"If you don't accumulate steps, there will be no miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. " The problem of life lies in human efforts. Just pay attention to a process of accumulation in everything. Whether it is a myth or not, don't expect it to happen overnight. The psychology of once and for all is really not desirable! The way to success is to take your time. Marxist theory holds that "quantitative change is a necessary preparation for qualitative change." Quantitative change to a certain height will lead to qualitative change. This is the way to success: you must pay the price, even if it is in exchange for blood and tears. But sometimes, a mistake will be thousands of miles away, and paying may not be rewarded. So you are discouraged, depressed, and even desperate. In fact, you may be one step away from success. Think about it carefully, the result will be very different! Yes, don't say no easily in front of difficulties and setbacks. Maybe you haven't succeeded yet, but have you ever thought that maybe you are succeeding, and you will succeed soon! The ancients said: "Perseverance, rotten wood can not be carved;" Perseverance, stones can be smashed. "That's what I said. People should have a persistent, enterprising and self-reliant heart! It is not ignorance and stubbornness to say no easily. On the contrary, it is an impulse, rational thinking and doing nothing. It is still too early to say! " A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. "Finally," no pains, no gains! "Know this truth, people's realm is naturally open! As the saying goes, "don't do it because of small evils, don't do it because of small goodness!" "The so-called good deeds, we should respond positively, don't refuse easily. In the face of temptation trap, we should say firmly and definitely: "No!" This is another interpretation of "not saying no easily"! Fame and power are a trap. Throughout history, there are countless people in small Shenyang who are greedy for power and kill their masters, those who love money and plunder people's fat! Look at the current Cheng, Lai Changxing and others, one by one, "carry forward the past and forge ahead!" "They gave up the primitive humanity of conscience in exchange for being nailed to the iron pillar of history forever! It' s really "how many things in ancient and modern times are laughing!" A person who doesn't say no easily is often his perseverance. But sometimes, this is the wisdom! In the face of the weakness of the Han Dynasty, Cao Cao "did not say no easily", but "welcomed the son of heaven to make the princes!" Only then had the later three points. Faced with the question of whether the market economy is "surname society" or "surname capital", Deng Lao did not "easily say no", which led to the later "attempt" and reform and opening up! As the saying goes: "Practice makes true knowledge!" Only by grasping the objective laws of things can we succeed! "It's not easy to say!" Now, temper your will, emancipate your mind and lay the most solid foundation for a better tomorrow!