Finally, this paper summarizes the practical application and possible effects of these schemes, with a view to providing some useful suggestions for couples who are caught in three different marriages.
Keywords: three views, marriage, communication, respect, understanding
1. Introduction
Marriage is an important part of life, but with the development of modern society, it is more and more common to have different views on marriage. The three views include values, world outlook and outlook on life, and their inconsistency will easily lead to conflicts between husband and wife. This paper will discuss how to ease the marriage with different views from several aspects, so as to help those couples facing this problem find a solution.
2. Understand the reasons for the inconsistency of the three views
There are many reasons for the disagreement between the three views, which may be the differences in family background and educational experience, or the similarities and differences in personal personality and hobbies. Through in-depth communication, we can understand the thoughts and viewpoints of both sides, find out the specific reasons for the inconsistency of the three views, and then formulate coping strategies.
Improve communication
Communication is the key to solving marriage problems. Husband and wife should establish a good communication mechanism, including actively listening to and expressing their own needs and opinions, and maintaining fairness, respect and understanding in communication. Through effective communication, couples can better solve all kinds of problems, including three views.
4. Mutual respect and understanding
Mutual respect and understanding are the cornerstones of a healthy marriage. Respect is not to completely accept each other's views, but to respect each other's rights and freedoms as independent individuals. Husband and wife should try their best to understand each other's point of view and explore compromises and solutions when dealing with three views.
5. Think from different angles before marriage
Before marriage, husband and wife should fully think and communicate, and try to understand each other's values, world outlook and outlook on life. Such pre-marital preparation can reduce the possibility of disagreement after marriage.
6. Results and discussion
The method given in this paper focuses on improving communication, mutual respect and understanding between husband and wife, and fully thinking before marriage. These methods have been verified in practice and proved to be able to alleviate the marriage problems with different views. However, the situation of each couple is not exactly the same, and it is necessary to choose the appropriate method according to the actual situation.
summary
Disagreement between the three views has become a common challenge in marriage. By strengthening communication before marriage, mutual respect and understanding, and thinking from different angles, this problem can be alleviated and the marriage relationship can be effectively improved. But the result of any solution needs the joint efforts and understanding of both husband and wife. Future research can further explore other possible methods and effects.