Everyone wants to be strong, but we should not pursue strength just because we want to keep up with the joneses. On the contrary, we should pay more attention to improving ourselves and pursuing our own strength.
Paying attention to yourself means not being influenced by the outside world. At the just-concluded Tokyo Olympic Games, Yang Qian, who won the first gold medal, kept a steady state of mind in the preparation stage, was not influenced by other athletes, and focused on improving herself, so she achieved good results. Only when we are truly free from external interference can we pay attention to ourselves and break through ourselves. Step one.
It doesn't matter, winning or losing is all about self-improvement. It's just Su Like Tian Bing, who constantly improves his skills and insists on surpassing himself. He is a well-deserved "uncrowned king". In the later life, we will also experience countless life competitions. If we lose, we will win. We don't need to care about winning or losing, and strive to improve ourselves. I believe I am a strong person.
In today's society, some people say that everything depends on themselves. In fact, this is also a fact. Some of us don't have a prominent family background, so we can only make ourselves pay attention to ourselves, improve our abilities and plan a bright future for ourselves. This can be achieved entirely by yourself. In the end, I will become a strong person with a strong heart.
In our pursuit of strength, we should acquire strength through self-study. "A Letter from Zeng Guofan" said: "We can be better than self-study, but we can't be better than others." This means that we can't lose the original intention of pursuing strength because of comparison. This is absolutely unacceptable. Our initial intention is to be self-centered, strive to break through our own limits and create miracles.
How should we strengthen ourselves through self-study now?
Self-study should be self-disciplined. Self-discipline is an important step towards strength. We should be self-disciplined, be strict with ourselves, and have our own bottom line, so that we can strictly abide by and strengthen our principles. I think that if we keep self-discipline, we will strengthen some people.
Self-study should strive to improve their self-cultivation, which lies in etiquette and knowledge level. It is the first task to learn the etiquette of dealing with people first. Then we should enrich our knowledge reserves and improve our internal externalization in external performance.
At the Tokyo Olympic Games, China lost to the United States with the first gold medal, although it was a glorious defeat. I believe that if I improve myself in the future, I will be able to turn defeat into victory. Pay attention to ourselves and strive for strength through self-study, which is what we should and can do.