Because Yu Ya relented, she thought Guangwei was going to turn over a new leaf, which was naive. Women are afraid of being retaliated by men. In fact, it is impossible for the perpetrator to commit violence only once. Because in the long-term violent conflict, the victim's dignity and body are repeatedly oppressed, and her resistance will become weaker and weaker. But the perpetrators will not feel guilty, even if they regret it, they will not remember it next time, and even some perpetrators will threaten their victims with their lives.

Some women will be frightened by men's words, such as "if you dare to run, I will kill you." "If I can't find you, I will hurt the children and your parents." Therefore, she is worried that no one can protect herself and her family. The victim didn't want anyone to see this. She felt ashamed. Some women are independent and smart, and always create a loving and fulfilling life in front of outsiders. Asking her to come forward and admit that she was abused will make her feel embarrassed. She feels that recognition is a denial of herself. Therefore, the longer you pretend, the less willing you are to open your mask and admit that you are a victim.

Many victims of domestic violence feel unbearable at first, so they want to file for divorce. However, under the persuasion of men, they gave in and forgave men. Some women even think that men can't live without her. She thinks she has the ability to change and influence each other, but in fact, as long as domestic violence begins, there will be countless domestic violence waiting for her. Not every woman has her own job, nor can she achieve economic independence and self-reliance. In fact, many women depend on men for their livelihood.

So even after she was abused, they could only bear it, because they had no ability to survive, let alone raise children. They are already in financial difficulties, not to mention emotional dependence. In the process of violence, the perpetrator will constantly belittle the other party and make the other party completely lose confidence. Let the victims think that if they leave each other, they will never find anyone else, and no one will fall in love with themselves. Some victims also believe that it is their own fault that makes the other party a perpetrator. They don't think it's the perpetrator's fault, which is the result of being brainwashed by the perpetrator.