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Look at the problem in an all-round way
Empathy, I was wrong.

Originally I was wrong, I thought I was right! Today, I finally realized my mistake and realized that I only care about my own point of view. If someone hadn't reminded me, I would have been wrong all the time.

That morning, it was already cold, and I was running with an uncle who was only half my age. In the early morning, cold air surrounded the whole place. I just started running and felt very cold. Secondly, after running for a while, I was a little warm, but the north wind blew my face red. In front, there is a group of people around a person. My uncle and I were just a little tired, so we happened to see the excitement. My uncle and I pushed around and finally squeezed in. I saw an old man who had experienced vicissitudes of life, sitting helplessly on the ground, with a word written in blood on his leg, which I could not quite understand. At this moment, my uncle gave her a piece of 50 yuan RMB, and others gave it to her. She kept saying thank you, and God bless you. My uncle called me, so I came out. I wonder, uncle, why should I give her money? Isn't she a liar? Why did you give it to her? Uncle smiled and said, let's go to have breakfast first.

When I walked into a restaurant, I was curious. Before ordering, I asked my uncle: You haven't answered me yet? Why give her money? Uncle: Son, many times, many people are forced to do this because they have no choice. But, uncle, she should have children! Her children just ignore her? Or his wife? I said, my uncle said, "Turn what you just said upside down. What's that? " ? Nobody helped her. In such a cold day, who wants to freeze his body and ignore his self-esteem, right? I also want to say that there are too many doubts. When my uncle saw it, he said, son, you are still young. We should look at things from each other's standpoint, knowing that everything is not corresponding. This old man, who has experienced many vicissitudes, has a sad, helpless and wronged face and sympathizes with her. I ordered two breakfasts at random. Then he went on to say: more often, we should know how to put ourselves in others' shoes, so that we can't be wrong. Put yourself in the other's shoes, so that you won't make any mistakes again. At this time, after listening to my uncle's words, I began to calm down, began to realize my mistakes, and began to worry about the old man.

I can't sleep before going to bed tonight. Empathy, thinking more and understanding more; Think more and make fewer mistakes.