This is tolerance.
Tolerance goes both ways. In life, each of us is not a "saint", and it is inevitable that we will hurt others unintentionally. For example, stepping on someone else's feet, splashing mud all over others, and accidentally hurting others with words, then we all hope to get others' understanding and tolerance. Sometimes we are unintentionally hurt by others, but we should also sincerely understand others' "sorry". Therefore, we should learn to be tolerant. Only when we can tolerate others will others tolerate us. As Turgenev said, "People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others."
Tolerance is a virtue and a "lubricating oil" for people to get along with each other. By learning tolerance, we can go deep into each other's hearts to feel and experience, so that we can forgive others from the heart.
"Be lenient with others" has been the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation since ancient times. In the Qing Dynasty, there was a college student named Zhang Ying. Once, he received a letter from home saying that his family and neighbors had a dispute over three feet of land and wanted to go to court. I hope he can use his power for himself and let his family win the lawsuit. Brinton laughed after reading it, wrote a reply and attached a poem:
"Thousands of miles to write a book just for the wall, so let him three feet what's the harm? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen. " The family read the letter and gave up three feet. When the neighbors saw it, they also gave up three feet. So it became a "six-foot lane". This story of turning war into friendship has spread to this day and has become a beautiful talk.
Tolerance is a realm. When a person forgives others once, his spirit is promoted to a higher level. Learn to be tolerant, and you will master an effective method of self-improvement.
To learn to be tolerant, we must have a broad mind, always put the interests of the country or the collective first, take care of the overall situation, do not express personal grievances, and do not care about personal grievances. It is necessary to understand that "bear it, be calm, and take a step back."
Tolerance is air, which can hold both oxygen and ammonia.
Tolerance is a flower that can accommodate both green leaves and thorns;
Tolerance is a mountain road, which can accommodate both flat and rugged;
Learn to be tolerant, and you will be friendly to others and face life positively; Be lenient with others, and you will have one more window, one more warmth and purify yourself at the same time.