There are many choices in life. If you can't make them easily, I think it's hard to say "yes" from your mouth! But if you say "no", will you miss many opportunities to hone yourself? Can't you give yourself a chance to think and say "no"? On the other hand, saying "no" may bring you unexpected consequences, perhaps a heartbreaking compliment or a scolding. There is nothing wrong with saying "no", but you must think twice before saying "no". Do you want to see if a "no" will become a sword first? Will you get yourself into trouble? I once said "no", no cleaning, no homework, no reading ... but from my mother's point of view, it should be no playing, no watching TV, no playing computer. Maybe some "no" can make you happy in heaven, but some "no" can make you as free as an iron prison. Saying "no" will only make me learn from everyone.
Romain rolland Ceng Yun: "Life is not a smooth road paved with roses. Life is a battle that we have to face every day. " Can't we just say no to these battles? Can't you say "no" to life after repeated struggles and failures? I'm tired, but I'm really happy. I never give up easily in every battle. What if I lose? No one will laugh at me because I didn't give up. I did not say "no" easily. If life denies you, don't bow to life. You have to create your own life with your hands in order to understand it with your heart. Don't say "no" even if you can't, because people's potential is infinite!
When we are young, we should have the courage to say "no" in the face of these unfair things. A "no" may be beaten, but at least it is worthy of our conscience and will not go against my will. This is an open gentleman! Before you say "no", you should remember three things: don't hurt people, don't go against your will, don't do anything illegal, and learn from the past. I believe you can think twice before you act like Mencius.
800 words on the choice of high school life.
Everyone has his own life, and everyone's life is different. Their lives may be happy or painful, but they are all happy! We should all cherish our happiest time. I have been living in a condescending manner for six years in primary school. In terms of study, I think it doesn't matter if I study, and it's no big deal if I don't study, but I always fantasize that I can pass the exam smoothly. However, fantasy is not worth empty ignorance after all. Therefore, I am afraid of the exam, and I am even more afraid that the poor scores and bright colors on the test paper will hurt my empty and shallow mind. In a blink of an eye, six years passed quietly. At the moment of graduation, I suddenly found that my accumulation in learning these six years was almost blank, and I learned nothing, but wasted six years. An inch of time is an inch of gold, but a thousand dollars can't buy an inch of time! Now I have a deep understanding!
After entering junior high school, I encountered many difficulties. Every time I encounter difficulties, I always want to give up. At this time, my mother always took pains to enlighten me again and again, so that I could overcome difficulties and not be overcome by them. After that, I will form a belief in my mind: where I fall, I will get up! In the three years of junior high school, I also had many good classmates. Once I have any difficulties, they always help me actively. Looking back now, I still miss my days in Class Four. I really want to stay in June 10! Let's be together forever.
Now I'm going to be a high school student. Although this opportunity was bought with money, I will definitely make the money worthwhile through my own efforts in the future high school life. Because this is my parents' hard-earned money, I didn't understand the hardships before. It was not until later that I saw my parents' aging faces and more and more white hair that I realized that my parents were working hard for this family every day, rain or shine. Many times, my parents are heartbroken because I am naughty and ignorant. My mother taught me to study hard since I was a child. At that time, I always turned a deaf ear to what my mother said. Even in the senior high school entrance examination, I didn't take it. At that time, my mother said to me: the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination are two important turning points in your life. You must face them bravely, no matter how difficult it is! Otherwise, someone will ask you about the senior high school entrance examination in the future, and you say you don't know. One more diploma, one more knowledge and one more road! Only then did I understand the importance of study and the love of my parents.
800 words on the choice of high school life.
Walking in the journey of life, we will face countless choices. From what clothes to wear today, what to eat for lunch, to what school to go to in the future, what major to choose, and even the choice of life partner. However, different choices determine different paths. How should I choose? This requires us to think carefully. Learn to choose and achieve life. Facing the heavy pressure, the grass chose bending, flexibility and weakness. It is this choice that makes them full of vitality. Even insignificant grass can choose, can humans?
In the troubled secular world, he chose poverty, gave up and lived a happy life. This is Zhuangzi. In order to pursue inner freedom, he gave up worldly fame and fortune, gave up the material world that everyone had to wait for, chose the realm of spiritual freedom and chose the fairyland of inner freedom. So he realized his lifelong pursuit of freedom and freedom.
Perhaps the real people with lofty ideals are not afraid of material shortage, but are afraid of spiritual poverty. Also in pursuit of freedom, Li Shutong, known as a generalist, escaped into an empty net and became a master of Hony. In the face of fame and fortune, he gave up everything, lost everything, endured the pain of picking meat under his legs and entered Buddhism. Since then, I have strictly followed the rules and kept my duties. It is this choice that has made him the title of "Four Great Monks" and his life full of flowers and hearts.
Since there is a quiet and indifferent choice, how can there be a less vigorous choice? At the time of the Chinese nation's crisis, Mr. Lu Xun did not hesitate, abandoned medicine and chose the road to arouse people's sense of hardship; Dr. Sun Yat-sen went forward bravely, joined the army and chose the revolutionary road of bloody struggle. It is this choice that has made Mr. Lu Xun's life of "looking on coldly and being a willing ox" and Dr. Sun Yat-sen's great Three People's Principles. They chose a nation, a country, and let them live a vigorous life.
Wei Wudi whipped his whip, pointed to the east, and galloped on the battlefield. Even if Margo was buried, he had to move forward bravely. This is a brave choice; Zhuge Liang strategized and won the battle thousands of miles away. Even if he breaks down from overwork, he will not hesitate. This is a loyal choice. Tao Yuanming plowed the fields and picked chrysanthemums under the east fence. Even though he is poor and miserable, he should be firm. This is an indifferent choice.
It is precisely because of the choice that emperors will become their great achievements, and sages will touch guests and become their eternal articles. Let's learn to choose, choose your path and achieve your life!
Reference example:
Addition and subtraction of life
Life is like addition and subtraction in mathematics. One is always adding somet