For life, we should choose to love, rather than excessive entanglement and hesitation.
When you see your favorite bag, will you choose to buy it? The answer is to buy it right away and buy it when you have money. So if you want to buy it sooner or later, why can't you make a choice right away?
In most cases, our choices are diversified, and different choices can take us in different directions. I often feel the pressure of choice, because when faced with many choices, I can't make the one that makes me most satisfied. For example, it's time to play the glory of the king, or it's time to finish an assignment that I'm behind schedule. Choose to eat or lose weight. Whether you choose to go out or stay at home. ...
This is very bad for the quality of life. Take the alarm clock as an example. I set an alarm clock at the bedside every day and ask myself what time to get up the next day. But after booking, I will still stay in bed the next day. Those alarm clocks are in name only, and at the same time, they will affect the quality of sleep more or less in bed. As a result, even if I didn't sleep well, I didn't get up early as planned. Both have been delayed, which is the result of hesitation and entanglement.
If you decide to stay in bed the next day in advance, it is better to put the alarm clock aside and sleep peacefully. If you decide to get up early, you should make preparations and plans in advance and go to bed early. These are the secrets of life, and they are also the places where we need to work hard. Having a suitable goal allows you to make a good decision without hesitation, examine the pros and cons, and get the most out of the most basic decision.
There should be many bad drawbacks caused by entanglement in life. For the most basic example, shopping mall activities are discounted. You can get a 60% discount on shopping within three days. At this time, if you want to buy, you must make up your mind and seize the opportunity to buy. You can save a lot of money for future needs and present needs. However, when you are not reasonably sure and are always weighing whether to buy or not, the opportunity will often be fleeting. When you realize that the price has returned to the most expensive state before, it will be too late when you get out of the tangle after the activity. You may say that the discount may be available at any time, but at least this one has passed, and you have to pay more for it when you need it recently.
This type of entanglement can be seen not only in elders, but also in us, just in different directions. The elders may be in supermarkets, but we will struggle with similar problems in online shopping software such as Taobao and Pinduoduo.
Of course, no matter what you struggle with, it will cause some inconvenience in life and bring unpleasant feelings. When you know how to do something without hesitation, you will find that in the face of those problems, only by doing it will you find out whether the conclusion is good or bad.
You will often encounter similar things when doing problems. Not one test paper, the whole test paper is a topic. Teachers will also teach us the correct test methods. After browsing the whole test paper, write down the questions you will get first, and then study the more difficult questions of the team. After all, the exam time is limited, and we can't affect the score of the whole paper because of the gain or loss of one question.
In the face of intractable problems or things that are difficult to solve, what we have to do is not to entangle, but to put those difficult parts on hold for the time being. Deal with the choice within your power first, and then solve the other part. Otherwise, your life will be affected by your short stay in the struggle.
No matter what kind of environment you are in, you should understand the importance of weighing the pros and cons. No matter whether you have a good grasp of things, don't struggle, choose the initiative! After all, only by trying can we really understand whether what we get is what we want. If we continue to struggle, it will only make the problem more and more complicated, and the loss will outweigh the gain.