Mediocrity, trust others, doubt yourself;
Fool, believe in yourself and exclude others;
A wise man believes in himself and others.
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Some people say: "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." So trust others and let them decide.
Myself. Some people say, "Only you know yourself best." So I closed my eyes and made a mistake.
Get deeper and deeper in the mire. Believing in yourself and listening to others' opinions seems to be an inseparable contradiction.
Both sides, but they have a unified side. They are like our left arm and right arm, and they are indispensable.
Yes In today's fierce competition, we should trust ourselves and others.
Believing in yourself is a full affirmation of yourself and an approval of your ability. A company
If you don't believe in yourself, who can you trust? When you have a clear and rational understanding,
You should "go your own way and let others talk." China women's volleyball coach Chen Zhonghe is in charge of this matter.
When he first reorganized the women's volleyball team, he was under great pressure and had a heavy task. Many people advised him to be "safe". In that way
He pushed his way through the crowd, believed in himself, used new generals such as Feng Kun, and finally reorganized successfully and regained it.
Lost the trophy of 17. Who will win the gold medal if he takes other people's advice?
It was at the critical moment that Chen Zhonghe believed in himself and made impressive achievements.
However, there is a limit to everything. When we believe in ourselves, we should also.
Trust others. This is determined by the variability of things and their own limitations. A lot of times, I
Children's eyes are limited to a narrow range, "short-sighted" and "self-righteous"
At this time, it is more objective and true for others to observe and evaluate from multiple angles, so we should trust others.
Emperor Taizong accepted the advice of Wei Zhi and others, so there was an enlightened prosperity; Zhu Yuanzhang accepted Zhu Sheng. "
The proposal of "building a wall with high grain accumulation and wide area" is also beneficial to the country and the people. On the contrary, the stubborn Masu.
Wang Ping ignored his advice and thought he was "familiar with the art of war". As a result, he lost his street pavilion and his life.
Other people's opinions are sometimes good and sometimes bad. We can neither completely deny them nor deny them.
It is wise to affirm everything, take its essence and discard its dross.
No one can boast that he is perfect, which means eternity.
The unchangeable truth; But at the same time, no one is useless, so we should believe in ourselves.
Trust others.
Believe in yourself when you are confident, and trust others when you are confused and disappointed.
People cooperate and complement each other, and you will have a wonderful life.
I wish you fly high on the stage of writing!
2. the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear. The authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear!
I came to the very famous beijing happy valley! On the way to Happy Valley, I felt like a ball in my heart, banging and jumping. This is my first time to Happy Valley! Excited ~ I heard that there is a horrible haunted house in Happy Valley. I must go and see it! What is there to be afraid of?
As soon as I got to Happy Valley, I immediately ran to the map and saw the direction of the haunted house. I immediately took my mother to the haunted house. ...
When I arrived at the haunted house, I stood there in horror, unable to close my mouth: there was a skeleton hanging at the door, irregularly painted with red paint, which looked terrible. This article came from inside and there was a scream that made people get goose bumps … Wow! I don't know where my courage just flew. I must have run too fast on the way to the haunted house and lost all my courage. I was not sure just now, so I dare not step into the haunted house now.
I ran out quickly, and my mother took me to eat something near the haunted house. Sitting in the dining chair, I can hear people screaming in fear from the haunted house. At this time, I thought contemptuously: What's to be afraid of! A bunch of cowards! Why was I scared just now? Really!
After dinner, I asked my mother to take me to the haunted house. My mother asked me strangely, "weren't you scared to death just now?" Why are you going again? "I didn't speak, dragging my mother to the haunted house.
But at the entrance of the haunted house, I was afraid again and hesitated. What's going on here? Didn't I just get scared? Why are we here?
My mother pulled me out of the haunted house, and my heart was so tangled. That phenomenon just now is a reaction of "the authorities are fascinated, but the onlookers see clearly". Outside the haunted house, I don't feel terrible inside, but I'm really scared when I get to the haunted house. Very strange ...
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", it is a kind of gain to find problems through reading and practice and to develop yourself through the discovery of others. This is not only a kind of harvest, but also a kind of enjoyment, which will benefit you for life. Curriculum reform is a reform and sublimation in the front line of teaching, between teachers' constant discovery and the impact of discovery, between conscious and unconscious reflection, and between communication and exploration.
3. The more than 500-word composition "The authorities are lost, the bystanders are clear" 1 The authorities are lost, and the bystanders are clear.
Only after reading the newspaper did I know: Xu Meijing entered a mental hospital!
At first, I didn't remember who this little-known Xu Meijing was, but in the end, I found that her masterpieces were well-known Moonlight in the City and Sunshine after Rain. These songs in my memory all have some inspirational elements. For example, the team song of China Women's Volleyball Team is sunshine after rain, which caused me to be troubled by the melody of these two songs all the time last night. Today, when I looked up Xu Meijing's songs on the Internet, I was shocked again. Many of her songs are about it. Although the voice is soft, there is a woman's power hidden inside. I have always liked these two songs, but I never paid attention to this singer until after her accident. I believe many people, like me, can't help but explain the sadness of the stars. Therefore, if we watch some hype, we will feel sorry for them.
It is said that Xu is crazy because of emotional things. She once said for that man that she didn't care about her birthright and could even give up her career. A husband loves her so much, what more can he ask for? Now, she has done it. The world thinks that she left the show business to marry into a rich family and live a little woman's life. Who knew she was so poor that she didn't even have a birthright? It's not her fault. Don't blame her for being stupid, don't laugh at her. She just fell in love with the wrong person. Here, she is not a star admired by ten thousand people, but an injured woman. She is also an ordinary person.
Her songs are as attractive as the lyrics, and no matter what the tune is, it is worth learning carefully.
"Life is full of joys and sorrows, and I am willing to share everything with you. I'm bound to fall and wait. I want to look up bravely. Who wants to hide in a sheltered port? I'd rather have rough freedom. I want you to see through the lighthouse in your heart. The sunshine is always after the wind and rain, and there is a clear sky on the clouds. Cherish all the touches. Every hope is in your hands, and the sunshine is always behind the storm. Please believe that there are rainbows and ups and downs.
There is always a memory somewhere in every heart, and there is always the deepest miss somewhere every night. Love divides sentient people into two ends. If you know the direction of Linxi, please warm his heart and see through the gathering and dispersion of the world even if you can't accompany him in the moonlight of the city day and night. Can the moonlight in the city light up dreams? Please protect it. If we can meet again one day, let happiness fill the whole night.
It's a pity that she only gave her own song to others, but forgot to sing it to herself. If she could sing like her, she wouldn't be in this situation. Perhaps this is the so-called "the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear." We are not herself, and no one can understand her suffering and pain. What we can do is to give her sympathy and comfort. Once I heard someone tell her friend about their emotional dissatisfaction, and her friend made it very clear and firm. But the parties are still hesitant. I said, "Because you are not a party, you can think rationally." There are some things we can only give people advice for reference. As for the final decision, let the parties decide for themselves. After all, we are just spectators.
I really didn't leave a mark on the emotional bill. I just feel it from someone else's point of view. Maybe I haven't experienced it before, and I will always be cynical. Let's just say that the above is irony.
My ideal life has always been like a woman in a Korean drama: concentrate on being a little woman behind a man after marriage. I can live a leisurely life every day, just take care of my husband and children. I'll do whatever I want the rest of the time. However, this is not realistic. On my terms, I can't seem to live like a canary. Besides, I don't believe that any man will work hard for a woman all his life. There are contradictions outside.
So, what will my real ideal life be like? What will my real life be like?
4. composition, the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear. If you give a 600-word composition, the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear.
Confusion is always used to describe the confusion and helplessness of the authorities.
Clear, always used to describe bystanders, awake and lonely.
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Life is like a huge net, which tightly wraps us seemingly insignificant human beings, so that people's hearts are closed. The so-called confidante, confidante is really rare. If you can't read your own mind, how can you understand other people's thoughts and feelings?
What followed was that "the authorities are fascinated and the onlookers are clear." Even the ancients knew this truth. How can we humans in 2 1 century not understand? I just don't want to change!
There is no distinction between rich and poor in the world, just because life changes slowly, which makes us confused. Those bad attitudes of doubt and misunderstanding are everywhere. Because we don't change, the gap between people will deepen, there will be a concept of rich and poor, and there will be differences between rich and poor.
After all, change is the most important thing at the moment. Only by truly changing yourself can we change others. After the change from the heart, you will suddenly feel a kind of freedom from the heart and be suddenly enlightened.
Change yourself, that is, learn to put yourself in each other's shoes. When you are confused by something, you should think of yourself as a bystander and consider things from the other side's point of view, so that you can handle things more easily.
Bystanders see clearly, but the authorities are confused. If we can all learn to change ourselves and put ourselves in others' shoes, then the society will be more harmonious and the world will be better.
5. There are no fewer than 800 words about the fans of the authorities. The authorities are: chess players; Onlooker: a chess player; Qing: clear, understand. For example, the parties to a matter often think too much about the gains and losses, and have an incomplete understanding, but as a bystander, they can't see clearly.
The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Su Shi, who is out of the poem Xilin wall, looks at the side of the ridge as a peak, and the distance is different. I can't recognize the true face of Lushan Mountain because I am there. The last two sentences, "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only in this mountain", are the experience of reasoning on the spot and talking about traveling to the mountain. Why can't you identify the true face of Lushan Mountain? Because I am in the middle of Lushan Mountain, my vision is limited by the peaks of Lushan Mountain, and I only see one peak, one ridge, one hill and one valley of Lushan Mountain, which is one-sided and inevitably one-sided. This is what you see when you visit the mountains, and it is often the same when you observe things in the world. These two poems are rich in connotation, which enlightens us to understand a philosophy of dealing with people-because people are in different positions and have different starting points, their understanding of objective things is inevitably one-sided; To understand the truth and the whole picture, we must go beyond the narrow scope and get rid of subjective prejudice. This is a philosophical poem by the richest man, but the poet does not discuss it abstractly, but talks about his unique feelings by tightly holding the mountain tour. With the help of the image of Lushan Mountain, he expressed philosophy in simple terms in popular language, so he was kind and natural and thought-provoking.
Why is it "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear?" After thinking about it, I'm afraid this obsession with authority is because we are in it, too many interests balance our energy, and too many other factors interfere with our normal judgment. So when we are in it, we can't see the true face of things clearly. People on the sidelines will look at the problem more directly, simply and simply, because they are not troubled by these excessive irrational factors. So, how not to be fascinated by the "authorities"? Jump out and stay out of it? Or, really learn to empathize?
To say that the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear means that this is an easy phenomenon, not that the authorities must be confused and the bystanders must be clear.
If the authorities are fascinated, they will fall into it, lose their comprehensive thinking and narrow their horizons. This will only focus on local interests, pay too much attention to personal goals and so on. The so-called trees can't see the forest, mantis catches cicada, and yellowbird is behind, all of which are its manifestations. This will even happen to the wise. Onlookers, relatively detached, can see clearly at a glance. It's like swimming in the river without knowing that there is a whirlpool ahead, and the onlookers on the shore can see the danger at a glance although they can't swim.
The way to avoid it is that when the authorities are obsessed, don't forget to think comprehensively at any time, calm down from time to time, think about all aspects that need to be taken into account, and then assess the situation. Advance is advance, retreat is retreat, and several key red lines are planned in advance. It would be better if we could not surpass them.
The administrator's working memory information is overloaded and considered too comprehensively, which leads to the key information being buried by a lot of useless information. Onlookers have limited information and only need to consider key information.
The rapid thinking of subconscious interferes with the slow thinking of consciousness, that is, the habit of automatic thinking affects the process of rational analysis, which is somewhat similar to the death cycle. On the contrary, a breakthrough can be made in sleep, or some casual phenomena can cause epiphany, all because of jumping out of the infinite loop of automatic thinking.
The worry caused by fear blocks the normal thinking circuit.
I just want to say one thing. People's hearts are really complicated, and there is no way to guarantee that every choice they make is based on rationality. There are many criteria to measure the value and choice of things in a person's mind, whether they are unknown or recognized by onlookers. Therefore, if authority is dominated by sensibility rather than rationality, she will have to struggle between internal values, external social views and rational rules. On the other hand, onlookers usually only start from social identity and rational rules, so it is easier to make choices that most people think are' right'.
When you do something, your sensibility and rationality are involved. Success can bring you happiness, and failure can also bring you pain.
The difference between the authorities and neighbors is that residents have emotional thinking, while bystanders are more rational.
Emotional thinking is illogical, but more about the expression and release of emotions. Therefore, once the authorities are deeply involved, they are easily disturbed by negative emotional thoughts and emotions. A little trifle will also affect perceptual thinking and dilute objective concepts, so there is no way to think rationally better and there is not enough energy to absorb and process information.
Onlookers can cut off this emotional factor, so they can see the truth objectively and comprehensively without emotion. However, because they didn't really do it, they may only see the trunk and general direction, and the details, emotions and emotions that need to be controlled are excluded, so the actual operation is completely different.
6. composition, the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear. You give 600 words, the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear.
Confusion is always used to describe the confusion and helplessness of the authorities.
Clear, always used to describe bystanders, awake and lonely.
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Life is like a huge net, which tightly wraps us seemingly insignificant human beings, so that people's hearts are closed. The so-called confidante, confidante is really rare. If you can't read your own mind, how can you understand other people's thoughts and feelings?
What followed was that "the authorities are fascinated and the onlookers are clear." Even the ancients knew this truth. How can we humans in 2 1 century not understand? I just don't want to change!
There is no distinction between rich and poor in the world, just because life changes slowly, which makes us confused. Those bad attitudes of doubt and misunderstanding are everywhere. Because we don't change, the gap between people will deepen, there will be a concept of rich and poor, and there will be differences between rich and poor.
After all, change is the most important thing at the moment. Only by truly changing yourself can we change others. After the change from the heart, you will suddenly feel a kind of freedom from the heart and be suddenly enlightened.
Change yourself, that is, learn to put yourself in each other's shoes. When you are confused by something, you should think of yourself as a bystander and consider things from the other side's point of view, so that you can handle things more easily.
7. Ask for a composition with the topic of "outsiders see the truth", with more than 700 words. Contented with high marks, onlookers know the truth since ancient times, but is this really the case? Now it feels a bit like the authorities are clear and the onlookers are fascinated.
Every industry has rules, every industry has secrets and every industry has a bitter history behind it. People in the industry understand the bitterness and helplessness, while bystanders outside the industry only see the scenery of the authorities and envy their carefree life like immortals. Are the facts really what they saw? Since they chose this road, what they heard most was envy, because they only saw the superficial scenery. Every time someone comes, they see themselves smoking, drinking tea and surfing the Internet. In their view, this is a petty bourgeoisie life, with endless work and endless complaints every day. In fact, the same is true of the authorities. When they are free, they drink tea, smoke and surf the Internet. Although they are indifferent in appearance, can you feel the "rough waves" inside them? Business is cold and cheerless, which is the most taboo period for every organ. Sitting still is not a good concentration, but sometimes it stems from a helpless, seemingly calm sitting, but the head never stops thinking. Business is cold and cheerless, which means that there is no money to make, but there is no money to make, which means that all your efforts are in vain.
In fact, every authority envies the bystander, because the bystander does not have to bear too much responsibility and does not have too much risk. No matter what kind of business, there will always be a fixed income every month, but as a competent department, we should always pay attention to the market dynamics and may encounter a huge impact from new markets at any time. Every successful manager has experienced one difficulty after another. As a bystander, you may not feel that feeling: when everyone denies himself, when all appearances show that his persistence will fail, his helplessness and helplessness in the face of choice means that all his previous efforts are in vain; Persistence, maybe it will only be empty after all, and I will go back to my original place. As bystanders, there are always a few days off every month, but the authorities don't rest because they have too many things on them, not because they can't rest, but because they don't want to miss every chance of success; As a bystander, you can easily chat with your colleagues every day, laughing and laughing, while the authorities need to fight alone and endure loneliness. They are not without friends, just friends in the field of interest, just using each other. Today's so-called friends may become enemies of conflicts of interest at any time.
Outsiders see clearly. If you are really clear, please don't take a one-sided view of the problem and jump to conclusions. The authorities have their own difficulties, but they just can't show them, so they are superficial and just laughing. Every authority should be able to withstand loneliness and always be ready to meet new challenges; Every bystander must stand the test and always look forward to taking over new posts. Give up, give up, give up and you will get it. In this world, everyone has his own way to go. Don't envy others, don't sell yourself short, don't envy others' paths, and don't regret your own paths.
8.l Regarding "Outsiders See Outsiders", educator Holmlinsky said: If you find it, you will get something. As long as you have a little understanding, it is not difficult to get anything. The hard part is that you can't find it in time.
Discover the strengths of others and learn from each other's strengths; Find your own shortcomings, better late than never. In a recent high-quality class selection activity organized by the school district education Committee, some short stories happened around me that were thought-provoking and worthy of scrutiny.
I was teaching a "seaplane" class. Because I wanted to take part in the competition, the school appointed backbone teachers Ma Hongjuan and Wang Jianping to give me guidance and tried to give a lecture. To be honest, because I designed the class. And I feel good about myself, and the students' classroom performance is also good. Who knows, after coming down, the two teachers pointed out many flaws without hesitation: 1, there was no introduction before class, and there was no small topic research.
The sudden appearance of the class caused a strange feeling. 2, the teacher's language is too casual, repetitive, too much nonsense, not concise, unclear, easy to give students the illusion.
There are differences and disputes between "reading first" and "reading later". Even during the trial practice, I was embarrassed to interrupt my explanation, give guidance in front of the students, and finally take all the students out of the classroom.
These practices were really puzzling at that time, which undoubtedly gave me confidence and poured a pot of cold water. It wasn't until I calmed down that the three of us calmly discussed it again and came up with a design plan that we really felt that we had shortcomings. The whole design is reasonable, seamless and admirable. In view of the above four problems, the following guidance is given.
1, before class, the introduction is rearranged, and even every sentence is repeatedly scrutinized, considered, combined with one's body language, fluently expressed and questioned. Practice has proved that it is really effective and the effect is very good.
2. Every sentence in the process of explaining the text should be concise, clear and accurate, and the evaluation of students should be relevant, clean and fresh. These are the suggestions and comments of two teachers.
Write a sentence and experience a sentence. The whole process, there is a feeling of thoroughly remoulding oneself.
In the final speech contest, I always master my own language, which is always praised by my teachers. I still reserve my opinion on the question of "reading first" or "reading later".
I think, as the teacher said, students will have their experience and understanding only on the basis of their full reading, and the teacher will only give guidance based on their feedback and respect. I appreciate this view. As for the phenomenon of interrupting the teacher during the explanation, it was necessary at that time. Finding problems and solving them on the spot also reflects the serious and responsible attitude of the instructor.
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", it is a kind of gain to find problems through reading and practice and to develop yourself through the discovery of others. This is not only a kind of harvest, but also a kind of enjoyment, which will benefit you for life. Curriculum reform is a reform and sublimation in the front line of teaching, between teachers' constant discovery and the impact of discovery, between conscious and unconscious reflection, and between communication and exploration.