Theme interpretation
Self-confidence is self-affirmation and belief from the heart. Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication and career. Self-confidence can make a person move from ordinary to brilliant; Self-confidence can make a person see hope from despair; Self-confidence can make a person move from darkness to light.
Self-confidence is the guarantee of a person's career success. Of course, a confident person will not go smoothly, but he has opened a skylight in his soul to let the sun float in from the window. Even in rainy days, he learned to create the sun, and that sun just has confidence in himself.
Anyway, the motto of a confident person is: "I think I can, I can't now, and I will!" " "
A famous saying about self-confidence
1. Our confidence in ourselves will make others have confidence in us. Laroche Foucault
2. Go deep into your heart and find that all miracles are in yourself. bacon
3. Firm confidence enables ordinary people to make amazing careers. Ma Erdun
The word "impossible" can only be found in a fool's dictionary. -Napoleon
5, a person can't bring confidence to others, unless he has confidence; Only the persuaded can convince others. Matthew Arnold
6, there is still a breath, hope is always there. Cicero [ancient Rome]
7. Self-confidence is the first condition of great action. Johnson Samuel
8. Most failures are due to lack of self-confidence. English proverb
9. Self-confidence is the first key to success. Emerson
10, since God has given talents, let them find jobs! . -Li Bai
Classic material
1, never give up
From the growing process of Yuan, a legendary figure who has been regarded by European and American business circles as "selling any product to anyone" and known as the God of Japanese sales, we can see that life needs self-confidence! Yuan is short in stature. When I was an intern salesman at the age of 25, my height was only 1.45 meters. He is small and thin. Looking horizontally and vertically, he is really not good-looking, which can be said to be congenital deficiency. However, all this did not defeat Yuan. On the contrary, the more frustrated and brave he is, the flame of "never admit defeat" has been burning in his heart. With the super-confident mentality of "I will never admit defeat, never admit defeat" and "Yuan is unparalleled in the world", I successfully created one sales myth after another with tears and sweat, and finally became the first person to sell insurance in Japan.
Self-confidence can be said to be an incubator for the birth of heroes, and one by one slightly better self-confidence has created a number of legends. However, self-confidence not only makes a hero, but also becomes a necessity for ordinary people. A life without self-confidence is considered an incomplete life.
Step 2 question authority
Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous symphony conductor. In the final of a world-class conductor competition, he played according to the score given by the jury, and keenly found the discordant voice. At first, he thought the band had made a mistake, so he stopped to play again, but it was still wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with music. At this time, the composer present and the authority of the jury insisted that there was absolutely no problem with the score, but he was wrong. Facing a lot of music masters and authorities, he thought over and over again, and finally said firmly and loudly, "No! The score is definitely wrong! " As soon as his voice fell, the judges on the bench immediately stood up and gave him warm applause to congratulate him on winning the game.
It turns out that this is a "trap" carefully designed by the judges to test whether the conductor can stick to his correct opinion when he finds that the score is wrong and is "denied" by authoritative people. Although the first two conductors who participated in the final also found mistakes, they were eventually eliminated because they echoed the opinions of authoritative people. However, Seiji Ozawa won the world command contest because of his confidence.
One hundred zeros add up to zero.
After the publication of Einstein's theory of relativity, someone cooked up a book "One hundred people refute the theory of relativity". Einstein dismissed it: "If my theory is wrong, it is enough for one person to refute it, and a hundred zeros add up to zero."
Material application
1. Helen Keller, a famous American woman writer, was deaf and blind due to illness in her childhood. She is confident and self-reliant. /kloc-at the age of 0/4, she is proficient in many foreign languages and is familiar with German, French, ancient Rome and Greek literature. At the age of 20, he was admitted to the famous Harvard University. Later he became a famous writer.
2. Demosthenes, a famous orator in ancient Greece, suffered from stuttering, stuttering and weak voice when he was a child. His speeches are often booed. He always has confidence in himself. In order to overcome the disease, he has pebbles in his mouth and shouts for practice every morning. Finally, he became an eloquent speaker.
Seiji Ozawa dares to question authority, not only because of his extraordinary courage, but also because of his self-confidence, which gives him courage and calms him down.
4. It is not uncommon to lose confidence in adversity: Zhang Haidi was paraplegic due to illness in her childhood, and she worked hard to become a writer and translator with confidence; Gao Shiqi, known as the "Iron Man" in science and technology, has created more than 600,000 words of scientific essays and popular science papers, more than 2,000 lines of poems and more than a dozen new books under the condition that his condition is deteriorating, from paraplegia to complete paralysis and loss of speech ability. Qu Yuan was exiled and wrote Li Sao. After being flogged, Sun Tzu wrote Sun Bin's The Art of War. Sima Qian was imprisoned to write historical records; Beethoven wrote this heroic symphony after he was deaf. When ostrovsky was writing How Steel was Tempered, he was blind and paralyzed.
Being Nuo Nuo seems to be the easiest thing in this world. It takes a lot of courage to say "no" unequivocally on many occasions. Galileo's "two iron balls landed at the same time", Madame Curie firmly believed that radium could be extracted, Edison invented the electric light, and all the successful people in China's history did not succeed with the support of confidence?
6. The famous German astronomer Kepler. When I was 4 years old, I had smallpox, which left me with dangerous sequelae. Later, I got scarlet fever, my eyes were damaged by high fever, and I was highly nearsighted. He suffered from illness all his life. But he never lost confidence. He fought in poverty and disease for more than 20 years, established three laws of planetary motion, and laid the foundation for Newton to discover gravity.