It seems normal for me to play with my mobile phone while watching the play. I don't know why, playing mobile phone in the room is actually quite lonely, but as long as you play mobile phone while watching a drama, even if you are alone, your loneliness will be reduced by 80% immediately.
I haven't graduated yet, and I'm a senior now. I have been out of school for three months. Three girls and I rented a four-bedroom apartment in the community. I live in the smallest room, but I have a separate balcony. I don't know the other three girls at all, and I don't intend to be friends with them, so I hardly leave the room except for work and some necessary things, but I often need to meet them, because the only washing machine at home is installed on the balcony of my room, and they will definitely come into my room when washing clothes.
All three of them belong to lively and cheerful people, just like most people in this world, and I am the only "alien" in this family. I have been an introvert since I was a child. When I was a child, I lived in a state-owned enterprise staff compound, and several peers grew up together. The house in the compound is very old, so after junior high school, many people have moved out of the compound one after another, and my family is no exception. From then on, my friends and I began to grow apart, until we went to college, and we met only a handful of times.
Because I am introverted, I have never been scolded by my father. It seems that in this world, introversion is a disadvantage, so extroversion is an advantage? I think both of the above views are wrong, but I didn't understand until I got to college.
My parents always thought that I had social phobia and no friends. I must be the one in a group who didn't say a word from beginning to end. But I can actually communicate with others normally. I got along well with seven roommates in college (by the way, there are 8 people in our dormitory, and there has never been a conflict in college for four years, so I have always been glad that I entered the dormitory late that year), and I was able to get along with a group of people. But I really don't talk much, but I like it.
Being alone is not a shameful thing. If solitude is your favorite way of life, you should be glad that people are social animals and there are few opportunities for real solitude.
How to enjoy solitude? That's a good question If you want to enjoy being alone, you must cultivate at least one hobby, so that when people around you evaluate you, they will not just say "ta is a very quiet person", followed by "ta draws well, writes beautifully, and edits videos ..."
Let yourself be remembered in other people's minds, which will make you very satisfied. My roommate knows that I like watching Japanese TV dramas, painting, singing, eating broccoli, being allergic to mangoes and enjoying cartoons. Sometimes I am a sophomore. ......
Having said so much, it seems that I haven't got to the point (have you gradually forgotten the topic? ), I don't know how to end it, just end it directly.
Continue to struggle paper ......