Trekking in the desert, believe in oasis; Bumping on the waves, we should trust the other side.

Others can't trust us, and we can't help believing in ourselves.

Self-confidence is a stepping stone to success

Self-confidence is a state of mind, that is, showing your ability bravely, showing off when it is time to show off, not afraid of other people's words and not sticking to the rules. This kind of self-confidence is the premise to ensure the normal and full play of one's ability, the first level of self-confidence, and the ordinary people's understanding of self-confidence. If you have this self-confidence and are not influenced by any outside world, then what you show is that you can do what you can.

However, people's ability is limited after all. Everyone has something they can't do. There will always be people who create gossip, negative comments and even slander about what you can't do. At this time, you will often be hit, because you are not confident about a specific behavior, which will lead you to be insecure about your own ability and think that you are timid and can't do anything. The end result is that the whole person shrinks in the shell like a snail, and even his due ability can't be exerted.

What you can't do is what you can't do. Calm down. If you can't do it, don't feel inferior, let alone affect your confidence.

There is such a joke:

A man came back from the club and boasted to his friend, "I killed the world champion of chess and tennis in the club today."

Mingyou was surprised and asked him how he did it.

He said, "It's easy! I have won the world champion of tennis and the world champion of tennis. "

People used to laugh at the opportunism of the "double champion" when they heard this joke, but few people would ask such a question: What do you think of the defeated chess world champion and tennis world champion?

Obviously, they are not discouraged by losing to an ordinary person in a project that they are not good at. They give up their strengths and compete with others with their weaknesses, which is a sign of giving up self-confidence. You are a good chess player, but there is no need to feel inferior because you can't play tennis. Similarly, even if you are poor at chess, it will not affect your dominance on the tennis court.

The success of a thing needs many factors. In fact, you can succeed as long as you have key factors, and your incompetence in non-key factors will not affect your success. But often under the influence of the outside world, we lack confidence in irrelevant things, which leads to lack of confidence in the whole thing, which leads to failure.

People have great potential, and your own abilities may not be recognized by you. There are some things you may not be able to do, but you must do it, such as the last try. At this time, you must believe that you can do it. This is confidence in the potential ability. This is not blind self-confidence, but believing that you can do what you should do.

There is not much difference between people, but some dare to do, some dare to say and some dare to think. Believe that you can do what others have done.

To be confident, we must understand the true meaning of self-confidence: having a good attitude; I believe I can do what I can, and I face what I can't or study hard to do it. Cultivate the habit of self-confidence; Analyze things. Find out the key factors of success. For non-critical factors, we should correctly face our own sense of powerlessness, learn to grasp the big and let go of the small, and foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Confidence gives you a chance.

Self-confidence is the unyielding pillar of our pursuit of Excellence in life. Only self-confidence can detonate our life potential. Only self-confidence can overcome the hardships and setbacks in our life journey; Only by self-confidence can we constantly surpass ourselves and keep the youth of life forever; Only by self-confidence can we seize the unexpected opportunities in life.

"Self-confidence" can seize the opportunity of success. Here, we can learn from the examples of celebrities and see how they succeed.

Japanese Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous music conductor. Many famous opera houses, such as the Italian Opera House and metropolitan opera, invited him to join the baton.

On one occasion, he went to Europe to participate in a music conducting competition, and he came last in the final. After Seiji Ozawa got the music handed to him by the judges, he made a little preparation and directed with rapt attention. Suddenly, he found a little disharmony in the music. At first, he thought it was a mistake and asked the band to stop and play again, but he still felt disharmony. At this point, he thinks there is something wrong with the music score. However, the composer present and the authority of the jury solemnly declared that there would be no problem with the score, which was his illusion. Faced with hundreds of authoritative figures in the international music industry, he is inevitably hesitant or even wavering in his judgment. However, he thought twice and firmly believed that his judgment was correct. So he said firmly and loudly, "No, there must be something wrong with the score." As soon as his voice fell, the judges on the bench immediately stood up and gave him warm applause to congratulate him on winning the game.

It turned out that this was a trap carefully designed by the judges to test whether the commanders could stick to their correct judgment when they found the mistake and the authorities refused to admit it. Because only people with this quality can truly be called a world-class music conductor. Among the contestants, only Seiji Ozawa firmly believed in his own judgment and didn't agree with the opinions of authoritative people, so he won the World Music Conductor Competition.

A person's self-confidence should be innate, and no one can deprive him of this right. As long as you firmly believe that you can do it, you will achieve unique success. Faith can move mountains. No matter how hard it is. We can also get out of the predicament, because we believe that it is our mistakes that get into trouble, not the predicament that traps us; No matter how many difficulties and hardships there are, we can smooth the ups and downs, because we firmly believe that it is we who misread life, not life who deceives us.

Trekking in the desert, believe in oasis; Bumping on the waves, we should trust the other side. Others can't trust us, and we can't help believing in ourselves.

Wagner, a female musician, was criticized by her contemporaries, but she was very confident in her work and finally overcame the secular gossip. Darwin worked in a small garden in England for 20 years. Sometimes he succeeded, sometimes he failed, but he persisted because he believed he had found the clue and finally succeeded.

Keats, an English poet in the 0/9th century, was an orphan in his early years, poor all his life, criticized by literary critics, failed in love, contracted lung disease, and died at the age of 26. Keats was down and out all his life, but he was not dominated by the environment. After reading Spencer's The Fairy Tale Queen as a teenager, he was convinced that he was destined to be a poet. He once said, "I think I can be one of the English poets after I die." Keats devoted his whole life to this greatest goal, which made him a famous poet in history.

If you are confident that you can succeed, your chances of success will greatly increase. If you think in your heart that you will fail, you will never succeed. Without self-confidence and goals, you will accomplish nothing.

To establish self-confidence, we must believe in ourselves and believe in ourselves.

The secret of Joe Fleur, the former world boxing champion, is that the day before he took part in the competition, he always put his motto on the ceiling-I can win!

We all know that the telephone was invented by Bell, but few people know that before Bell, someone invented the telephone, but he didn't make efforts to publicize his research results and was finally buried. After Bell invented the telephone, he was initially ignored and convinced, but he was full of confidence, constantly taking advantage of various opportunities to publicize it widely and finally popularized it. Others such as Bernard Shaw, Mendeleev, Madame Curie, Nobel, etc. Are examples of success by self-confidence.

Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success, and not giving up self-confidence is the support and guarantee of success. God helps those who help themselves. Only those who believe in themselves can overcome challenges; Only those who believe in themselves can find the way of opportunity in the swamp of life.

Self-confidence needs to be cultivated.

Self-confidence is the key to a good or bad life. Confidence is the clockwork of action, and the unparalleled driving force based on confidence is the source of all success.

People who lack basic and moderate self-confidence in themselves cannot have the qualities of perseverance, fortitude and fearlessness in real life. They can't actively pursue the goal of life and a bright future, but they can only stumble or even struggle on the road of life.

Confidence is half the battle. So, believe in yourself and have confidence in your ability. If you don't have the minimum and moderate confidence in your own strength and ability, you can't succeed at all. Therefore, in daily life, we must always pay attention to our words and deeds and cultivate our self-confidence.

So, how to cultivate your self-confidence?

1. Choose the front seat.

No matter in libraries, classrooms or other public places, the back seats are always filled first. Most people who occupy the back seat hope that they are not "too conspicuous". The reason why they are afraid of being noticed is because they lack self-confidence.

Sitting in the front seat is a sign of confidence, which can also be cultivated. So sit as far forward as possible from now on. Of course, sitting in the front will be more conspicuous, but remember that everything that succeeds is conspicuous.

Practice public speaking

There are many people with quick thinking and high talent, but they can't play their strengths to participate in the discussion, not because they don't want to participate, but because they lack self-confidence. Those students who are silent in class think, "My opinion may be worthless. If I say it, others may feel silly. I'd better not say anything. "

But on the positive side, if you try your best to speak, you will increase your confidence and it will be easier to speak next time. So, talk more, this is the vitamin of self-confidence. No matter what class you attend or what meeting you attend, you should "take the initiative" to speak every time, perhaps commenting, suggesting or asking questions, without exception. Moreover, don't speak last, be an icebreaker, and be the first person to break the silence. Don't worry about being silly, because someone will always agree with you.

Stick to your own ideas

Don't want to escape just because you encounter opposition, but use all our resources to confront the opponents on the spot. We can become an independent person because we are in a certain situation. Because we have certain ideas and ideas in our hearts. If we refuse to use these ideas for a long time, it will bring us more restrictions and setbacks.

4. Don't imitate others because of awe.

Great people are great because we kneel down to ourselves. In fact, no one will be better than us, as long as you have firm confidence. It is easy for us to notice the advantages of others and underestimate our own. This kind of psychology is not only unrealistic, but also beneficial to oneself.

Highlight one's own advantages

It is easiest to arouse people's confidence in work, study and life from their best and easiest workers. Smart people always know to highlight their own advantages and focus on them.

Whether in work or study, if you succeed once, you will feel confident when you do it again next time. Genius is a minority after all, and each of us should discover our own advantages and expand them. Before long, self-confidence will be greatly enhanced.

Break down your goals.

Steady and steady is the basic factor for the success of all undertakings. Even if progress is not too great, progress itself can generate great confidence. Therefore, instead of moving towards a lofty goal at once, it is better to accomplish each small goal one by one, which will bring people strong self-confidence. In fact, many people in the world like to ask too much of themselves and have unrealistic ideals. As a result, they are unfortunately in a state of anxiety, thus losing confidence.

7. Don't worry about failure

Everyone is prone to self-denial, and the value of ideas that are difficult to realize is often denied at the beginning, especially for negative people.

In the face of new job challenges, don't think about whether you can do it or not and what the consequences will be. Instead, think about how to do it first, be mentally prepared, and develop a strong mentality of accepting the worst consequences. Maybe things didn't go as smoothly as you thought at first, but after the failure, you can correct it and have new ideas, and your inner negative mentality will be reduced unconsciously, which will make you confident and enthusiastic.

Self-esteem-don't lose your dignity.

Knowing how to respect is a very important basic character that a person should possess. Respecting others is a courtesy, respecting yourself is a nobleness, and you can't lose your dignity at any time.

Respect yourself.

If a person does not value himself and has nothing to evaluate, how can he expect others to give him a good evaluation? There is a proverb: people who don't respect themselves can't get respect from others. Yes, if you despise yourself first, others will naturally not treat you as a nobleman, and it is natural to refuse and insult you. You can't say to others in your heart when you look down on yourself: you should value me. Even if you do, you will be disappointed with the result, because you have the same respect for yourself and others, at least they are based on the same principle.

Everyone can naturally see their rights with their own eyes. If you think you are worth 8 points, don't expect others to think you are worth 9 points. In fact, others can't take you seriously. It is easy for people to judge how much you value yourself from your expression and God. Once others find that you don't think highly of yourself, they won't ask for trouble and find reasons to prove their low self-evaluation, because more people believe that no one is more true and accurate than themselves.

It is safer to trust a person with self-confidence and self-esteem. If a person even doubts whether he has the moral quality of honesty and integrity, then what reason do outsiders have not to doubt, worry or alienate? Moral degradation is always the first sign on you.

German philosopher Schelling once said, "If a person can realize what kind of person he is, he will soon know what kind of person he should be." . First, make him feel important to thinkers, then he will soon feel important in real life. "

If a person believes in his own ability and values himself, then he will soon have the power of a giant girl. Even if his capital is small, it doesn't matter much. Everyone is willing to help a self-reliant person, because he must have a respectable spirit of hard work. Once infected by him, everyone is willing to support his career and make free publicity for his career.

A person has a strong desire to succeed, consciously exert his talents, actively learn business management skills, and be good at careful calculation. Even if he meets with difficulties and doesn't have much capital, he will still succeed, because he already has the characteristics of a successful person, and all this is the result of his self-esteem.

Respect yourself and stay away from all humble words and deeds and thoughts. In this way, we will not encounter all kinds of inappropriate insults and scenes that hurt our faces.

"Relying on yourself and believing in yourself is an important part of an independent personality," said Michelle Reynolds. "Because of it, the heroes in the Olympic Games won the laurels. All great men and those who have left a good reputation in history belong to the same family because of this common feature. "

Self-confidence and self-esteem can make us pay attention to our abilities, and its influence is irreplaceable by anything else. Those who depend on others for everything and fear wolves and tigers before others, as Shakespeare said, can never and will never feel the glory of self-reliance. Only when you believe that your ideal will come true can all your energy come into play and achieve what you want.

Strong self-esteem

Self-esteem is the only way to success and happiness. Everyone should love themselves unconditionally, because you are you, the unique person in this world.

Self-esteem is a very important and basic moral character that a person should possess, which allows you to deeply understand yourself and feel your value and strength. "You know I like myself. I really like myself. No matter what my parents say or what I think. I'm glad that I am myself. I am willing to be myself, not others at any time in history. "

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Self-confidence is an optimistic and sufficient estimate that you can achieve a certain goal. As you said, self-confidence is really important to a person. Self-confident people are often indomitable and enterprising, so they are more likely to succeed in all aspects than ordinary people. It can be said that confidence means half the battle.

Unfortunately, however, people who lack self-confidence are still everywhere. Research shows that there are many reasons for people's lack of self-confidence, and some even feel inferior, but one thing is certain: it is completely acquired and has nothing to do with congenital. Therefore, it can be said that people have lost their self-confidence and affected their success and future. Again, the biggest enemy is yourself.

So, how to cultivate your self-confidence scientifically and effectively? The following rationalization suggestions are put forward for your reference:

First, always pay attention to your strengths and achievements. You always think about your shortcomings and failures, and of course you will lose confidence more and more. Isn't this suicidal? You must cultivate your ambition. You will always have many advantages and achievements. List them and write them on paper. Write at least five advantages and five achievements. Look at this note and think about it often. When engaging in various activities, think about your own advantages and tell yourself what you have achieved. This is the so-called "diffusion effect of confidence". This effect is very good for improving your self-confidence and is conducive to improving the success rate of this activity.

Second, get in touch with confident people. "Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to jet black." If you are always with people who are pessimistic and disappointed, you will also be depressed. If you often come into contact with open-minded and confident people, you will certainly become such a person. Make more friends with ambitious and confident people.

Third, self-psychological suggestion, constantly carry out positive psychological reinforcement on yourself and avoid negative reinforcement on yourself. When you encounter difficulties, you must not give up. Keep saying to yourself, "I can do it!" "I am great!" "I can do better!" Wait a minute. If you repeat that you have confidence in yourself, it is an important psychological hint of self-positivity, which is conducive to constantly improving your self-confidence. This has been confirmed by psychological research.

Fourth, establish a confident external image. A person's clean and decent appearance is conducive to enhancing self-confidence. Free and easy behavior, good behavior, help others, otherwise, you will have heartfelt confidence. At the same time, it also helps to strengthen exercise and keep fit.

Fifth, maintain a certain sense of pride. A person, modesty is necessary, but not too much. To belittle yourself too much is extremely unfavorable to the cultivation of self-confidence. People should not be arrogant, but not arrogant. Believe in yourself and be proud of yourself.

Sixth, learn to smile. Smiling will increase happiness, and then enhance self-confidence. You might as well try. Smile, self-confidence comes from this, and it is almost immediate.

Seventh, know how to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. In study, life and work, we should always seize the opportunity to show our strengths and specialties, and at the same time pay attention to make up for our shortcomings and make continuous progress. In this way, you will improve your success rate and get more praise, which will definitely enhance your self-confidence.

Eighth, read more biographies of celebrities. Because many famous people's qualifications and external environment before becoming famous are not better than yours. Some are even the same age as you, far less than your present situation. Reading more information in this field will let you know that you actually have the conditions for success, and success lies entirely in time, which will help to enhance your self-confidence.

Ninth, make full preparations. If you can make full preparations before engaging in an activity, you will be more confident when engaging in this activity, which is conducive to the smooth completion of this activity. Once this activity is successful, it will in turn enhance the overall self-confidence.

Tenth, set appropriate goals for yourself. The goal is too low, too easy to achieve, and it is impossible to enhance self-confidence. But the goal should not be too high. The goal is too high, it is not easy to achieve, but it is detrimental to self-confidence. The proper goal is: jump hard, as long as you touch it.

Heartfelt congratulations on your growing confidence and success!

First, we should pay attention to active learning and knowledge accumulation in peacetime.

Self-confidence is directly proportional to people's knowledge level and ability. People with high knowledge and rich working ability can generally maintain strong self-confidence no matter what they do, which is an important condition for successfully completing their tasks. Therefore, it is very important to strengthen the acquisition of knowledge at ordinary times, and it is also important to strengthen the ability training and cultivate your self-confidence.

Second, we should dare to overcome difficulties and take the initiative to fight them.

People's self-confidence level when they encounter difficulties can generally be divided into high and low. People with strong self-confidence are calm when encountering difficulties, and can calmly analyze difficulties and find solutions to them. People who lack self-confidence will often stand still and retreat when encountering difficulties, and the result will inevitably be failure in the face of difficulties. In his youth, Comrade Mao Zedong often took the initiative to fight against difficulties to cultivate his confidence and will. For example, sleeping outdoors in winter, taking a cold bath outdoors, voluntarily starving, and having no money to go to the countryside to investigate and exercise their viability. It is he who dares to overcome difficulties, actively discovers difficulties or creates difficulties for himself, and cultivates his strong will and superhuman self-confidence. In his revolutionary career, he often faced with almost no way out, but because of his superhuman self-confidence, he always saved the revolution at the most dangerous moment and made the Chinese nation finally stand in the forest of the world. It can be seen that the courage to fight against difficulties can really cultivate your self-confidence.

Third, always sum up experience and lessons and master the law of development of things.

It is impossible for people not to fail, but what attitude to treat failure is a matter of self-confidence. Therefore, we should always sum up the experiences and lessons of success and failure in life, study and work, and analyze the laws of objective things. Some people say that "failure is the mother of success." In fact, it emphasizes the role of experience and lessons in success. What is reflected here is the problem of summing up the law. Because everything develops regularly, only by mastering the rules can we have the initiative in work, study and life. Those who have mastered the law of development of things will have strong self-confidence in any work and activities.

As long as you know yourself correctly and look at others and yourself comprehensively, you will feel that you are not so bad, but you may feel that your state is not the best or care too much about other people's opinions or ideas. However, other people's views or ideas are often one-sided, which causes you unnecessary inferiority.

A person should know himself correctly, because there are great differences between people, and know his own personality strengths and weaknesses. Learning to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses helps to form your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect. To know yourself correctly, we must look at ourselves with a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need confidence to achieve their goals and their careers ... you can be a strong person.

First of all, you should have confidence and think that you can do anything. Only when you realize that you can achieve your goal through your own efforts. Confirm from your heart that you can do it and encourage yourself. As long as you are mentally prepared, you won't back down because of a little difficulty. Believe that you can complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people should keep pace with the times. People's development goals change from time to time. As long as you overcome inferiority, build up self-confidence and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing can beat you; You will succeed in your studies or career. You are the most promising young man.

When you are confident, you should also learn to make friends. Only in the intimate words of friends can you be comforted, have a chance to speak boldly, and have an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express your opinions or suggestions, and dare to express your opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, you can integrate into society and get happiness.

Life without friendship is bleak, just like the earth has lost the light of the sun and its luster. Life without friendship is boring, just like a match that has withstood the tide. No matter how you rub it, you can't light the fire of hope of life. A life without friendship is an incomplete life. A person living in the world, since there is no friend, no friend's care, how can he appreciate the real pleasure of life?

Only a life full of friendship is full and meaningful. A philosopher said: two people share a pain, then there is only half the pain; When two people share one happiness, there are two happiness. When you are in trouble and embarrassed, you suddenly get sincere help from your friends, even if it is just a common word of comfort and encouragement. What will your mood be like? Will you feel that your heart has been released with a kind of comfort, and a warm current rises from your heart, making you full of confidence and energy? When you are ecstatic about your success, what will your mood be like if you get sincere blessings from your friends? Whether you feel happy or not. Therefore, enhancing your self-confidence can eliminate your inferiority complex. How confident you feel! You can regain your self-confidence and make great achievements in your work. You are a strong person! First of all, we must establish a confidence: I can do it. To cultivate a person is only to cultivate his self-confidence, while to destroy a person is only to destroy his self-confidence. Self-confidence is very important to our study. We need determination, confidence and action to learn. I send you three sentences: "believe in yourself, I can succeed!" " Encourage yourself to succeed every day! Go beyond yourself and you will succeed! "

Second, have a good mood full of confidence every day. I am great in a new day! Self-confidence is a kind of enthusiasm in class, and I want to express my opinion! Self-confidence is a warm hand when others encounter difficulties: please let me help you! Self-confidence is calm thinking when winning impressive results, and dribs and drabs at ordinary times are the key to winning! Self-confidence is self-motivation when you fail again and again, and success beckons to the brave in the next post!