What is a habit? According to the dictionary, habit is a kind of behavior that is gradually formed over a long period of time and is not easy to change. Obviously, habit is a kind of cultivation, a relatively certain way of thinking and behavior. Summing up my three-year experience, I want to tell you that the most important thing in junior high school is to form good habits and overcome bad habits.
Let's talk about the habit of studying first.
First, it takes time to work hard. Ensure a certain amount of study time every day and form a habit. No one is a genius, and it is impossible not to learn. Those of us who took part in the math contest have done countless exercises. To put it simply, to get good grades, math and physics depend on doing problems, English words recite texts, and Chinese depends on reading and writing more. Time is "caught" for an hour every day. You can do many things. I can recite 30 English words in 20 minutes and read 1 ~ 2 good compositions in 20 minutes. I'll give you a number: recite 10 words every day, plus review for no more than 10 minutes, and you will be more than 10 thousand in three years. You will be rich in TOEFL. Some things are difficult for you, but they are actually very simple, as long as you do them.
Second, we should pay attention to methods and avoid detours. If you try harder and spend more time, if the method is wrong, you will take a detour and the effect will not be good. It will also affect your confidence and dampen your enthusiasm. How can we not take detours? First of all, the starting point should be right. Get into the habit of doing things right from the beginning. Don't be confused, don't think at first, and then change when you find something wrong. Secondly, we should set high standards and get into the habit of doing things right at once. For example, if you study mathematics, you may not be able to do problems after learning concepts and formulas. You can do the problem, but you may not be able to explain it clearly. If you study math according to the standard that you can take part in the math contest or explain clearly, then you are in the exam.
Let's talk about behavior and habits.
Developing good behavior habits is actually learning to be a man. Let me ask you a few questions: Have you ever lied? Have you ever laughed at others? Did you run a red light by bike? Have you ever added "plug" to the queue? Have you ever said rude words? Do you pack your schoolbag yourself? If you develop good behavior habits, you can say that you are cultivating yourself according to modern standards.
How can we form good habits?
The first is to start with small things and pay attention to details.
Whether a person's habits are good or not is often reflected in trivial matters. Distinguish between right and wrong and remind yourself at any time. For example, pay attention to your standing, sitting, walking and eating, pay attention to the cleanliness of every homework or exam, pay attention to the etiquette of treating people, and so on. You may be a little tired at first, but it won't take long for you to get used to it, and it will benefit you for life.
The second is to make a good start but not a bad one.
Habits are formed through a process, and the process has a beginning. As long as you think about what to do, you must start decisively, don't delay, don't wait. For example, I want to recite words, ok! Start reciting. I'm going to keep a diary, okay! Start writing. After a period of time, you feel that it has become a part of your life, and there is even nothing you can't feel. You will naturally do it and form good habits. On the contrary, don't start a bad thing, because you will indulge yourself when you start.
For computer games, I have also been exposed to RPG, FIFA, Starcraft, CS, which is fun and cool! But it really delayed things. You will be caught by it and sink in. Once you feel good, you may never feel good. There is also something called "magic party". Don't be stubborn. We can play. The more efficient we study, the more time we spend playing. Be sure to play something beneficial to your physical and mental health and control yourself. People are a very strange thing. I can only control myself, try to bring what I want to do into the scope of what I should do, and do what I should do with interest. If I can consciously do this, I am mature. Now, some of my classmates and I have been able to enjoy great happiness in the success of our study, which is incomparable to any game.
The third is to bite your teeth and persist.
If you have a good start, you must persevere. When encountering difficulties, you must bite the bullet and never relax. I started to keep a diary in the first grade of primary school, and I haven't stopped for more than 3000 days now. Too tired to move, what should I do if I get sick? Bite your teeth. Put your diary on the pillow and write a sentence. Afterwards, you will even be moved by your own spirit, and then you will cherish your achievements more and more, and you will become a good habit.
The fourth is to create a good environment.
It can be agreed by several people or initiated by the class. Everyone urges each other to stick to some good things and put an end to and overcome those bad things. This is very beneficial, not only to form good habits, but also to have good friends and a good collective atmosphere.
Fifth, no excuses.
It is said that there is a rule in the United States Military Academy at West Point, which is: No excuses! This is very helpful for forming good habits. People are the easiest to forgive themselves for not doing things well. It is a bad habit to find some reasons to feel at ease. It will make you weak, make you lazy and let you escape. As a result, you lost your courage.
The sixth is to use every opportunity to exercise yourself and get used to serving others.
It is suggested that if you have the opportunity, you should be willing to undertake some social work, such as class cadres and branch representatives. It not only does not delay your study, but also is a good opportunity to exercise your sense of responsibility, serve others and work ability. These things are formed, and it is also a good habit!