed. He told the angel, "My buffalo just died. How can I work in the field without its help? " "
So the angel gave him a strong buffalo, and the farmer was very happy. The angel felt the taste of happiness in him.
The other day, he met a very depressed person. He told the angel, "I was cheated out of all my money and didn't go home."
So the angel gave him money for the trip, and the man was very happy. The angel felt the taste of happiness in him.
Another day, he met a poet. The poet is young, handsome, talented and rich. His wife is beautiful and gentle, but he is not happy.
The angel asked him, "aren't you happy?" Can I help you? "
The poet said to the angel, "I have everything except one thing." Can you give it to me? "
The angel replied, "Yes. I can give you anything you want. "
The poet looked the angel in the eye: "I want to be happy."
This stumped the angel, who thought for a moment and said, I see. "
And take everything the poet has.
Angels take away the poet's talent, destroy his appearance, take away his property and his wife's life.
The angel finished these things and left.
A month later, the angel returned to the poet.
He was half hungry and struggling on the ground in rags.
So the angel gave him everything back.
Then he left again.
Half a month later, the angel went to see the poet again.
This time, the poet hugged his wife and thanked the angel.
Because he got happiness.
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