Small circle (40%), busy work (15%) and perfect fantasy of love (12%) are the main reasons for being single after 90. As far as gender differences are concerned, apart from the small circle, the main reasons why men are single are introverted and unsociable (33.53%), busy with work (32.07%) and unsatisfactory economic conditions (19.02%).
The main reasons why women are single are too perfect in love fantasy (29.67%), busy at work (28.04%) and introverted and unsociable (14.82%). Judging from the educational background, the higher the educational background, the more likely it is to be trapped in the problem of mate selection caused by small life circle and busy work, and the proportion of doctoral students who are too perfect about love fantasy is higher than those with other educational background.
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Zhang Shasha, an emotional expert in zhenai, said: "Many ideas of the post-90s generation are influenced by many aspects, such as movies, TV series and books. And it is prone to deviation in both aspects. First, the expectation of love is too high, which is manifested in irrational mate selection and high expectation.
Some people are pessimistic about love, showing inferiority and retreat, which may be delayed because of busy work and poor communication. Therefore, it is suggested that young men and women should not "think too much", but take practical actions to get out of their social circles and get in touch with more members of the opposite sex. Find your place in the actual relationship with the opposite sex. "
The survey of satisfaction with marriage and love shows that more than 80% (86.28%) single men and women are dissatisfied with their current single status, eager to change, and willing to take action to change the status quo. From the perspective of gender differences, single men (88%) are more eager to take off their bills than single women (82%) and are eager to change the status quo.