Not long ago, Dr. Sabine Melbadi, a child psychologist at the University of Hamburg, published an academic paper, which provided inspiration for how to educate children with different temperaments.
(a) lively children, don't be too spoiled.
If your child is an active child, you will find that he likes to move, hates silence and is full of energy.
Such children often don't want to be with their parents honestly, but like to run around by themselves, make some friends of the same age, and sometimes make some mistakes and do some "bad things" that you can't imagine.
For a particularly active child, you should give him a lesson from time to time so that he can learn something useful from it. If you spoil him too much and follow his temper completely, such a child may grow up to be arrogant and reckless.
(2) shy children, don't be too impatient.
If you have a timid child, don't worry too much about his inactivity. Because he needs a certain amount of time or the right atmosphere to adapt to the new environment and new things.
With other children, he may be a little unsociable at first, but once he gets acquainted with other children, they will become active. The reason is that this type of children is gentle and slow. If parents force him to take the initiative in advance, it will make him feel insecure, lack confidence and hesitate.
(3) Smart children, don't ask too many questions.
Smart children don't cry or make trouble all day, and they are almost always in a good mood, as if they live in joy every day. This type of child is particularly adaptable. They are not afraid of strangers, but they are not enthusiastic about strangers.
Because such children seldom express themselves loudly, many parents who are eager for their children's success and their daughters' success often expect too much of them, forcing them to accept their wishes and make excessive demands, but this may lead to a bad consequence: such children lack self-confidence in themselves when they grow up.
(4) Don't blame the children with problems too much.
Problem children often let their parents know. Such children often cry after waking up, and it is difficult to calm down all day. They can't adapt to the new environment quickly, and then they are overzealous on a whim. I was sad for a while, crying and making noise.
For problem children, parents need great patience, don't give him too much blame, let alone let it go, and learn to influence them with love. When they feel valued by adults, they will naturally calm down. Problem children, if not properly educated, may let themselves drift and give up when they grow up.