In the face of difficulties
There is a famous saying: "Time goes downstream and life goes against the current." In the long history of life, it is inevitable that people will not encounter any difficulties. In fact, difficulties are always accompanied by people. To this day, people are still struggling for food and clothing. Disasters such as climate disasters and geological disasters also occur from time to time. No matter how lucky people are, they cannot avoid dealing with difficulties. At the very least, everyone has to face the law of birth, aging, illness and death. On the other hand, people are eager for success. Successful people have extraordinary experiences, and their success comes from overcoming one difficulty after another, with almost no exceptions at all times. Therefore, whether one wants to live a quiet and simple life or make a difference in his career, he should establish a correct attitude towards difficulties.
Since difficulties are inevitable, we should not escape and complain, but treat them with a calm and positive attitude. In the face of difficulties, we should also establish the spirit of not fearing difficulties and obstacles. In the face of long-term difficulties, patience and perseverance are particularly important.
The difficulty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we can't face them with the right attitude. What makes people fall down in difficulties is often not the difficulty itself, but a negative and pessimistic attitude, lack of courage and confidence to overcome difficulties, and lack of strong will. People's faith and spirit play a great role. People often hear such examples. A person who doesn't have cancer is mistaken for cancer and will soon die. However, people who really have cancer think that they don't have cancer, but they just behave normally. In difficulties, people usually have the confidence to win. Sometimes it should be a better attitude to face difficulties with a natural attitude, because the outcome of some things is unpredictable and difficult to control. What results you expect may be disappointing, just do your best.
Everything has two sides. Difficulties make people miserable, and people don't want to encounter difficulties, but difficulties do make people mature through hard training. From this perspective, difficulties are not a bad thing. "I don't know what is sweet until I have suffered." Byron's famous saying "adversity is a road to truth" means this. "A friend in need is a friend indeed" and "Poverty makes a dutiful son". These two sentences also emphasize that people can show their excellent qualities in difficulties. I used to think that people who have made great contributions to society often live a simple life, which is a kind of sorrow (such as some outstanding scientists, etc.) Now I really understand that it is because of their high quality that they are unmoved by money and can work with peace of mind under relatively difficult conditions and make great contributions to society. I was lucky enough to attend an academic conference. An old professor encouraged us to endure poverty and loneliness and persevere in scientific research and learning. After many years, I finally realized how valuable it is to endure poverty and loneliness. Others go to the sea to make money, and it is not easy to study without money under difficult conditions.
Since difficulties and adversity can make people mature, then we should not suffer hardships in vain, take them seriously and be diligent in thinking, and we will certainly gain something.
There are many strong people who set an example for us in life. There is a doctoral student from Hunan in Nanjing University. /kloc-When he was 0/3 years old, he lost his hands in an accident and asked his parents to study when he could not take care of himself. After several months of hard work, he learned to write with a pen between his elbows. He did well in junior high school and senior high school. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to the university. After graduating from college, when he was a teacher, he learned to write with chalk. After work, he continued to struggle and was admitted to master's degree and doctor's degree. When he was a doctor, he suffered from liver cancer, which was terminal. The doctor asserted that he would live for three or four months at most. In the face of this greater disaster, he fought against bad luck with tenacious perseverance. A year and a half later, the tumor miraculously shrank after the examination. It is also gratifying that he completed his doctoral thesis as scheduled and successfully passed the defense. Here is just a brief description of the achievements of this doctoral student. In fact, he still has extraordinary living ability.
A man who lost his hands became a strong man in life. He not only overcame the difficulties he faced, but also came from the frustration that the society refused to accept him again and again. On the stage of life, he climbed one new step after another, especially in the face of advanced cancer, he dared to fight and created a miracle of life. The road he took set a good example for us to overcome difficulties.
I think there is a poem "Give Life Time" which is very good and beautiful. This poem is as follows:
Give life time
Ingstrom
Translated by Xue Fei
Don't be sad when bad luck makes you sad.
You can't draw conclusions from everything in front of you,
If you are willing to wait and have confidence,
You will get the answer you deserve and give life.
Take time to weave the invisible thread of destiny.
All efforts are to pursue the inner essence of that thing.
To achieve beauty, don't lose your ideals.
If you lose faith, you should firmly believe that everything is for.
A better future, don't rush to God's arrangement,
Give life time to realize your dreams.