However, in human society, too many children have lost the ability to live independently under the meticulous "thoughtful service" of their loved ones; Too many students have lost their desire to think independently in the teacher's "spoon-feeding" teaching. Tagore said: "I took the flowers to my heart enthusiastically, and they withered." There is no doubt that teachers and parents love their children, but it is this excessive care that binds the "flowers" that should have been baptized in the vast world of greenhouses. And once the conditions for their survival no longer exist, how should those "flowers of the motherland" who lose their independence face the scorching sun, snow and ice? I'm afraid they can't escape the fate of dying.
When you enjoy the protection of your relatives and friends and don't want to be alone, please don't forget that the world is the sea, the fate is the wind, and all encounters and departures are just instantaneous waves. The boat that provides us with comfort will fall apart one day, and finally we can only rely on ourselves to fight the storms of fate. As Haizi said, "We all have to travel far in the end, and we all have to bid farewell to our immature selves in the end. Maybe the journey is a little hard and lonely, but only after suffering can we grow. " Although the journey of refusing dependence and moving towards independence is not smooth, we can only harvest and grow through it, and the grandeur and magnificence of this road will definitely go deep into our bone marrow, so that we can have a foundation that stands proudly between heaven and earth from now on.
To grow up by embracing independence, we need the courage of "standing shoulder to shoulder with the same tree" as Shen said, and the pursuit of "being healthy and striving for self-improvement". Like lomonosov, we have traveled thousands of miles at the age of 65 to study, and we have taken care of the responsibilities and responsibilities of paralyzed foster mothers for more than ten years like ordinary girls. Let us bravely take an independent step, appreciate life in hardships and hardships, and gain growth in self-improvement.
Independence is an umbrella to help you resist the wind and rain of setbacks; Independence is light, it helps you to melt the difficult ice; Independence is a ladder to help you climb the fortress of dreams. Independence does not necessarily lead to success, but to succeed, you must be independent first.
Goethe once said: independence is the basic feature of genius. And Shakespeare confirmed this statement.
Shakespeare was born in a rich family. He could have lived a happy life with his family, but he went out to make a living alone at the age of sixteen. During this period, I worked as a handyman, a walk-on, an apprentice, a bookboy, and traveled to the English Channel, the Netherlands and other places. In the process of seeking independence, he enriched his life experience and embarked on his own life path. It was Shakespeare who dared to take the first step of independence that led to The Merchant of Venice and Romeo and Juliet.
Independent people can spread their wings and soar like eagles. What about those who can't learn to be independent?
Liu Bei was the first emperor of Shu Han in the Three Kingdoms period. He is ambitious, modest and prudent, and is appreciated by the world. And his son Liu Chan, relying on his father Liu Bei's achievements, never wanted to work hard by himself, so that he was called "A Dou who can't afford to help" by later generations. His parents can only be our temporary refuge, not our eternal reliance. We must stand the test of life and face the difficulties in life, so that we can grow up and be independent. You know, if we give up independence, we will only fly blindly in the dark, without direction. In the sea, we can only go with the flow, not sure. Therefore, taking a small independent step to meet us will be a big step for success.
Learn to be independent, not despair when encountering difficulties, and believe that you can handle it well. Learn to be independent, never flinch in the face of challenges, and believe that you can win in the challenges. Independence is the proof of a person's growth, and it is also the key for a person to move towards society.
During the winter vacation, Ms. Niu Da started to operate an account with about 65,438+000 words per day. Under my intimidation and inducement, this account seemed to last for half a month. After the Spring Festival, I finally gave up my pen and stopped writing. Cow mother had no choice but to put down her cruel words: Don't come to me for a composition.
Two days after the start of school, the first unit composition homework fell behind, and the big girls leaned in sadly to discuss it with me. I slapped and refused: "I'm sorry, I can't wait." She was ashamed and thought about it herself.
One night's trousers, at most one hundred words were written. I scolded her for taking a bath and sleeping with a schoolbag, and she obeyed.
The baby has never been happy about anything since he was a child, in other words, he is not used to honor and disgrace. I have no place to use the skills I have learned from various parenting books. The book says that when it's bedtime, the homework can't be finished, so the teacher can criticize it. The teacher may have criticized her, too, and she didn't tell me when she came back. When the teacher accumulated a certain amount of anger, he called me to teach me a lesson, which made me really afraid to put all the bad work on the teacher. Or, let the baby finish the plan and go to bed. Does this baby really dare to put it off until midnight? Do parents dare to let their baby go to bed in the middle of the night and get up the next day? So after several transgressions, I completely lost my temper, and I followed suit, day by day.
In other words, the older girl received a 100-word draft composition, washed and slept. I always feel uneasy and say to her: I will discuss it with my Chinese teacher tomorrow.
The next day, the big girl got the biography from the Chinese teacher, came back and wrote all night in her pants, copied it into her composition book and handed it in.
The baby wrote a line in the third grade because she had a composition assignment. This ass is really heavy, which makes my mother sigh. It's really a little uneasy to put down the big girl's composition for the first time.
Tell her that if you want to discuss the second composition with me, please keep running 100 words every day. The baby seems to have lasted only three days.
This evening, I listened to a sketch class after school and talked to her on my way home: Do you have any homework tonight? The big girl was sad at once: Unit 2 Composition ...
As soon as I heard this, I didn't answer the following, so I immediately changed the subject. Don't tell me this if you don't stick to the daily account. "Go to bed at nine o'clock last night, get up at seven o'clock this morning, and go to bed at half past eight tonight. What do you think? " The big girl nodded in agreement. "Where's your composition?" I tried. She said she already had an idea. Oh yeah ~ ~ It seems that the earth is still turning without me.
After returning home, I secretly rummaged through her schoolbag and found the composition book just issued by the teacher. The teacher gave her a high score of 29 points (out of 30 points) for a unit composition.
When I was eating, I was beaming and looking forward to the beautiful days when the big girl sold words for rice in the future. The big girl shook her head again and again, which flatly punctured my dream: that's impossible. Well, this baby has been keeping a low profile, but who knows in the future?