Chapter one: Seeking for one's own position.
A small tree said, "Let me grow in a sunny place, and I will soon provide you with a bunch of shade."
A wisp of flowers said, "Let me float into the crowd and I will bring people a good mood."
The notes on the staff say, "Let me stand where the station is, and I will compose a sweet melody for you."
The color on the drawing board says, "Let me live in a place that suits me, and I will show you a perfect picture."
An ancient philosopher said, "Give me a fulcrum and let me stand in the right position, and I can support the whole earth."
Everything in the world has its place, and they need their place. Even garbage is no exception. Environmentalists have repeatedly told the world that garbage is a misplaced resource. It can be seen that the location is attractive, but the attractive location is not something that anyone who is interested can think of.
Qu Yuan committed suicide by throwing himself into the Miluo River, and a generation of writers disappeared, because he did not win his due position in the decadent court of Chu State. Li Bai walked the rivers and lakes, traveled mountains and rivers, accompanied by oblique photos of the morning dew, and took ephedra as his friend, also because the court that fought for power and profit did not leave his position; Pu Songling was tired of officialdom and lived in seclusion in Shan Ye. The book Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio reflects the ferocious face of some people, because he didn't find his place in the first half of his life. ...
The quality of a swift horse is of course important, but without a wise Bole, a swift horse can only die of old age in the stable like an ordinary horse; It can only be a distant fantasy to gallop on the battlefield with famous soldiers and build great achievements. People who volunteer themselves are trying to realize their own life value; However, in real life, some people with positions have fallen or even been destroyed because they can't put themselves and the people in the right position, which is heartbreaking.
There are many examples of gains and losses in holding positions in the calendar for reference. Su Qin hangs six seals, vertical and horizontal combination; Guan Yiwu, on a par with Priscilla, has made extraordinary contributions to the prosperity of the country. Zhuge Liang misused the Lost Street Pavilion in Ma Su, thus once again missing a good opportunity to seize the Central Plains.
If Lu Xun is a doctor, it would be terrible-he can treat people who are physically ill, but he can't treat people who are mentally ill. He abandoned medicine to join the army, awakened and inspired one revolutionary after another, and left immeasurable spiritual wealth and cultural heritage to future generations. It can be said that the correct choice of his position has created Lu Xun.
Therefore, we should actively pursue and strive for our position, instead of waiting. "Gold always shines", but the wait is too long, which can even be regarded as a coward's escape. If it is "gold", it should be placed in the sun immediately, and that position is suitable for it.
Silence is not golden; If you restrain your fighting spirit, you will never succeed. Try to find your own position, attack is defense.
Chapter 2: Taste friendship
In a sunny spring, it is a pleasure to invite three or five friends to get together and express their opinions.
Birds of a feather flock together. No one has never had a friend, but some people have never tasted friendship and regard it as a bargaining chip. Selfish people avoid friendship and regard friendship as an emotional burden; Indifferent people refuse to pay and never taste friendship; Sincere people cherish friendship and use it to raise the sails of life.
A thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. The vast sea of people, looking around, who can be a confidant? Who is a bosom friend? Like-minded friends, like-minded, know each other. Therefore, it is not easy to find a sincere friend. Not only have the same interests and ideals, but also can open their hearts and treat each other sincerely. Business guarantees friendship, mutual trust and mutual support, leaving an eternal story. Of course, there is no need to choose friends according to numerous rules and regulations. You were chosen by others at the same time. The key is whether you can contact each other. If you have a heart, you will become a friend of life and death, and if you are congenial, you will become an old friend. Boya went against the opinions of his family when he was a child, and became a close friend just because of the law, which has been passed down through the ages.
It's hard to find friends, but it's hard to keep them. Marx said: "Friendship needs loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principle to cultivate, understanding to care!" " "If you regard your friends as tools you can control, then you will miss friendship. Loyalty is the foundation of friendship, and the ancients condensed it into a word "righteousness". A word "righteousness" refines "treat each other with sincerity"; A word "righteousness" is condensed into "help each other in the same boat". All these clanking words are permeated with a heavy word "righteousness". Enthusiasm is the nutrient solution of friendship, and any kind of emotional dedication is accompanied by an accelerated heartbeat and surging blood. As Dumas said: "Friendship is also like a flower. Once willful or indifferent, this blooming heart flower will wither in an instant. "Principle is the yardstick of friendship and the bond of micro-system. Unprincipled friendship is dangerous, just like the sword of Damocles. Friendship is fragile, like crystal. If you are not careful, it will disappear, and even if it is repaired, it will be as bright as new. The true meaning of friendship is to give, not to take. In ancient times, there was a strangulation, and life was exchanged for friendship, above all else.
Finding, managing and maintaining friendship properly is no less than supporting the third pillar of life.
Friendship is beautiful and precious. The comment on it is nothing more than Lu Xun's "it is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and treat each other with the same bosom."
Friendship grows stronger with age.
Chapter Three: Coloring Life
A newborn child is like a blank sheet of paper. They know nothing about the world, but as time goes on, they have come into contact with a lot, experienced a lot and gained a lot. And that piece of white paper was stained with miscellaneous colors. These colors have taught us a lot and grown with us.
Life begins with a blank sheet of paper, and the road of life needs us to paint with colored brushes. We can always find our own value on this road! Sometimes, I wish my life was black. Just like a person in a corner, he doesn't need to be noticed, and he doesn't need to be influenced by anything and thoughts. Gradually, I became a calm, peaceful, quiet and mysterious person. I hope my life is blue, like an endless clear sky and a vast and magnificent sea, with a broad mind and an inclusive personality. I hope my life is colorful, as gorgeous and beautiful as the rainbow after rain and the flowers and plants described by the spring breeze.
Everyone adds striking colors to their paper, and each color represents a different meaning, which makes life colorful. Some people always carefully paint a touch of color on their white paper, and the blue sky makes him noble; The heat of the sun makes him feel warm; The new green of the grassland gave him vitality, vigor and hope ... They created a wonderful life for themselves with such colors. Although they are ordinary, their lives are meaningful. But some people regard life as a game. After God asked them to start, they confused the messy colors. It may seem that colorful life is enviable, but in fact, it will only turn gray in the end. As we all know, there is only one life. Since they have chosen to live a muddled life and treat life and life as a joke, life will surely take severe revenge on them and make them pay a painful price. But in any case, it's nobody's fault. The culprit is yourself. Too much talk is sophistry, and it serves you right! Once the road of life is opened, there is no turning back. If you want to go your own way, you must be prepared to accept punishment.
Life is alive, as long as you cherish this opportunity, you will definitely find your place and give you a chance to bloom your own color. So, please pick up the brush, follow your inner direction and color your life. If you don't have brushes and paints, please allow yourself to be a bath fire golden phoenix!