How to write an argumentative essay based on the recent problem of college entrance examination students jumping off buildings because of their unsatisfactory grades?
Why have the flowers withered? /My passionate love pressed it on my heart,/and the flower withered. Why are the strings broken? /I forced a syllable that it was not qualified to add,/so the strings broke. Tagore's two simple poems reveal a philosophy of life: never overdo anything. Can't be forced. When flowers bloom and fall, nature can always reconcile the most beautiful colors just right. People who love flowers should know that it is best to let nature take its course. Excessive expectation and care are tantamount to storms, which will make flowers wither helplessly. People are the same. Everyone has a bottom line under pressure. When great pressure comes like a flood and washes away this bottom line, people will wither like flowers. I recently read a thought-provoking report: a student in a middle school in Changchun. Ben is a lively and cheerful boy, with excellent grades and hard work. However, the enormous pressure of entering a higher school and the high expectations of parents, relatives and friends made him gradually lose his due vigor and vitality, and his grades continued to decline. Parents' anxiety is increasing day by day, and they even scold him. But it's no use. On the contrary, he is becoming more and more autistic and self-destructive. After failing the college entrance examination twice. He can't free himself from the heavy pressure and depression. Chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building. He wrote in his suicide note: "I don't have to bear these heavy burdens anymore." I will fly freely in the sky like a bird. " Thanks for death, let me be free ... "In real life, we often hear such examples of suicide because of excessive study pressure or social pressure. There are too many unbearable burdens in life. When a person is asked too much, he often goes to extremes. Excessive expectations will be like a sharp knife inserted in the chest of the recipient, which will make people bleed and go to decline. There is a saying of thanks: "A twisted melon is not sweet. "People must carefully control their expectations and requirements and don't let them flood. Everything should be moderate and let nature take its course. If Lu Xun is forced to choose the profession of doctor, then we will lose a master of literature, and the history of modern literature in China will undoubtedly be bleak. We may also encounter high expectations and excessive demands in our life, which requires us to have a good attitude of self-decompression, and not to accumulate too much pressure, which will make people fragile, just like an inflated balloon, which exceeds its bearing capacity and will inevitably lead to destruction.