There is true love in the world and there is true love in the world. In deep feelings, the most important thing to remember is the affection that blood is thicker than water. The true love of blood is thicker than water is accompanied by the happy growth of children, and the feedback of blood is thicker than water, so that the elderly in Huasijia can spend their old age safely.
Why is affection the most important thing? Some people will say why it is important. Even some relatives I seldom visit. You'll know why later. In my eyes, affection is always the most important thing, even if you have money, you can't buy it. Your parents raised you with great pains, worked hard all their lives, made selfless contributions, and saved money for their children to study. For who? They are not for themselves, but for their children. I'd rather spend less money myself, and let my children live better, and I can't bear to watch them suffer! But as children, have we ever thought about how hard your parents work? Who gave you money for food and clothing? It's your parents In fact, have you ever thought that every penny you spend now is the hard-earned money of your parents? Have you ever thought about how hard your parents work? When they came home from work, they simply said, "Dad, Mom, you have worked hard!" " "Have you ever said that it is this simple sentence that parents will feel very happy? I am very happy because they know that their children are sensible and grown up! As we grow up, we are sensible. We should share the burden for our parents and do what we can, and don't forget their birthdays. Let's celebrate. Don't say how expensive and extravagant it is to buy them as gifts. Simply say "Happy Birthday, Mom and Dad! Or buy a cake, parents will be very happy, even if you can't go home far away, a short message "Happy birthday to mom and dad!" " "They will feel very gratified. It is gratifying that their children have really grown up and are sensible! Although sometimes scolded by parents, but parents are also good for us, do not want you to learn bad! Look forward to your son's success and your daughter's success! Every parent wants their children to get ahead one day!
What makes us feel free to condemn Fang Qiu in our own lives? In our short life, what makes us happy forever? What makes us keep an upward heart forever in a colorful world? It's family I wonder if everyone feels the same way? We drift with the tide, clear the way in the mountains and bridge in the water; In the process of our own struggle, we are high-spirited and willing to show the future. It is with the support and encouragement of relatives that we have the motivation to struggle. As a friend said, we see love from mom's chatter, hope from dad's silence, struggle from teachers' eyes, and responsibility from relatives' encouragement ... Maybe, in a few days, we will step into society or go to college. Whether you are a stranger in a foreign land or wandering around the world. Family will always be our safe haven. "He knows that the dew will frost tonight, and how bright the moonlight is at home! "In our hearts, affection is the most important. It not only gave us encouragement and support, but also let me know what love is! Perhaps, affection is a kind of voice. When we are tired, it will relax our muscles and make us feel comfortable all over; When we are pessimistic, it encourages us to join hands to pull us out of the shadow of failure; When we forge ahead, it cheers for us, cheers for us, tears for our achievements ... this is family affection. From this sound, we know love. This kind of affection moved us, and this kind of affection made us burst into tears. From affection, we know a kind of responsibility. In order to make us stop sweating in the sun, we should have the fighting spirit of an eagle and the vitality and vigor of water! I admire Brock's wise choice. "I don't want to wait until there is nothing but money." Indeed, money can buy friends, but it can't buy affection, can it? People with affection are the happiest.
Family ties are priceless. As children, we should spend more time with our parents, talk to them, let them know about us, don't have a generation gap with them, let them really know about us, don't quarrel with them about trifles when they have time, and be considerate and understand them.
love
I really appreciate this sentence: you are not the best, I only love you. Careful reflection, this reflects what kind of optimistic, open-minded and rational love!
People say that since you were born, there is a doomed fate for you; However, the world is vast and life is short. How can I find my perfect partner? Modern people can't stick to this lucky opportunity and hold their breath with perishable youth and anxiety? As a result, he (she) often reluctantly accepts him (her) who comes with the wind, but compares her (him) with his perfect idea again and again, once for comparison and once for disappointment. They don't know how to cherish everything around them They don't know that what they get is actually the greatest happiness and true love!
what is love ? Philosophers say that love is when you know that he is not the person you admire and that he still has various shortcomings, but you still choose him, instead of abandoning all of him and denying all of him because of his shortcomings.
If there is such a person, he is absolutely perfect in your mind, without any defects, and you fear him but are eager to be close to him, this feeling can not be called "love", but only "worship". Worship needs to create an idol, just like totem and other bloodless things; And love doesn't need it. Love is real, feel it with your hands and your heart. Love is when you know that she is dressed in rustic clothes and you are willing to take her out in public. You despise the butcher, but you just become the butcher's wife; You are a neat freak, but you are diligent in washing his greasy lunch box and dirty sneakers. ...
After graduating from college, a girl majoring in Hui turned down the pursuit of many excellent boys, but finally chose a humble but short colleague. Many people around me feel incredible, and even their girlfriends don't understand.
However, she is very calm. In the puzzled eyes of everyone, she put on a wedding dress and walked into the "besieged city" with her husband.
Many years later, when her classmates were tired of building their own corner and disappointed with the original disillusionment, they found at the class reunion that the girl was not trapped in a mediocre circle as they imagined. But still radiant, even more mature, elegant and profound than before. They came to you hand in hand, and the persistence and calmness in their eyes made everyone present feel heartache! This lady told everyone that her man is not the best, and he has many shortcomings, but these were known before she accepted him. And she is willing to entrust her feelings to this boy who silently helps her when she encounters setbacks, enthusiastically encourages her when she is frustrated, and never asks for anything in return.
It can be thought that if there is a persistent and lasting feeling and a fleeting "feeling", which would you rather choose? There are many excellent boys and beautiful girls in the world, but there is only one feeling that really belongs to you; Never change your love because of other people's eyes. C don't live in the eyes of others and lose yourself! Feelings can't be greedy, nor is it a dream. "If anyone thinks there is perfect love, he is an idiot from time to time." This statement convinced me. Therefore, we carefully wait for our earthshaking love and stay together for the rest of our lives!
Yes, no one is perfect, and no relationship is perfect; Love and lover can only be true. When can we calmly think about these words? Think about the ridiculousness and naivety of our efforts to pursue perfection?
You are not the best, I only love you! The feeling of reading this sentence is always like a pair of old people who have gone through vicissitudes of life, walking hand in hand in the warm sunshine, remembering the past with a happy face ... The past is far away, but the memory lasts forever.
friendship
It is often said that the purest friendship in the world exists only in childhood. This is an extremely sad sentence, and so many people agree. It is conceivable that life is lonely and difficult. I disagree with this sentence. Childhood friendship is just a pleasant joke, and what adults add by memory is very unreal. The true meaning of friendship comes from adulthood, and it is impossible to reach the best state before it is meaningful.
Bing Xin said: "Love is on the left, sympathy is on the right, walking on both sides of life, sowing seeds at any time, blooming at any time, decorating this long journey with fragrant flowers, so that pedestrians who wear branches and brush leaves will not feel pain, and there will be no tear drops, but they will not be sad." This love, this friendship, together with a family affection, will definitely make full of green, the tree of your life, shine with a brilliance that can be read at a glance, whether in the sun or in the wind and rain.
Affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth and love is a kind of purity. Affection is an unconditional and unrequited sunshine bath; Friendship is an ideal bank, which can live safely at any time; And love is a mysterious boundless, which can make songs forget their feelings and make tears shine.
Unfortunately, family, friendship and love are indispensable to life; Poor is three missing two; If one of the three is missing, life is worse than death! "。
I have a deep understanding of this. I used to have many friends at school, but having so many friends is the best. They are my dormitory brothers. As the saying goes, "A friend in need is a friend indeed"! Why only say that they are the best brothers, and not say anything else? Because there is one thing I will never forget, and I have also verified a sentence, a friend in need is a friend indeed. The thing is, I had a friend in Dongcheng before, and he asked me to pay back some money because he used his meal card. I said I didn't mean to use you. I have a meal card myself, because I have both cards, so there will inevitably be mistakes. I said, why do friends hurt their feelings when they talk about money? Later, I quarreled with him several times. One day, he told me to find someone to beat me, and then my brother in my dormitory followed me when he knew about this situation. You don't have to be afraid of him. As long as he touches a hair, we'll fix it for you. I really hated being touched at that time! Although we usually have a little quarrel again, we talked and laughed afterwards as if nothing had happened. Although we are working again, some are soldiers and some are still studying, we are also in contact. For me, having you brothers is enough! No matter where they are now, you will always be my good brothers
money
Money is an external thing. If you carefully taste life, you will find that besides money, there are many things worth pursuing, such as happiness, happiness, youth and vitality.
Money is a very tempting thing, and it is unpredictable in life, which makes people unprepared.
There are many things that money can't buy, such as precious time, beautiful appearance, excellent grades and harmonious family relations ... As the saying goes, "an inch of time is worth an inch of gold, but an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time." Although some people beautify their appearance with money, if this person's mind is dirty, then this person is still "ugly", and money can't cover up his dirty mind. If a person is ugly in appearance, but kind in heart, he will be "beautiful" without dressing up. So there are many things that money can't buy.
Money is only material wealth. Human beings need not only material wealth, but also spiritual wealth. Material satisfaction is not equal to spiritual wealth, and spiritual wealth often gives you unexpected gains. Money can buy books, but not knowledge.
Money is a tempting thing. If used improperly, it will bring you unpredictable and serious consequences, and even lead to your addiction. At this time, a typical "Grandet" miser will appear. We can't be misers, slaves of money or misers. We should use money reasonably. We can't squander money. You can't treat money as your life, just like a miser who strictly supervises students and doesn't spend a penny. We should plan the money according to our own needs, spend it when it should be spent, and don't spend it when it shouldn't be spent, so that you will achieve better results.
Money is an external thing. If you carefully taste life, you will find that besides money, there are many things worth pursuing in life, such as happiness, happiness, youth and vitality ... If we rely less on money, concentrate on learning and arm our minds with knowledge, our life will be full of sunshine.
Although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible without money. This statement is absolutely correct. Today, no matter now or in ancient times, money plays an indispensable role in people's lives. Whether eating, shopping or going to school, we can't do without money. But money is a pair of Ren Jian. As long as we can't use it correctly, we will become its ghost.
In my opinion, money is an evil thing. It has great magic and can lead people to a point of no return. It can often be seen in some news that an official was dismissed for corruption and bribery, and his reputation has been discredited since then. These are nothing unusual anymore. Some people who write about greed do not hesitate to cheat. People often say such an irritating thing recently. Some lawless elements often steal children or blatantly rob them, and then gut them for money. This is a heinous thing. Don't these people have any tenderness or conscience when attacking children? Don't they have a conscience when they spend money recklessly? This abominable behavior is caused by money, but perhaps it can't be blamed on money, because people are greedy. There is a saying; "A gentleman loves money and takes it properly." Money is tempting, but we can't harm the interests of others because of our selfish desires. Money can buy clocks, but it can't buy time, and it can also buy books, but it can't buy wisdom. You know money is not everything.
There is no denying that money is also something that can make people warm. Many poor people are eager for money, and only money can make them live a happy life. In today's society, there are also many enthusiastic people who donate part of their labor income to the Hope Project, which has helped many people and rekindled a glimmer of hope in their lives. These people's understanding of money is correct, and they deserve admiration!
People need money to live, but they can't live just for money. Money is the condition of life, but it is not the only thing in life. There are many things more important than money in real life. I once read a case called "Chasing money makes people go to jail": Amin wants to buy a high social status with money. He thought that money makes the mare go, so he quit his job as a public security officer and started selling clothes. His business is very good, and he is getting rich. He thinks that his "value" is increasing day by day like money, so he worships money even more. Except money, he is supercilious. The endless desire for money became a catalyst to accelerate his fall. In order to get more money, he gradually embarked on the criminal road of fraud. He cheated his elders in his hometown by 654.38+0.47 million, and cheated a unit in the south by 654.38+0.3 million, and lived a life of spending money like water. He wants to get ahead and get rich, but his hands are tightly handcuffed by a pair of cold handcuffs. Finally, he was sentenced to 15 years in prison. His wife left him and he will spend his prime in prison. He lost his family, relatives and freedom because of his desperate pursuit of money. Amin is a typical example of the wrong view of money. Although he has a lot of money, he also had a short period of joy and enjoyment, but it was only a flash in the pan, like a passing cloud. His blind and illegal pursuit of money not only ruined his future, but also brought pain to others. Is it worth it? Is money really that important? Don't! Money can buy a bed, but it can't buy sleep; Money can buy tonic, but it can't buy health; Money can buy food, but not a stomach; Money can buy books, but not knowledge; Money can buy clocks, but not time. The pursuit of life is colorful, and the satisfaction of material life is of course important, while lofty ideals, career success, family happiness and physical health should be the pursuit of life. Although many of them are inseparable from money, they are not entirely bought with money, which is not the same as money. Money, life does not bring, death does not bring, life is too short, and the immediate fame and wealth will disappear one day. Only by making good use of opportunities, making good use of time, making selfless contributions to society and the country, making inventions, creating wealth for mankind and bringing happiness to others, can we turn short into eternity. In real life, there are many things more important than money, such as noble personality, sincere friendship, parental affection and so on. These are all money "out of reach". Even if your family is rich and there are no relatives and friends to share with you, what if there is more money? What's it like to enjoy food alone? Charming epiphyllum condensed its life in just two hours and bloomed brilliantly in the world. I think when it blooms, it has become an eternal part. Then, I understand that the value of a person's life lies not in the length of time, but in whether his life reveals the fragrance of life and the brilliance of human nature in a limited time, not in how much money he has. Therefore, my view of money is: happiness is not an unattainable flower built on the cliff of money, money is small, and a meaningful life is great and the peak worthy of our admiration and climbing.
To sum up, in my eyes, affection comes first, friendship comes second, love comes third and money comes fourth. Rich people have their troubles. Although we are not very rich, we can still live happily. They are all based on feelings, but they are named for different objects. As far as true feelings are concerned, the two are indistinguishable. Just like the contrast between a dime and quick money, it's all money. You only use different denominations of money for different objects. Can you see who is more important than who? As for feelings and money, there is a sharp contrast. Emotion is our spiritual "material", and money is just a tool to please our spirit.
I think no matter how much money you have, it's not just a numbers game. Maybe you will say that I can't make money, but you say so. Therefore, everyone has two sides, one is good and the other is bad. Are there many people greeting? If the society thinks you are a good person, then you certainly have little money. Think about whether the rich people in today's society are brave, no, because they are doing it.