People are afraid of loneliness when they are old, and trees are afraid of withering when they are old. When entering the autumn of life, many helplessness and loneliness will quietly climb into the hearts of the elderly, and spiritual comfort has become their greatest expectation.

What is spiritual comfort? In other words, let the elderly have spiritual sustenance, fun in life, psychological comfort and relevant photos in action. The old people raised a nest of "birds" with bitter mushrooms. Children fly away when their wings are hard, or they are busy with their own careers, and they have no time to accompany you and greet you. The old man is like an old bird guarding an empty nest. Loneliness is natural.

So the old people began to look for their own happiness, go to the university for the elderly, go to the activity center for the elderly, and chat with some old friends ... They used various methods to pass the lonely time. Then, as children, have we ever thought about using our methods to comfort our old father and mother? There is such a song "Go home and have a look", so can it be unfolded according to the lyrics? Why not add more "doing things", "having fun", "persuading" and "having fun" at home? When you go home, mom and dad are naturally ecstatic and busy buying food and cooking. If you can untie their aprons at this moment, tie them on yourself and cook them a meal yourself, I don't think it will taste even if the level is worse. Go home and do more "chores", wash clothes, bedding, wash dishes, clean floors and tables for them, and share some housework for the elderly. How comforting the old man is. Going home is more "happy", bring your lover and children, let the children cry with milk fragrance to melt the loneliness of the elderly, and let the happy atmosphere of the whole family intoxicate the boredom of the elderly for many days. Go home more often to "persuade", especially when the elderly are sick, widowed or other sad and worried periods. Always go home to talk to and comfort the elderly, and never let the elderly suffer alone. Go home to "play" more, play chess and cards with the elderly, or simply go out with your parents on holidays. Treating them as old children and trying to make them happy is the best antidote to loneliness of the elderly.

Regrettably, young people nowadays are either busy with their own careers or addicted to their small families after marriage, ignoring the spiritual support for the elderly. They always think that there is nothing wrong with the elderly having enough to eat and wear warm clothes, but they just don't know that what the elderly really expect is family greetings and spiritual comfort.

Are there any old people in your family? If so, please give them more comfort at ordinary times! Family ties and human feelings can't be bought with money. If you haven't visited them for several days, please pick up the phone around you and give them the most affectionate greetings!