"Oh, yo" has a bad tone and attitude. As soon as I heard it, I said, "Oh, I have a headache. I really don't want to practice driving. "
In fact, there are several reasons for this phenomenon.
The coach's job is very stressful. First of all, the coach's work intensity and pressure are a little greater than we thought.
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Overweight workload makes workers show various physiological and psychological symptoms. For example, bad temper is one of them.
As far as working hours are concerned, coaches often work more than 10 hour a day. Even if there are not many students, most of them are busy.
I usually take time to learn driving, and it's not unusual to practice until 6 am or at night 10.
In addition, the coach's job is outdoor work. "Waiting for you in the wind and rain, driving school" and "dark in summer and frost in winter" are the real working conditions of the coach.
Under such pressure, coaches are more likely to show impatience than ordinary people.
It's like: the balloon is so full that it explodes easily when touched, right? Not others, but this position.
In order to establish a strong personal position
Second, driving school coaches treat students badly and reprimand them in order to establish a strong position psychologically during teaching. I didn't think so before.
I want to share the periodical papers of Fujian Normal University with you. It is said in "Normalized impolite Procedure and Identity Construction in Conflict Discourse of Driving School".
Personal identity refers to "self-esteem" related to personal quality value, which is related to self-esteem.
In the situation of driving school training, the insults, threats and negative expressions of the coach to the students can construct the students' negative pragmatic identity and highlight the coach's strong personal identity, thus achieving the purpose of admonishing the students.
For example, if we were naughty when we were young and didn't study hard, our parents and teachers would scold us: "We don't study well, and we have to pick up garbage when we grow up."
Of course, the income of picking up garbage may be higher than that of current teachers.
We may become insecure because of these words, so listen.
The third thing that helps students to be impressed by their mistakes is that some coaches have bad attitudes, or they may be so-called "good-tempered scolding" with quotation marks. The purpose is to attract students' attention and correct some important mistakes when driving.
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Emotion has a great influence on the processing of information cognition, involving perception, memory and so on. Compared with neutral stimulation, negative stimulation will strengthen cognition.
To put it bluntly, criticism is easier to remember.
The doctoral thesis of Peking University is also shared with you. The significance of praise and criticism-as mentioned above from the perspective of educational phenomenology.
Criticism can make people turn their consciousness to themselves, thus gradually forming the habit of self-reflection, just like "advice at the most unpleasant time is good for behavior" and "strict teacher makes a good teacher".
Driving on the road is related to the safety of yourself and others. The coach is a little strict with the students when teaching, helping them to correct the mistakes they made while driving and deepen their impressions.
If you don't drive in the future, you may avoid many potential dangers.
Moderate criticism, anyway, can reflect from the side that the coach is still responsible.
Is there any way to scientifically counter coaches with bad attitudes? Not all coaches are like this. Some coaches are not good, their quality is low, and even rise to personal attacks.
We also recommend two ways to safeguard our own interests and dignity.
Complain about driving school, change coach 1, coach's attitude and words are too radical. We have the right to complain to the driving school or ask for "directly change me."
We went to the driving school to sign up for driving. To put it another way: We paid for the teaching service, right?
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The relevant rules and regulations on the management and assessment of driving school coaches are listed, in which complaints are included in the salary performance assessment of coaches, accounting for 10%.
If the coach is deducted 10 because of the complaint, he will be punished for not participating in the competition for 2 months.
In addition, the driving school stipulates that coaches who bring economic and reputation losses to the driving school because of students' complaints can be directly rated as "incompetent"
In other words, complaints are directly linked to wages, and only true and objective complaints can shock the coach's bad attitude.
As a "worker", the biggest fear is that the boss will deduct wages, right?
Call the hotline to report the second complaint. If the complaint still doesn't solve the problem, the principal of this driving school and this coach, he said they are relatives, right? We also have a killer weapon, which is supervised by relevant departments.
Master thesis of Jilin University is shared with you. The above is the research on improving the comprehensive teaching quality of coaches in Shenyang Hongda Driving School.
Some coaches not only have poor teaching attitude, but also have abusive behaviors, and even "eat and get cards" and ask for bribes.
"Will there be an exam tomorrow?" "You can't pass the exam tomorrow." That's the feeling.
If the coach makes such behavior and is unscrupulous, it is obvious that there has been a problem in the management of the driving school.
At this time, you can call the service supervision telephone number "12328" opened by the Ministry of Transport; Or the government service hotline "12345".
Or the telephone number of the municipal transportation department, you can directly complain about the driving school itself.
If the issue of refund is still involved, you can also try to contact "123 15".
However, it should be noted that there is no evidence. If there are complaint channels, you should also provide conclusive evidence. Otherwise, what should you do if you lie to others and others are wronged to death?
Therefore, it is best to fix the evidence before complaining. The video taken by the mobile phone and the recorded recording are all ok.
Generally speaking, some coaches have a bad attitude towards the trainees, perhaps because they hate iron and don't produce steel. They are responsible, but impatient. They don't mean that their nature is bad, but they might as well understand each other.
For those coaches with poor ability and poor quality, don't be too polite, just endure it over there and complain directly.