In 279 AD, in the old China era, Lin Xiangru of Zhao returned to Zhao after guarding the city wall, and made great contributions. Be worshipped as Shangqing, ranking above General Lian Po. Lian Po, who was self-reliant and successful, was not convinced and threatened to humiliate him. When Lin Xiangru heard Lian Po's words, he often refused to go to court because of illness, nor did he argue with Lian Po. Sometimes when Lin Xiangru goes out by car, he runs away when he meets Lian Po. The public thinks he is timid. Lin Xiangru said, "I am not afraid of the king of Qin, so I am not afraid of Lian Po. I don't think the powerful state of Qin invaded Zhao because of the two of us. Nowadays, fighting between two tigers is bound to hurt and weaken the power to resist foreign enemies. The reason why I avoided General Lian was to worry about my family first and then avenge myself! " When this word reached Lian Po's ears, Lian Po felt very ashamed, so he stripped off his clothes and offered a humble apology. He said: "I am rude and humble, and my ambition is shallow and narrow." I'm guilty of Guo Xiang, and Guo Xiang can be so tolerant. My death is not enough to make up for it. " So they will get back together and become friends of life and death.
Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
Zhou Enlai measures magnanimity:
Our beloved Premier Zhou has always been called a model of politeness. On one occasion, Premier Zhou asked a barber named Zhu to shave him. Just halfway through, Premier Zhou suddenly coughed. Master Zhu didn't pay attention and scratched a small hole. Master Zhu felt very nervous and said, "I'm really sorry, the work was not done well." Premier Zhou smiled and comforted him and said, "How can I blame you? It was all because I coughed and didn't say hello to you. Fortunately, you hide the knife quickly. " Afterwards, Premier Zhou repeatedly thanked Master Zhu and tried his best to eliminate his worries.
Peng measures magnanimity.
More than 30 people, including Peng, commander-in-chief of the Third Army of the Red Army, inspected the terrain ahead, and the messenger shouted out of the way while holding the red flag. Only one soldier sat still. Peng shouted a few words when he saw someone in the way. The soldier stood up and gave General Peng two punches. Mr. Peng told him to hurry. Later, the messenger tied up the soldiers and went to see General Peng. General Peng immediately told him to go back. The soldiers knew that they were in trouble and they were afraid. I was deeply moved to see that General Peng was able to shrug off. Later, everyone said, "The commander-in-chief is really generous!"
Zhang ying
During the reign of Kangxi in the Qing Dynasty, there was a great scholar named Zhang Ying. One day, Zhang Ying received a letter from home, saying that his family had a dispute with his neighbor over a three-foot wide homestead, and asked him to use his power to ease the relationship and win the lawsuit. After reading the letter, Zhang Ying smiled indifferently and wrote a letter with a poem: Why not let him write a three-foot book? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. After receiving the letter, the family gave up the three-foot homestead. Neighbors saw it and offered to give it to each other. As a result, it became Liuchi Lane, and this story of peace has been passed down to this day.
Liszt accepts students.
There is a girl who is going to give a concert. The poster says that she is a student of Liszt. Liszt appeared in front of the girl the day before the performance. The girl was frightened and sobbed, claiming that she had no livelihood and asking for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to give him her bullet and give him some advice. Finally, she said brightly: "Come on stage and act boldly. You are my student now. You can announce to the theater manager that the teacher will play the last program of the party for the students. " Liszt played the last song at the concert.