respect

Respect is a virtue with magical power. It reflects whether a person's morality is noble, whether his mind is pure and whether he is broad-minded. Respect for others can bridge the gap, bring friendship closer, show self-cultivation, win trust and gain friends.

The ancients said, "Those who love others will always love others, and those who value others will always value others." Respect goes both ways. If you can give people respect, others will appreciate you. If you are despised by others, others will despise you. Therefore, we should always remember that respecting others means respecting ourselves, and respect is an essential virtue in life.

If you are the boss and respect your employees, you can gain their trust and work harder. Kōnosuke Matsushita, for example, and Zhang Ruimin, for example, are well aware of the above reasons, so their enterprises have made rapid progress, and their fame and strength are among the best. The same principle can also be extended to life communication: if there is more respect between parents and children, all generation gaps and estrangements will disappear and never return. If there were more respect between teachers and students, students would not have the so-called "juvenile problems" or such titles. Bottom line: More respect, more harmony.

Not only that, respect lies in sincerity, and it must come from the heart. False respect can only be superficial, and it will only be annoying if you look deep. When many foreigners came to China, they all lamented the enthusiasm and courtesy of China people. However, after a long time, people in China are not so good. It turns out that China people are duplicitous in appearance and duplicity in words and deeds. Respect is only superficial, and it is not unified with the heart.

One more thing, respect, respect and value. But many people only pay attention to "respect" and ignore "attention", mistakenly thinking that "respect = respect", but it is not. Legend has it that before Liu Bei visited the thatched cottage, Sun Quan sent Zhang Zhao to hire Zhuge Liang as his minister, but he refused. He said: "Power is bright, but not bright." It means that Sun Quan can only respect him and regard him as a guest of honor, but can't use him as wisely as possible and attach importance to him. Therefore, it cannot be called "respect". Later, thanks to Liu Bei's snowstorm, he became his strategist. Liu Bei shared the same bed with him, talking about world affairs all day long and feeling like brothers. Everything that involves the war situation should be discussed and listened to before making a decision. Zhuge Liang was truly "respected" before he made the move of "taking six out of seven" to level the world.

To sum up, respect is a virtue, a virtue that needs to be understood, a virtue that needs to be taken to heart, and a virtue paved with sincerity. Only by respecting others at all times can we be respected by others.

Incomplete beauty

A saint in the west said: "Perfection itself is the biggest defect", which made us understand something that made us inadvertently move. It is not what we define as "perfection" in our dictionary, but the "imperfection in perfection" that we regret in our hearts.

What makes us sigh? This is a defect. What keeps our hearts and souls together? This is a defect. But what really concerns and understands this shortcoming? It's perfect.

Because in our eyes, it should be so incomparable perfect, a treasure despised by God, but strangely left a little incomplete in our sight, because there is a vacancy in "perfection" and because people have a persistent love of beauty in their hearts. So that imperfection has room and will to improve it with the changing ideas in our hearts, so it is no longer incomplete, and it is improving in our minds. And when you insist that this kind of beauty may exist in the real world, but it can't come true because of some shortcomings, eternal regret will occupy your heart. There is an unconscious yearning for beauty in people's hearts, which is why regrets and helpless words can cross the barriers of time and regions and be forever dissolved in the hearts of the world.

A beauty you have is enough to comfort people, but a new curious heart will make you more excited about the beauty you can't have and stay behind. Just like me at this moment, I think that if I hadn't left in a hurry, if it hadn't passed away quietly, if I watched its short life silently, if it bloomed quietly before my eyes and died quietly, maybe my heart wouldn't remember that moment in its life so deeply.

Yes, just one brake. At that moment, it was not completely opened, only one petal really unfolded, which was white and fragrant, smoother and more beautiful than the baby's skin, and several petals were slightly stretched, but they were still tightly wrapped, and the flower heart met the agreement. In the breeze, it shook, causing waves of regret in my heart. In the years to come, my heart will never deny that its flowers that I didn't see with my own eyes are rare in the world.

A casual glance at the beautiful things in the world's heart should be more shocking than a long stare. Because regret is the beginning of perfection, and perfection is the beginning of regret.