Tell a story first:

Once upon a time, there was a boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper or quarreled with others, he was in the hospital.

Nail one on the fence. On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. In the next few days, he learned to control his temper, and more nails were hammered every day.

Reduced. He found that it was much easier to control his temper than to nail it. Finally, one day, he didn't nail any nails. He was very happy.

Really told dad about it.

Dad said, "From now on, as long as you don't lose your temper, pull out a nail on this day." As the days passed, finally,

All the nails have been pulled out. Dad took him to the edge of the fence and said to him, "son, you did a good job, but look at the nail holes in the fence." These holes will last forever. "

It is far from possible to recover. It's like when you quarrel with someone and say something ugly, you leave a wound in his heart, just like this nail hole.

Sample. "Put the knife into a person's body and then pull it out, and the wound will be difficult to heal. No matter how you apologize, the wound is always there. ask

Yes, physical trauma is as difficult to recover as mental trauma. Your friends are your precious property. They make you laugh and make you brave.

They always listen to your sadness at any time. When you need them, they will support you and open up to you. "

This story is very touching. Generally speaking, we will admire the father's coaxing. Few people think deeply: the boy was injured while hammering 37 nails.

How many friends have been hurt, or how many mistakes have been made, at least, how many chances of success have been delayed; The father clearly knows that the wound in his heart is difficult to heal.

Close, but still let boys get to know themselves slowly; Is the father responsible enough for the boy? Responsible enough for the boy's friends?

Here I want to express my thoughts (in fact, it is to inherit the classic educational views of my uncle):

No matter at what stage, we will find that there are too many things we need to learn, knowledge, skills, being a man and doing things.

It is obviously not a clever way to explore, understand and master on your own. Even a great man like Newton knows that he still needs to stand on the shoulders of giants!

1, to educate children to learn to learn.

Like Lu Xun's takenism. Knowing is a good thing: methods, ideas, etc. First, accept it and use it directly to guide yourself.

Study, live and work, and then slowly experience and absorb when time and conditions permit, and truly become your own things. This is from the heart.

I understand that to stand on the shoulders of giants, you don't have to wait until you grow to the height of giants. Life is too short, when can I study efficiently?

It is short-lived, and we should only keep one thought: how to facilitate quick and effective harvest and improvement! So, the following question is

Do not hesitate to find out what is good, worth learning, and need to learn. When we are young, when we are limited by life experience.

When we can find or distinguish things in time, we should find a reference object, a trustworthy person, and accept his/her guidance, so as to be efficient.

Run slowly towards success. Therefore, in the following, we only need to be able to distinguish:

2. Confirm who really cares about you and cares about you. Our parents 100% will definitely always think of us and be good for us; grow

In life, we should also be able to find that there are people who love us so much. This is looking for a giant.

Think back to my experience once in a while. I always believe that my second uncle is 100% good to me. In this way, in my study, life and work, I will

Taking fewer detours is also the key reason why I succeed earlier and easier than ordinary rural children! (For example, in the case of rural children,

With my uncle's advice, I didn't feel inferior at first; I can find my advantages and disadvantages as a rural child; I can keep my feet on the ground, really.

Improve yourself and make up for your own shortcomings; I have never been isolated by city children, nor have I been isolated by city children.

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Think carefully, our childhood, youth and even middle age are so short, shouldn't we be good at using the method of getting twice the result with half the effort?

How to succeed as soon as possible and enjoy success as soon as possible? !

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