People always say that someone is graceful and radiant, which is the way people look at the beauty of his appearance. However, what I want to say is the beauty of inner view, which will make people admire him deeply and attract people to come-seeing his elegance will make people realize the beauty of the soul.
People often say that "the beauty of the mind is more important than the beauty of the body". Indeed, the beauty of appearance does not really belong to beauty, which is unconvincing. The beauty of the soul is just the wine brewed by oneself, which makes people feel your beauty while knowing, contacting and understanding you. This is the charm of your own demeanor. Cong Fei is such a person. He constantly helps children in poor mountainous areas to embark on the journey of studying within their ability. Even if he lives in poverty, he will never forget the "children" who are studying. What is even more touching is that he still doesn't forget them when he is suffering. He would rather suffer from illness than save money for his children to study. Isn't this love describing the beauty of his soul and his demeanor? This is undeniable. On the contrary, on those who are ostentatious but care about everything in their hearts, their manners are much more beautiful than theirs. what do you think?
In a beautiful manner, not many people came to see it. However, in China, there are a group of women who are toll collectors on the Beijing-Shanghai line. They always greet people with a smile, give people an angelic smile, and carry out charging work in places where people come and go. No matter how stubborn the guests are, they always greet them with a smile. When a stubborn payer was sued, they were scolded. Finally, the payer really threw the money in their faces. Even though they were in great pain, they greeted each other with a smile and said, "Thank you, Master." Such a sentence, a simple sentence, reflects their angelic elegance. The ancestors showed extraordinary manners, so people came to pay their respects, even foreign friends were no exception. Isn't such a beautiful demeanor admirable?
In fact, demeanor is a person's own character and cultivated character. When you pay attention to the cultivation of body and mind and temperament, then your style will be admired and admired by people. Let's greet people, the world and the new era with beautiful manners!
In the elegant arena, losing and winning are always inseparable. People often give applause and flowers to the winners, but they often ignore the other side. In fact, a person's demeanor and quality can best reflect his attitude towards failure. "Can't afford to lose" is not easy. This mentality is formed in the long-term tempering and needs to be accumulated on weekdays. Therefore, whether an athlete is mature and experienced can be read from his attitude towards failure. Remember the farce of Japanese teenager Chen Gui in Kobe. He threw the racket and kicked the baffle, and was accused of losing, which caused a lot of discussion and thinking. On the court, this is common. Beating, swearing and even fighting are not uncommon. But from the analysis, most of the "perpetrators" are still in the growth stage, and they are often inexperienced but arrogant. Uncle Zidane who hit his stomach with a bald head is still quite rare. Most veterans are very calm about failure. For example, Lao Wa, who suffered a 0-4 fiasco in the last international competition, failed to draw a perfect ending for her brilliant table tennis career, but still laughed and laughed at the press conference, which made people admire her general demeanor. A person's self-restraint and the spirit of a country can be clearly revealed at the moment of winning or losing. Also talk about table tennis. That time, I met Bohr. In the seventh game, 12: 13, when Liu returned the ball, it fell to the floor, and the air in Shanghai Gymnasium seemed to freeze immediately-if it was out of bounds, it meant that Liu was out. Just then, a man reached out and gestured to the referee: "The ball passed!" "This man was none other than Bohr! 13 draw, the referee raised his right hand. After two cheers from China fans, Liu finally turned the tables with 15: 13. Bohr lost the game, but gained poise. The whole world saw that he was better than the king. Another move originated from Beijing's Olympic bid. It is hard to forget that when President Samaranch announced that Beijing won the right to host the Olympic Games, delegates from all countries sincerely embraced and wished each other. Yes, when the game comes to an end, it doesn't matter who wins or loses; Winning without arrogance and losing without grace is the real gentleman's demeanor. Success or failure is not all about winning or losing. Losing can be vigorous and win the respect of others and even opponents. In the American Civil War, the Confederate army suffered a crushing defeat, and the proud Confederate soldiers refused to admit the reality. They urged General Lee, the commander, to go up the mountain to fight guerrilla warfare and vowed not to surrender to the Yankees. However, General Li, who has always been brave, advised everyone to surrender: "If you lose, you lose. We must admit that, more importantly, we must lose gracefully. "The commander-in-chief of the Northern Army was deeply impressed by Lee's demeanor, and presented his favorite cigar. This is enough to see General Li's "prodigal" demeanor. Losing gracefully is an ability, a quality and a wisdom. After the "competition", the winner has been divided, but the judgment of "losing" and "winning" is not limited to this. It is a refinement of life, not a pretentious prude, but a character influenced by a good atmosphere and integrating various virtues. From the heart, focus on nature. 3. Behavior is not only dignified and elegant in front of people. Originated from personal knowledge and cultivation. Therefore, a knowledgeable person, even in rags and leather shoes, is personable, while an ignorant person, even with treasures of gold and silver, is insignificant, just like a famous contemporary scholar, who humorously introduces himself-a middle school student and an associate professor. If you don't master knowledge, you can't understand it. Although famous, it is not enough. Neither high nor low. Paralyzed to the "left" and sent to the "right". The face is slightly round and the skin is too thick. When the wife dies, there is no queen. The loss is fresh, but the illness remains the same. Sixty-six, not longevity. Babaoshan, getting together. If you plan to be born within the year, you will be ugly. The body stinks with the name. A generation of grandmasters introduced themselves so humbly that people were on pins and needles. However, some people know little about fur but are frivolous, showing off their ridiculous cleverness. I have heard such a joke. When the graduates of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences came back to their hometown and saw the old gardener transplanting fruit trees, they said, "Your transplanting method is very unscientific. According to your dry method, seven apples can be harvested on this tree, which is enough for me to eat a catty. The old gardener looked at him and said slowly, "Not only you but also I am surprised, because this is a peach tree." . "Deep rivers are silent, and now there are reckless and arrogant people in all fields, mostly young people. As time goes by, wisdom and elegance grow with age, but we can clearly see people who sometimes return to their own age. They carry forward the superficial manners, but they don't pay attention to the existence of inner manners. This kind of mind that thinks it is dazzling but actually has no thoughts can only serve as a container or seat for others, regardless of etiquette. Therefore, we should be arrogant, but we must not be arrogant. Arrogance is the condition for you to stand tall, but there is no need to be arrogant when you are full. So, shouldn't we always remind ourselves to be thoughtful and arrogant, and to carry forward and inherit this virtue instead of arrogance? Moreover, grace is also an absolute gentleman. She keeps her promise and won't bring trouble to others when something happens. When I was a child, my parents often let me eat a refreshing but dry vegetable-bitter gourd in summer. I am reluctant to eat every time. But my father told me a meaningful sentence-remember there is a Chinese medicine called Huanglian? Everything tastes bad as long as it is polluted, but the bitter gourd you are eating now is bitter but not polluted by other dishes, so it is also called "gentleman's dish". I think, isn't this "gentleman" demeanor of bitter gourd worth learning? Look at life, you are charming and have different manners. But we should follow this beautiful character and be a real gentleman. Manner is the smelting of life taste, not a pretentious prude, but a character influenced by good atmosphere and integrating various virtues. From the heart, condensed in nature. Manners are not only dignified and elegant in front of people. Originated from personal knowledge and cultivation. Therefore, a knowledgeable person, even in rags and leather shoes, is personable, while an ignorant person, even with treasures of gold and silver, is insignificant, just like a famous contemporary scholar, who humorously introduces himself-a middle school student and an associate professor. If you don't master knowledge, you can't understand it. Although famous, it is not enough. Neither high nor low. Paralyzed to the "left" and sent to the "right". The face is slightly round and the skin is too thick. When the wife dies, there is no queen. The loss is fresh, but the illness remains the same. Sixty-six, not longevity. Babaoshan, getting together. If you plan to be born within the year, you will be ugly. The body stinks with the name. A generation of grandmasters introduced themselves so humbly that people were on pins and needles. However, some people know little about fur but are frivolous, showing off their ridiculous cleverness. I have heard such a joke. When the graduates of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences came back to their hometown and saw the old gardener transplanting fruit trees, they said, "Your transplanting method is very unscientific. According to your dry method, seven apples can be harvested on this tree, which is enough for me to eat a catty. The old gardener looked at him and said slowly, "Not only you but also I am surprised, because this is a peach tree." . "Deep rivers are silent, and now there are reckless and arrogant people in all fields, mostly young people. As time goes by, wisdom and elegance grow with age, but we can clearly see people who sometimes return to their own age. They carry forward the superficial manners, but they don't pay attention to the existence of inner manners. This kind of mind that thinks it is dazzling but actually has no thoughts can only serve as a container or seat for others, regardless of etiquette. Therefore, we should be arrogant, but we must not be arrogant. Arrogance is the condition for you to stand tall, but there is no need to be arrogant when you are full. So, shouldn't we always remind ourselves to be thoughtful and arrogant, and to carry forward and inherit this virtue instead of arrogance? Moreover, grace is also an absolute gentleman. She keeps her promise and won't bring trouble to others when something happens. When I was a child, my parents often let me eat a refreshing but dry vegetable-bitter gourd in summer. I am reluctant to eat every time. But my father told me a meaningful sentence-remember there is a Chinese medicine called Huanglian? Everything tastes bad as long as it is polluted, but the bitter gourd you are eating now is bitter but not polluted by other dishes, so it is also called "gentleman's dish". I think, isn't this "gentleman" demeanor of bitter gourd worth learning? Look at life, you are charming and have different manners. But we should follow this beautiful character and be a real gentleman. It is the smelting of life taste, not a pretentious prude, but a character that gathers all kinds of virtues under the influence of good atmosphere. From the heart, condensed in nature. Manners are not only dignified and elegant in front of people. Originated from personal knowledge and cultivation. Therefore, a knowledgeable person, even in rags and leather shoes, is personable, while an ignorant person, even with treasures of gold and silver, is insignificant, just like a famous contemporary scholar, who humorously introduces himself-a middle school student and an associate professor. If you don't master knowledge, you can't understand it. Although famous, it is not enough. Neither high nor low. Paralyzed to the "left" and sent to the "right". The face is slightly round and the skin is too thick. When the wife dies, there is no queen. The loss is fresh, but the illness remains the same. Sixty-six, not longevity. Babaoshan, getting together. If you plan to be born within the year, you will be ugly. The body stinks with the name. A generation of grandmasters introduced themselves so humbly that people were on pins and needles. However, some people know little about fur but are frivolous, showing off their ridiculous cleverness. I have heard such a joke. When the graduates of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences came back to their hometown and saw the old gardener transplanting fruit trees, they said, "Your transplanting method is very unscientific. According to your dry method, seven apples can be harvested on this tree, which is enough for me to eat a catty. The old gardener looked at him and said slowly, "Not only you but also I am surprised, because this is a peach tree." . "Deep rivers are silent, and now there are reckless and arrogant people in all fields, mostly young people. As time goes by, wisdom and elegance grow with age, but we can clearly see people who sometimes return to their own age. They carry forward the superficial manners, but they don't pay attention to the existence of inner manners. This kind of mind that thinks it is dazzling but actually has no thoughts can only serve as a container or seat for others, regardless of etiquette. Therefore, we should be arrogant, but we must not be arrogant. Arrogance is the condition for you to stand tall, but there is no need to be arrogant when you are full. So, shouldn't we always remind ourselves to be thoughtful and arrogant, and to carry forward and inherit this virtue instead of arrogance? Moreover, grace is also an absolute gentleman, keeping her promise and not implicating others. When I was a child, my parents often let me eat a refreshing but dry vegetable-bitter gourd in summer. I am reluctant to eat every time. But my father told me a meaningful sentence-remember there is a Chinese medicine called Huanglian? Everything tastes bad as long as it is polluted, but the bitter gourd you are eating now is bitter but not polluted by other dishes, so it is also called "gentleman's dish". I think, isn't this "gentleman" demeanor of bitter gourd worth learning? Look at life, you are charming and have different manners. But we should follow this beautiful character and be a real gentleman.