Abstract: The word "love" is indispensable to Chinese teaching nowadays. If we can guide students to correctly interpret, comprehend and discover this rose-colored most beautiful movement, it will help students to form a healthy view of love and cultivate a sound personality.
Keywords: ancient poetry, love, emotional experience
Recently, I listened to an exploration class with rich contents and novel teaching methods given by Qin Wei, a teacher from the Volkswagen Industrial School. In the teaching process, Mr. Wei boldly challenges the sensitive topic of love, and guides students to face different feelings and love and how to understand true love by letting them freely explore related love poems. This is also a very meaningful exploration to study the love chapters in ancient poetry. Does this also mean that we should invest different elements in the second phase of Chinese curriculum reform? So I'll start with this article "Altair".
"All the way Altair, JiaoJiaoHe han female. Skillful hands, make a loom. There is no chapter all day, and tears are pouring down. What's the difference between a clear river and a shallow one? Ying Ying is easy to water, and his pulse is silent. "
This is a classic love poem in Nineteen Ancient Poems. It is very touching to read. Although it is a fairy tale, isn't it a different life on earth? The shallow Tianhe River is certainly not very wide. But the Cowherd and Weaver Girl across the river can't ride a cow. I am close at hand, but I can't pour out my heart. I can only stare silently. The only thing I can do is watch the party once a year. If we can't meet each other because we are separated from Qian Shan by thousands of waters, there is always a reason to let go of this sadness, but we can't have it at hand, and this helplessness is even more unforgettable. Cowherd and Weaver Girl can only bury their love in their hearts and tell the sadness in the sky with endless tears.
Tagore said: "The furthest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you/but that you don't know I love you/but that you know/love/but can't be together". In the eyes of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, the shallow Tianhe will be their life. Is there such desolation in the world?
We have always been moved by the love tragedy of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, but if we think from another side, although they have gone through hardships, they never leave, and it is this determination that moved the Queen Mother and broke the conclusion that immortals and mortals can't love each other and won the annual meeting. Who can say that such love has no positive significance? In the Peacock Flying Southeast by Han Yuefu, both Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing died in pursuit of free marriage. Their death is a struggle against secular etiquette and a defense of loyal love. Love is a multi-faceted reflection of life. Different understanding of a poem is also a very beneficial discussion for students to see through society, understand their psychological quality more comprehensively and understand the value of love more deeply.
Back to the Book of Songs, which pioneered realism in China, its first article is a love aria. My Fair Lady, My Gentleman is a Gentleman, I long for it, I long for it, Friends of the Hare and the Music of the Bells and Drums, these poems show the young men's psychology of pursuing love and their simple and lovely behavior in order to get love. "Shang Yang, I want to know you, and I want to live a long life." Mountains have no edges, rivers are endless, there is Lei Zhen in winter, rain and snow in summer, heaven and earth are in harmony, dare to break with you! "Young women's love vows touched the world." Although my body does not have bright phoenix wings, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn. This poem by Li Shangyin in Tang Dynasty expresses the highest love realm between young lovers, and they can communicate freely without language. In Song Dynasty, Liu Yong's "My clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don't regret it, which makes people haggard for Iraq" and Li Qingzhao's "I can't get away from this place, but I frown, but I take it to heart" all express the pain of lovesickness.
Of course, through Qin Guan's "Queqiao Fairy", we can see the scholar-officials' brand-new concept of love. "If two kinds of feelings last for a long time, they will come sooner or later", which is an abnormal mentality that everyone yearns for intimacy. Su Shi's Shui Diao Ge Tou also has different views on love. "People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of rain or shine. It was difficult to accomplish in ancient times. I hope that people will last for a long time and have a good scenery. " Tells the positive pursuit of life. It can be seen that the poet expressed different views on love and different understandings of emotion in his special way.
Love is really an unsolved mystery in the world: some people say, "Ask what the world is like, and teach people to be committed to life and death." Some people say, "Once the sea was difficult for water, it will always be amber." Some people say, "People still laugh when they don't know where to go." Looking through love scrolls and savoring all kinds of love, even Su Dongpo, a layman who is known for his generosity, has a poem "Jiangchengzi" which describes the true feelings of life and death between husband and wife.
"Ten years of life and death is incredible and unforgettable. Lonely soul, desolate with nowhere to talk. Even if we don't know each other, our faces are dusty and our temples are frosty. At night, I suddenly dreamed of going home, and the window of Xiao Xuan was being decorated. There is nothing to say about each other, only a thousand lines of tears are expected to break every year, and the moon is missing. "
Every time I read Dongpo's poem "Remembering My Dead Wife", I always feel deeply grieved and burst into tears. One night ten years later, I suddenly dreamed that my wife was dressing in front of the Xiao Xuan window. I can remember this scene vividly, but I can only live in seclusion. "Nothing to worry about, a thousand lines of tears" seems to be the infinite sadness after pouring out "Where are you going?" The last three sentences imagine the loneliness and sadness of her dead wife buried underground. In fact, two hearts are interlinked, and the living miss the dead more. Li Qingzhao was a poetess in the Southern Song Dynasty. Many of her poems are beautiful and a little sad, and tears overflow at the beginning and end of the poems. Wuling Spring is a representative work of this style.
"The wind has lived in fragrant flowers, and I am tired of combing my hair at night. Things are people, not everything, and tears flow first.
It is said that Shuangxi spring is still good, and you have to sail alone at night. I'm afraid of double happiness cheating the boat, and I have a lot on my mind. "
Zhao Mingcheng, Li Qingzhao's husband, escaped chaos and died in Jiangnan. Today, times have changed and the scenery remains the same. However, his relatives are long gone, and he still remembers the past conjugal love. He wants to be lonely and sad in the future and want to cry without words. In such a mood, why not send out the feeling that things have changed and he needs to cry first? Although the author wants to express his love for Shuangxi spring water to solve his melancholy, how can he hold on to it on a boat full of sorrow? Li Qingzhao's sad tears are different from those of an affectionate woman. Affectionate women shed tears, meeting can turn grief into joy and put an end to the suffering of lovesickness. And Li Qingzhao is crying for her dead husband. Even if she waits for eternal life, she will never see her husband again. How can these tears be compared with the tears of acacia in the world? It can be seen that guiding students to read love chapters in poetry will make them wander in the emotional process, leave unforgettable love experiences, be influenced by humanism, and lay the foundation for understanding a more complicated life.
Love is the most beautiful eternal topic in the world, and it is also the eternal theme of literary creation. Without love, many literary works will be eclipsed. Attach importance to love poems and guide students to read and understand the true meaning of love revealed by works of different eras. Therefore, when reading love works, students can be guided to receive more profound humanistic education through emotional analysis, and finally form a healthy personality. Teachers, as engineers of human souls, shoulder the sacred mission of shaping people. We should respect students' personal dignity, create a democratic teaching atmosphere, and guide students to explore life and social problems including love. Improve students' moral cultivation, aesthetic taste and cultural taste, and finally make them develop healthy personality, have healthy psychology and form healthy personality.