The Analects of Confucius said: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. It means don't impose on others what you don't want to do. This sentence is short and classic, so it is cited as the motto by many people.
Yes, that's right, but I thought about it. Is it just because you don't want to be done by others? So what you want, can you do it on others?
Everyone has such a habit that they always like to introduce what they think is good to another person. I have a classmate who likes Jay Chou very much, so he put up posters of Jay Chou in his dormitory, and took pains to tell us about his experience, and finally found out that his classmates didn't like him. But he finally said very grievance: Don't you admire such a powerful person? It is true that Jay is famous, but not all people in the world like him. After all, there are people who like Andy Lau and Chris Lee. That classmate likes Jay Chou very much, yes. But if this love is imposed on others, it is his fault.
Do as you would be done by. I believe you can do it as long as you exercise restraint. But it is relatively difficult to do it well. Because what you want means what you like. According to everyone's psychological characteristics, what you like must be good things. Since it's a good thing, what's wrong with sharing it with everyone? In fact, the mistake is here, because not everyone likes what we like. Some people think that money is paramount, which is the reason. Sometimes I do such things unconsciously. For example, I am obsessed with creating a website, so I recommend all my classmates to create it. As a result, they all felt that it was just a very ordinary website and they were not interested at all. At first, I wondered why they ignored such a good website. But now I understand that everyone has different interests. Of course, literature lovers like websites that can publish articles like Wang Chuang's. On the contrary, he hates writing. How can he like it? It can be seen that a person's hobbies are different, his personality is different, and his world outlook is different. Therefore, there are no absolute good things and no absolute bad things in this world. The key is our own view of it.
The world is all kinds. Some people love mountains and rivers, some love beautiful women, some love wealth, and some love freedom. What if Bill? Gates gave money to the cynical diogenes? Lartio, I'm sure he'll laugh. Just as we can't accept what we hate, maybe others can't accept our goodness! Do whatever you want to others!
Hope to adopt. Thank you.