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The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children stand out.

Family style is the sum of a family's stable moral norms, traditional habits, life style, lifestyle and lifestyle, which first embodies the power of morality. Attaching importance to the construction of family style is the foundation of many people with lofty ideals in the history of China. From ancient times to the present, Yan Zhitui's Yan Family Instructions, Zhuge Liang's Family Instructions, Zhouyi's Mianyu Children, Zhu's Family Instructions, Zeng Guofan's letters, Fu Lei's letters, etc. Has been widely circulated among the people, flashing the ideological light of good family style. In history, "Meng Mu's Three Movements" and "Mother-in-law's Tattoo" also showed a good family style. The old adage "Don't be ignorant, don't be quiet, don't be far away" and "Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, don't drink too much" in Godson has been praised by the world so far. A good family style is not only beneficial to oneself, children and family, but also gradually affects the moral level and social atmosphere of the public.

Family style, as an invisible force, has been influencing people imperceptibly. Everyone lives in a family of birth. If you come from a family with a good family style, this person will thrive; Being born in a family and not paying attention to the construction of family style, this person will take a detour when he grows up. A good family style will have some similar characteristics, such as a good moral atmosphere, a healthy ideological atmosphere, a positive emotional atmosphere, a serious study atmosphere, a frugal life atmosphere and so on. It is this kind of atmosphere that has created people who are physically and mentally healthy, have achieved something, and even have made outstanding contributions to society. It can be said that a good family style creates a good cradle for children's growth. Under the condition of market economy, there are some problems to be solved urgently in the field of marriage and family in China: money worship in love, careless separation in marriage, overindulgence in family education, neglect of the elderly in filial piety, and even some people with prestige and social status lead themselves, especially their children, to commit crimes because they do not pay attention to the construction of family style. The lesson is painful. It proves the importance of family style construction from the opposite side.