Love is beautiful and worthy of our yearning. In the process of love, we can take care of each other, help each other and learn to care and cherish. If two people have the same ideal, they can also cheer each other up and promote each other to realize the ideal of life. It also allows us to dedicate ourselves to the people we like. These are the beauties of love, and it is precisely because of these beauties that many people have been pursuing and expecting since ancient times.
But in real life, many people dare not pursue her for some reasons. In their eyes, love is not beautiful, and even the first disgust comes from family. Children whose families have broken up because of their parents' discord have witnessed endless quarrels between their parents since childhood, and some even fought, so they think that living in this environment, love is unreliable and bad. The second thing broadcast on the Hope Channel, after some bad things happened in love, which eventually led to a sad ending, they subconsciously thought it was all the fault of love. None of this will happen if they don't fall in love, so they refuse to fall in love. The third is that many people feel no longer in love after breaking up. Whether it is a joke or a serious one reflects the great influence of love frustration on people. After setbacks, they no longer believe in love, so. As I promised, get up from where you fell. As long as we sum up the experience and lessons, I believe that the next love will be handled better. The above three types of people are in the misunderstanding of feelings. They should first realize others, not themselves, not forever. They should try to look forward and believe that love is beautiful and worth pursuing.
2* College students, I realize that good love is built on a certain social and material basis.
Love has social attributes, just like people living in society, no one can exist in isolation and do not communicate with the outside world. Love is not a matter for two people, just as boys and girls consider whether to get married, they should not only consider their boyfriends and boyfriends, but also their family backgrounds. Love is sometimes a matter of two or more families, so dealing with the relationship with the other family, relatives and friends is also related to the success or failure of love. Therefore, people often say that if you love someone, you have to love all of her. When you choose a person's, it means that you choose his family and take care of his parents, brothers and sisters. Secondly, you have to consider whether he has a certain material and economic foundation. Plato's spiritual love in contemporary society is not desirable. Love and bread always have to be full to have love. In a small era, in the words of Guli, there is no material love, just a windless sand. A little one-sided, but it also proves that material is the guarantee of love. Although we won't laugh in a BMW or cry on a bicycle like if you are the one, we should at least cultivate ourselves. After all, when we let two people go out of campus and live together, the problem we face is not just love. At this time, we don't have that much free time. Being very much in love is more about food, clothing, housing and transportation, daily necessities, such as having a house to live in, having food to eat, having children to raise in the future and so on. In this materialistic society, without a certain material foundation, love can't last forever, and sooner or later it will face the end of breaking up, but this doesn't mean paying too much attention to material things. After all, the future is changeable. We may not be rich now, but we can create a better tomorrow through our own efforts.
3* College students realize that good love should be based on the same ideal of life.
The persistence of love in the sense of love requires both men and women to live together, based on ideals. Although the case should be sexual, love should be responsible, and sex is fresh, mature and boring. Responsibility can continue to maintain the continuation of love after the beginning of love and passion, but both sides will feel tired, and more and more physical and mental fatigue and exhaustion will inevitably lead to the end of love. Therefore, the same ideal of life is very necessary for a beautiful love. As long as two people have the same ideal, they have something to say to each other. Only by talking and communicating can they promote each other. * * * Work together, encourage each other and improve each other in the wrong days of mutual support, so that this kind of love will become heavier and heavier, like wine, more and more fragrant. True love.
4* Correctly treat the problems in the process of love.
College students are all young people in their twenties. In this period, we are simple and naive, always full of dreams about life, immature psychologically and emotionally, easy to fall in love and unable to extricate ourselves. At this time, some unscrupulous teenagers will use this opportunity to impress you with a flower gift jewelry, lead you astray, and breed many sad and hateful stories. I think men and women should be rational in the face of love, and establish self-esteem, self-love and self-respect. Never blindly pursue love as a boyfriend. When you make some small mistakes, learn to be tolerant and don't haggle over every ounce, which will affect the feelings of two people. However, when your boyfriend makes a moral mistake, such as playing both roles, you should tolerate some people. Once you have it once, you will forgive the second time and the third time. Does not mean weakness. When it's time to let go, we should treat sex correctly and don't have impulsive sex with each other. If you don't know how to protect yourself and take no measures, your pregnancy is light and your infection is serious, and AIDS is life-threatening. Julia and China are the first female college students who dare to admit that they are AIDS. Both of them are infected with AIDS because of her irrationality. Since then, her life has embarked on a completely different path, and even she can't see the future and hope. We should learn from his world and not repeat his tragedy.
5* Correct the position of study and love.
College students should understand that our primary task is academic love, which is just a beautiful ornament in college life. Our parents worked hard to pay for our education. We can't spend all our precious time falling in love, relaxing our studies and living up to our parents' expectations. Young people have just entered the university, established their own life goals and plans, and their future career has just begun. The pressure faced by Qingxi is obvious. If they are caught in the torrent of love at this time, they will have to stir up the two burdens of love and study at the same time and make a choice. Love is not a compulsory course. We shouldn't talk about others just because we see them in love. We should overcome the herd mentality. Love is not an elective course. Life is always about love, and only with love can life be perfect. So at this moment, we should rationally choose the right time for love. When you feel that you have met the right person, get together, handle the relationship between learning and love, and let love promote learning. The reason is like our high school lovers, with the same goal. At the time of college entrance examination, they cheered each other, helped each other, learned from each other and encouraged each other. Finally, they entered the ideal university. In a word, they should put their studies first, because studies are the main pillar of university values.
6* Correctly treat setbacks in love.
The process of love is a process of love, mutual familiarity and emotional coordination. The success and failure of love are normal phenomena, and we can't lose the direction of life because of lovelorn love. Young people should be lovelorn, impartial and frustrated, lovelorn, lovelorn and lovelorn. We should understand that love is rich and great, not only the love of the lover, but also the love of parents, brothers, sisters and comrades, as well as the love of society and the country, and we only focus on the love of the lover and ignore the love of others and society. This kind of love will be vulgar and selfish. On the contrary, if you have love for others and society, it will make love noble and stable. So, if you are lovelorn, don't be too sad and don't despair. Do something drastic. We can cry, and we can move on after the tears. There will be something better in the future, waiting for you. Love is beautiful. She taught us a lot. As contemporary college students, we should establish correct values. Deal with the problem of love correctly, and don't be afraid of difficulties in love. You can solve it yourself first. If you can't solve it, you can ask your teachers and classmates for help. With these help, you can get out of the predicament and be an excellent college student in love.