Xiren was sold to Jiafu from an early age and did not get normal fatherly and maternal love. For a gentle girl, this lack of experience naturally makes her look for a feeling to replace it.

Jiafu is where she grew up. Compared with the cruel parents who sold her to Jiafu, they served her masters Jia Mu, Shi Xiangyun and Baoyu successively, which naturally made her feel a sense of belonging to Jiafu. It is this sense of belonging that makes her "have only one Baoyu in her heart".

The love tragedy of attacking people;

Xiren endured humiliation and took care of the overall situation, both for the identity of an aunt and for Baoyu. If she had never expected too much from Baoyu before, her feelings for Baoyu began to become complicated after eating the forbidden fruit with Baoyu.

A blind date with Baoyu's skin not only awakened her sexual consciousness, but also made her plan for Baoyu's future. From then on, she took care of Baoyu more meticulously. After Baoyu was beaten up by Jia Zheng, he contacted Baoyu and mistook her for Daiyu's "heart trouble". She was as frightened as a bird.