Zhang Fang, in exchange for obedience; Cao Cao was kind to Guan Yu in exchange for Guan Yu laying down his life on Huarong Road. Washington, the founding father of the United States, took the initiative to forgive Payne's fist hatred in exchange for Payne's fanatical worship of himself. These tolerant actions turn hatred into friendship and obstacles into support. It can be seen that tolerance is a great driving force for change.
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Tolerance does not mean indulgence. My father has been very strict with us since childhood. Whenever we are a little rude, he always scolds us severely. He taught us to cultivate independent personality from an early age. I remember one time I didn't pay attention when I was cooking.
If Mars falls, he will run to play and cause a fire at home. I thought I was sure to be severely criticized by my father. Just when I was uneasy, my father only said to me: "Remember to be careful in the future!" " "yes
I was deeply moved by my father's tolerance. I will be careful and try my best in my future life, and at the same time lay the foundation for my independent ability. So since the third grade, I have been dealing with my own affairs, my parents.
Since then, I have been working safely in the south. What would I be like now without my father's tolerance that day? Nowadays, parents always scold and beat their children, which is an infeasible method of discipline. Now teenagers' ego.
Respect is getting stronger and stronger, and some people can't even tolerate a little injustice. A thick wall is virtually built between parents and children. Tolerance should be everywhere in life. Dear parents:
Please use a tolerant heart to melt the wall of estrangement with children!
Wu Zetian is a woman, but her measurement can't make a man. Rebellion, he is a great genius-Luo, one of the four outstanding figures in the early Tang Dynasty, wrote an article for him. The article is wonderful, and his words of scolding Wu Zetian are also mean. A movement spread to Wu Zetian. After reading this article, he was not angry, but appreciated it. When she read, "What can I do for a six-foot orphan before a piece of rotten soil is dry?" She changed her face and said, "It is the fault of the Prime Minister that such talents are not needed." After reading it, he repeatedly praised: "Luo's article is great, but his martial arts may not be comparable." This means that as far as propaganda work is concerned, King Robin carries a lot of weight, and that pen is worth100000 soldiers. However, Xu Jingye's strength is not mediocre, so it's hard to lose. She really wants to use Luo for her own use. As the only female emperor in the history of China, Wu Zetian's great success cannot be said to have nothing to do with her broad mind and tolerance.
A generous person can achieve great things, and a generous person is relaxed and happy. This is the same as before. In dealing with people, there are often unsatisfactory places. If there is not enough tolerance and mind, there will inevitably be a lot of inexplicable pain. Narrow-minded people tend to be competitive, haggle over every ounce, envy and criticize others, and are narrow-minded and vengeful. Such people often lead a very heavy and painful life. Confucius said, "an upright man is open and poised, I am always worried."
A more tolerant attitude will make things better. The so-called "turning the war into a jade silk" and "the prime minister can hold the boat in his stomach" is a state of tolerance. A person full of personality charm must have a tolerant heart!
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Capacity is a kind of grace, a kind of freedom and a kind of maturity. The mountains are silent because of tolerance, and the natural scenery is harmonious and moving; The sea is magnificent because of tolerance, and it has a profound and broad foundation; The ears of grain bowed their heads, because
For its tolerance, dedicated to people's heavy fruits. Everything, with its tolerance, is creating miracles for the world and giving life new vitality. "The speech from the geographer Hou Renzhi gave us profound enlightenment.
Enlightenment.
It is because I understood its connotation that I changed my attitude towards life. I always treat complaints and accusations in my life with a tolerant attitude, and I can always face them calmly.
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What impressed me the most when I read the books in the Buddhist world were three couplets: "A big belly can accommodate you, and Heaven can accommodate you. Why can't you accommodate yourself?" Open your mouth and laugh. Laugh over and laugh. Now, laugh at everything. ""a big belly can accommodate things that are difficult to accommodate in the world; open one's mouth
Laugh, laugh at the ridiculous people in the world. ""laugh at the past, laugh at the east and the west, laugh at the south and laugh at the north, laugh at your ignorance; Look at things, look at the sky, look at the moon, look at it, and see how high and low others are. "
These three couplets left a deep impression on me. He told us that we should be tolerant of others, tolerate things that are hard to tolerate in the world, be strict with ourselves and be tolerant of others, and always see our ignorance of ourselves and everything about others.
Find out the strengths of others. Only in this way can we see people's advantages, tolerate people's shortcomings and establish good interpersonal relationships with people. In life, there are inevitably no shortcomings and mistakes. When a person says something wrong and does something wrong, he always hopes.
I hope to get the tolerance and understanding of others. I once read Zhu De's poem: "The heavens and the earth are wide in the belly, and people often cross the boat." It can be seen that tolerance is a kind of mind, a kind of grace, a kind of realm and a kind of charm.
There are often scenes in life where others accuse and complain about you. If you don't treat it calmly, argue with the accuser or abuse it, things will get worse. If you are calm and let the complainer finish, you can explain calmly or simply don't quarrel with it, and things will not quarrel with it for the time being. Naturally, after waiting, he will find that what I have done is correct.
Tolerance in life is a kind of high-profile, high-style and tolerant person, which makes people feel cordial, natural and respectable, willing to be close to it, willing to work with it, convinced and sighed with relief. This naturally contributes to the success of the cause and is also the foundation of the foundation.
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When I read the story of American President Lincoln's tolerance for others, I couldn't help but be impressed by Lincoln's way of being a man. His story has always infected me. Lincoln was born in the civilian class, cultivated land, worked as a shop assistant, and has been running around.
We're in trouble. Therefore, when he first arrived at the White House, none of the rich people in the cabinet looked up to him. In this regard, Lincoln didn't mind at all and showed great generosity.