As the saying goes, good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. Since ancient times, how many kings have failed to listen to the advice of loyal ministers, and how many successful people have not actively listened to the valuable opinions of their subordinates, and their careers have turned from prosperity to decline. This shows how important advice is to us. The so-called advice is sincere advice. But many people don't listen and even get tired of people who give good advice. Therefore, advice is important, but listening is more important.

When I was a child, my father gave me the most advice. When I was seven years old, just after the summer vacation, my father asked me to learn swimming. I have been afraid of water since I was a child. Of course, I can't sayno. Dad said, Are you afraid? Of course, I was unconvinced and said, whoever dares not to go, I will go! We came to the swimming pool. I didn't dare to go down and wander on the shore. My father pushed me into the water when I wasn't looking. I was caught off guard. After a few sips of water, I was no longer afraid of water. Just when I thought everything was all right and I was playing the swimming ring in the water, my father asked me to take it off. I wanted to refute it at that time, but I knew my father's character. He was never uncompromising, so I took it off. As soon as I took off my swimming ring, I fell into the water because of the relationship between water pressure and current. I struggled hard, but it was useless. I sank to the bottom of the water. Just when I thought I was going to die, a pair of big hands lifted me up. I tried to open my eyes. It's my father. I took a break. My father saw me and told me to keep practicing. . . After more than half a month, I finally learned to swim. Abused by his father for more than half a month. But it's painful, but it's efficient. At the same time, I learned almost nothing, but my father didn't praise me. I learned later that this was my father's way of inspiring me.

On one occasion, Wei Zhi had a red face with Emperor Taizong in the court. Emperor Taizong really couldn't listen to it any longer. He wanted to have an attack, but he was afraid of losing his good reputation of accepting opinions in front of the ministers, so he had to barely hold back. After retiring from the DPRK, he ate his fill and went back to the inner palace. He met his wife and grandson and said angrily, One day, I will kill this hillbilly! It is rare for the eldest grandson, Emperor Taizong, to be so angry and ask him, I wonder which one your majesty wants to kill? Emperor Taizong said: That's not Wei Zhi! He always insults me in front of everyone, which really makes me unbearable! Hearing this, the eldest grandson of the queen went back to her inner room without saying a word, changed her clothes and appeared in front of her, bowing down to Taizong. Emperor Taizong asked in surprise, what are you doing? The eldest grandson of the queen said: I heard that only wise emperors have upright ministers. Since Wei Zhi is so upright, it just shows the wisdom of your majesty. How can I not congratulate your majesty! These words were like a pot of cold water, which doused Taizong's anger.

Therefore, although the suggestion is not pleasant to listen to, it can help us to succeed. As the saying goes: Advice when least heeded is good for action. I hope everyone will always remember this sentence, and always remember it on the road of life! Advice when least heeded is helpful to me!