Chapter 1: Learn to reflect on your composition. Confucius said: "See the sage Si Qi Yan, see the sage and look inward." Confucius is regarded as the teacher of saints, and his thoughts are worth learning.
Learning to reflect on yourself can make you many friends. No matter who likes to make friends with excellent people, self-reflection can make you better. People who brag about their wide friends may not really have many friends, because such people don't see their own shortcomings. I can't reflect on myself yet. Like a mirror. People who have this kind of behavior should reflect on themselves when they see him. Once you learn to reflect and get rid of this shortcoming, your friends will only increase.
Learning to reflect on yourself can make you study better. As students, we have to study every day. We are worried about exams and haggle over scores. How can we study better? Learn to reflect on yourself and think about whether you have seriously completed the tasks assigned by the teacher in class today. Have you done your homework carefully after class? If your answer is "yes", congratulations, it's a fruitful day. If you can persist in self-reflection, you will definitely get a good result in the end.
Learning to reflect on yourself can help you know yourself correctly. What kind of person are you? Extroverted or introverted, optimistic or pessimistic? You need to give yourself a position. At this time, self-reflection can help you. Think about what you did. What kind of personality does this reflect? Is this character good or bad? Should it be maintained or corrected? All these come from being able to reflect on yourself, give yourself a correct position and determine your own value, which shows the importance of self-reflection.
Learning to reflect on yourself can give you a goal. Everyone should have a goal to strive for. How is this goal determined? This requires self-reflection. The goal set by self-reflection after a correct understanding of one's own abilities will not be as difficult as reaching heaven, nor will it be easily grasped in one's hand. If you set a goal without self-reflection, this goal is not suitable for you to a large extent, and may not be achieved in your life, or it is easy to achieve and lose fun.
Learning to reflect on yourself can make you more successful. Every time we see those successful people on TV, we always feel envious, but have you ever wondered why they succeed? Have you ever reflected on what caused your failure? If you think it's because others are smarter than you, it's all wet. Everyone has to experience failure before success. Some people reflect on themselves, correct themselves and finally succeed. Some people just complain that others have failed, so learning self-reflection can make people more successful.
People often only see the shortcomings of others but not their own, which is why we need to learn to reflect on ourselves, and the benefits of self-reflection do not stop there.
Ceng Zi visits three provinces every day. Although we can't do what Ceng Zi did, we should learn to reflect on ourselves. Learn to reflect on yourself in order to make your world better!
Chapter two: Learn to reflect on your composition. Argumentative paper: "I visit my body three times a day, and the person who sees the good, that is, Si Qi, is far and wide, and I am gradually thinking about it, and I am introspective when I see the bad. If there is, I should change it and not add police. " In life, we will always encounter some complicated and controversial things, and we will always push the mistakes to each other. Even though I know I'm wrong, I don't want to admit it. We have formed this wrong habit. But think about it carefully, if everyone can reflect on themselves first and admit their mistakes, maybe there won't be so many disputes, right?
Everyone wants to succeed. In fact, every successful person has the same habit, that is, always learn to reflect on yourself first. It was because the minister risked his life to remonstrate that Chu Zhuangwang reflected on himself in time and made a blockbuster, eventually becoming one of the five tyrants. Edison failed more than 800 times when he invented the electric light. Every time he made a mistake, he constantly reflected on what he had done badly, and finally succeeded. These vivid examples always remind us to learn to reflect. Is it really important to reflect on yourself? It's like your sheepfold is broken, but you blame the wolf for not eating your sheep. If you were a wolf, would you not go? Self-reflection is actually another way of empathy.
"Three times a day to visit the body, see a good man, that is, think strange. I went far, far away, and I gradually got to know the sage Qi. When I saw a saint, I reflected on myself. If I saw it, I changed it and didn't add the police. " When we meet a saint, we should reflect on why we are not like him. Should I respect him? When we meet a wrong person, should we reflect on whether we have the same mistakes as him? The ancients understood this truth thousands of years ago, but with the shuttle of the times and the progress of science and technology, how did culture disappear? Are we not as good as the ancients again? This is actually something we should reflect on. A philosopher once said: "Self-esteem, consciousness and self-control can lead to the lofty realm of life." Life is full of introspection: what is the meaning of life? What's the point of doing sth? Small enough for me to steal this thing, right? I quarreled with someone, right? When you think everything clearly and realize who you really are, your life will enter a lofty realm.
Back to the original thinking: Why are there so many controversial and complicated things in this world? That's because most people haven't understood Xi Juan's sentence: "Only when you have suffered deeply can you understand the suffering of others, so you seldom reflect on yourself." Yes, everyone wants to get rid of their mistakes in the quarrel and win in the quarrel. How can it hurt? How can they reflect on themselves?
Being exposed by others is a failure, but exposing yourself is a victory.