Counseling institutions, degree rooms, primary school Olympic Games ... everything that makes all parents "daunting" is here-before talking about this drama, let's first master a definition: chicken baby. It is to educate children with chicken blood culture. Parents who believe that "the road of life can't fall on the starting line" have already started the warm-blooded culture education for their children's primary and secondary schools.
Continue to assign curriculum content to children, so that children can study and train endlessly like perpetual generators. Rulu's Tian Yulan is such a chicken baby's parents. She is anxious every day. Although the child has excellent grades since childhood, he is far ahead. But now it is the fifth grade, and I immediately met the copywriter from elementary school to junior high school.
Her overall goal is to get her children admitted to a famous private middle school university. So, she reported the child tour to a full counseling agency. Get up early every morning to recite English words and do problems late at night. In addition to the curriculum content of colleges and universities, we should also learn to train primary school Olympiad and participate in various competitions.
There is no such thing as releasing stress, playing games and having fun. Ziyou loves playing football, and there is only one football team class every Friday. However, Tian Yulan either dropped out of class and went to primary school for Olympiad. She even professionally built an iron shelf and told Ziyou that your only task every day is to lay the iron shelf and attach a certificate of honor. Adults are worried about this sentence, let alone an eleven-year-old child.
There is a key point in the play, picking your fingers. Every time I am overwhelmed by the course content of jiacang, Ziyou keeps picking his fingers. Even if it bleeds, it is not easy to detect. As we all know, Ziyou's mental health has had major problems. Even more frightening is that Tian Yulan is not the only such parent.
In the class group of Ziyou, basically all the children are taking remedial classes outside. No matter how much colleges and universities attach importance to it, there is no need to deprive children of the right to rest and play. However, at the specific time of the activity, many parents still come to pick up their children to teach in counseling institutions. Under such circumstances, Mr. and Mrs. Nan are definitely orcs.
They are happy with their children, and they have always adhered to happy education and happy childhood. Unwilling to overload children, but also resisting the indoctrination classroom teaching of training institutions. At home on weekdays, I also attach great importance to interaction with children. If a child loves singing and hosting, she should do it. There is nothing to blame for the child's poor performance in the exam.
Instead, communicate seriously and help children find existing problems. For most children, this has long been a family member relationship that can be met but not met. Mr. nan and Mrs. nan are basically parents who only exist in imaginary works and have the same example. But even so, it failed to get a satisfactory result.
In the case that all the students are crazy about giving extra-curricular tutoring, Lele's test scores without tutoring are of course ranked several. Students in the class who have a particularly good relationship with her gradually make fun of her as a fool. Lele was insulted and went home to cram school in tears. This scene in the play is simply frightening.
The seeds of Muqiang have already been planted in children's hearts. They are still young, and gradually have a gap with everyone in their hearts, judging others with color-changing glasses. The original purpose of the couple was to give their children a colorful childhood. Unexpectedly, in this natural environment, Lele is getting more and more unhappy.
In desperation, they can only send their children to counseling institutions, and they have to add elite soldiers involved in culture and education. However, this vicious pursuit has no end at all. Full marks are not complete at all, but gradual. Super-class learning and training, primary school Olympic math competition are all an operation process; It is also essential for everyone to study and train the content of high school in advance.
You let the children go out early and come back late to do and brush the questions. Then I will find a good English tutor when my children can't chat, and create an English language sense from scratch. All parents are anxious and all children are in pain. There is a vivid description in the play: in a theater, everyone was lying down to watch the performance, and suddenly someone stood up in the front seat, forcing everyone to stand up.
Finally, from lying together to standing together. A lot of investment, getting worse and worse. Have you seen it? In this surging cultural and educational volume, everyone is a loser. After the popular science drama started, there were many noises that the story was too exaggerated. Where are parents possessed to this extent?
But sadly, reality is always more grandiose than drama. Once upon a time, there was a fashion blogger who went undercover with a chick's parents. What I saw and heard in it is really a magical realistic horror movie. About three generations, a family of five. Nothing can be avoided in this war. From 6: 30 a.m. to 8: 30 p.m., children are assigned full-time jobs.
I began to learn English gradually at the age of one, and began to learn violin at the age of three. A child in primary and secondary schools must learn Go, abacus mental arithmetic, ancient poetry and badminton. Programming classes are also arranged very early, and there are even concerns that it is too late to learn in the fifth grade of primary school. Parents are scrambling to release their baby plans, and new projects such as bathing and dining are all demanding time.
Beautiful Frog, Little Frog ... "Broiler" and "Vegetarian Chicken" ... all children are regarded as heartless marionettes. Do you think this is scary enough? There is even worse-"Jiwa is fine, as long as the students are in love." When I first saw this slogan, Uncle Fish was really in a trance.
Parents regard their students' love as today. How did they suddenly turn and gradually inspire them? Careful scientific research is needed to find the answer. At the beginning, the theme style of the slogan was "Choose in advance and lock the mother who is suitable for class." In the parent group, F/M is added to the scale to indicate gender. Every time I speak, I secretly poke and throw hydrangeas.
I hope that after a while, there will be parents who complement each other in their class. Then the two decided to get married for a long time without knowing whether they could cash in. At the age when children don't go to school, parents are already studying scientifically. What kind of love talents to find for TA can improve the class. The characteristic marriage life in this new period has been arranged instead, which is as terrible as child marriage.
In the eyes of such parents, is the child a fresh life or a special tool for people? Naturally, it is not easy for parents to feel this way themselves. They have poured all their expectations into their children. Remembering that I have paid so much for my children better, I secretly wiped my tears and was moved.
PUA-style language violence, such as "I do everything for the better" and "My parents will count on you all my life", is full of children's logical thinking. I really can't imagine how much psychological trauma a child who develops in such a natural environment has to bear. Widowed parenting, indoctrinating classroom teaching and oppressive management. Basically, all the horrible words about education are embodied here, reflecting a deformed trance.
Whose fault is this terrible reality? Perhaps many people think that this year's college entrance examination has led to all this, and it is the chief culprit in the involution of culture and education. Want to say. Don't forget. No matter how anxious the Jiwa elite soldiers are, they worry about sleeping every day, which is also under the premise of standards. The cultural and educational involution is essentially the Versailles of the middle class.
In the case of such a serious tilt of teaching resources, where are the development directions of children in these poor areas and backward villages? There is a typical figure in Xiao Shede, Mi Tao. Mi Tao's math skills are very high, and the elementary school olympiad is a piece of cake for her. Intelligence test 140, he is a real wizard.
If we can accept excellent culture and education, the future of development is bound to be boundless. But the problem is. Mi Tao's parents are both floating population with little income. Mi Tao has long been difficult to study normally, and she does not have the ability to work and the additional standards to show herself. This is the real pain. Some children have little breathing space under the pressure of their parents, and some children sigh when they see their scarce resources.
A doctoral student of Chinese Academy of Sciences unexpectedly became popular. In the thank-you part of the paper, he described his hard school life in a cadence, which is admirable. While admiring, we should also see how many difficulties such a poor son has suffered on the road to success. Middle-class parents in Beijing and Shanghai have been struggling for who will accompany their children to equestrian classes on Sunday.
Parents in backward mountainous areas consider whether their children will spend enough next school year. The college entrance examination is their last chance to walk out of the mountains, and it is a subtle vacancy leading to the top in this unreasonable world. Poor college entrance examination, parents are helpless, and children are helpless. So what's the problem? If anything, this answer is probably unpleasant or even harsh: everyone misunderstood the purpose of cultural education from the source.
What is education for? Understand the world, have wisdom, and have a sound personality. But in fact, these are all redundant projects. The most fundamental purpose is clearly stated from the beginning: "professional knowledge changes life." From the beginning, everyone aimed at the needs of culture and education in order to better "change their destiny". Culture, education, learning and training are the only ways to achieve the goal.
The most important thing is whether you can transcend class. Under this logic, cultural education that cannot change life is definitely not a good education. "If you can't produce content with great points and characteristics, you don't have to learn." "Which one is not depressed and unhappy in the exam?" Maybe everyone has heard something like this too many times. As long as the test scores are still the threshold for entering a famous university;
Only a prestigious university degree is still the key main fund in the workplace; It is very likely that only career development will lead to class transcendence-then this deformed infighting is unlikely to end. How utilitarian and heartless. However, this is our present situation. People must first survive, daily life, occupy a lot of resources and live a happy life.
That impulse is endless. The privileged class, which has occupied 80% of resources, wants the remaining 20%. The middle class wants to lock in business interests, while trying to get a lot of ups and downs. At the bottom, in the thorns day after day, they are desperate for the opportunity to reverse. Do you remember the description mentioned earlier? More and more people in the theater stood up, some stood on tables and chairs, and some simply climbed the stairs slowly. Climbing the mountain, everyone is investing more and more, and they feel worse and worse.
It seems that everyone has never thought about it, or is unwilling to think about it: what about Jiwa after her success? Even if you can get into a famous university, don't you have to deal with the entrance examination paper for the first time? When was the first time to buckle one ring after another? Therefore, the content of culture and education reflects more problems-everyone has lost the sense of belonging to be an ordinary person.
If you are not excellent, you will not succeed. But the reality is that the marginal effect is declining. When everyone wants to change their lives by studying hard, the threshold on this road is getting higher and higher. Maybe it won't take long, and everyone will sadly find that people with ordinary qualifications are finally sealed in the ceiling.
Among these wizards, only wizards have the assets to stand out from the elite. What should everyone do at this time? In fact, this is a very simple method. Uncle Fish, it goes without saying that everyone can figure it out. Stop involution from today and create a good environment. It's a pity that this matter, as you and I both said, doesn't count. After all.
There are very few resources for everyone. What can we do if we don't rob them? Some people don't stay awake and dive into the involution and don't want to look back. These sober people are also driven to step into the runway together. So ... The drama on the performance stage became more and more fierce, and the audience's herringbone ladder climbed higher and higher. what do you think?