According to historical records, there was a baby boom in the reform and opening up, that is to say, after 60 s and 70 s, the population increased greatly. Then we calculate that the children born after 60 and 70 are the so-called second baby boom. Her age was from 1987 to 1997, and her population was close to 30 million a year. Of course, there is no expected third baby boom, because the second baby boom is the generation from 1987 to 1997, and we are in this era.
Two or three thousand dollars a month is only enough for us to survive. House prices are rising, so are rents and prices, but our wages and benefits are still at the level of ten years ago. The epidemic has also exposed many problems, and the upper authorities have admitted that 600 million people earn less than 1000 yuan a month. 72% of people in China can't get 5000 yuan a month. This reality is in front of us and everyone has noticed it. Why didn't there be a third baby boom? The third baby boom was born in the generation of 1987 to 1997, but the third baby boom did not appear, which has shown that young people are unwilling to have children, and the pressure of survival is high, and the cost of education is higher, so they can afford it and can't afford it.
Then let's analyze that the second baby boom has a population of nearly 20 million to 30 million per year. Conversely, it can be inferred that the labor force exported by society should also be 20 million to 30 million per year. So, is our society capable of absorbing so many people? The answer is no. We have hundreds or even thousands of people competing for a position. Then for enterprises, you can choose the best and youngest people at the lowest price. This should be what everyone calls the demographic dividend. The labor cost in foreign countries is eight times that in China. It stands to reason that consumer goods produced by enterprises should be cheap, but the fact is just the opposite.
To sum up, I think the middle-aged crisis in the 1990s has arrived, so I also have something to say to these children born in the 1990s. We are in this era, we should learn a skill to support our families, don't give up learning, be good at observing social trends and grasping social trends, and be good at using the Internet.
Don't be so anxious, the world is so hot, and we haven't felt a midlife crisis since the 1980s. What's the rush after 90 [yi tooth] [yi tooth].
The post-90s midlife crisis really exists.
First of all, due to the current social reality, there is a psychological crisis in the post-90s middle age.
Many problems and contradictions such as high housing prices, education, medical care and old-age care have aroused many people's thinking.
The gap between the rich and the poor, the imbalance between income and expenditure, employment, etc. make the sense of crisis of middle-aged people after 90 years more and more sensitive.
So I think it's true. The present situation unfolds before us.
The most terrible thing is not the crisis of age, but the crisis of mentality. I was born in 19 1 year. 19 14 When I graduated, I worked in a pharmaceutical factory. Later, I went to Guangdong to do paint research and development and do catering. At present, we are preparing to take an examination of civil servants in the education industry. I lost all the money I earned working in the front line and still owe tens of thousands. At present, I am working to pay back the money and prepare for the exam.
First of all, from the crisis of life, I have to give up my unrealistic fantasies and longings in the past two years and try to make money to eat.
In addition, as parents step into old age, the physical problems brought by rural life and labor are gradually enlarged. In addition, before going to school, there was no savings at home. My parents' health and medical expenses in case of major problems in the later period have become bombs that may explode at any time in my life. This has brought invisible pressure to my life and influenced my choice. I must plan my future life more realistically and accumulate chips.
It's good that I'm not married, but married students have to face the pressure from their families. They have no choice but to be people who please leaders and work mechanically, which is what we hate most.
Life has made many post-90s no longer "young". Everyone either lives according to the way of their predecessors, or is trapped in the thoughts and reality of this generation and exhausted.
When the reality cannot be changed now, life needs an exit, which is also the reason why many adults cultivate hobbies, such as fishing, games and various sports. These can help us adjust our mentality and start light. I believe that with the creativity of my generation, we will break the shackles and lift the crisis.
The oldest born after 90 is 30 years old this year, and your crisis is coming soon.
If you work hard and reach the middle and high level of the company, congratulations on the small probability crisis; If you are still an ordinary employee, your crisis is estimated to be quick, unless you have a good plan or a good sideline income that exceeds the income of your current job. Then you don't have to worry about a midlife crisis.
After 90, the youngest is 2 1 year. Congratulations, you still have a chance to toss about, but time flies and passes quickly. Grasp the future direction, make a good layout in advance, and don't let the crisis happen to you.
Why is there a midlife crisis? Because you have no plans for the future, you have a crisis. Work harder and accumulate more when you are young. There would be no crisis.
After 90, there is no crisis, there are plenty of opportunities, and alarmists talk nonsense. After 90, it is time to learn science and technology. The era of robots and artificial intelligence is coming, and a large number of people are needed to do this work. Robots need to be manufactured, debugged, maintained and repaired, which requires young people to study new technologies hard. Young people have a bright future.
Young people, at least after middle age 40, now is the best time to work hard after 90.
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I was born in 1988, and I was often thrown into the post-90 s team with my comrades in 1989! Today is the middle-aged crisis, which has gradually advanced, and the post-90s generation is really coming. Let's first analyze the reasons for this situation:
First, the world has become younger.
People in 1990 are all 30 years old now, and they are officially 30 years old, but how many people in 1990 or so can really stand up?
However, at this time, many people are married and have children. There are old people and young people in the world. Every day, only more people are doing humble jobs and earning a living salary. Every day seems to be a state of exhaustion, but it seems that no one can save himself!
Second, the pressure of life is increasing.
Life in small and medium-sized cities is ok now. If you live in first-tier cities and big cities, the cost of living is really high!
Food, clothing, housing and transportation are expensive expenses for everyone, especially "housing". It's difficult to buy a house at this time!
Therefore, the increasing pressure of life has made many post-90s people try to make money every day, hoping that they can get a promotion and raise their salary, bring more income to their families and improve their family life!
However, we must know that most young people are still running at the bottom of society, carrying the pressure of life on their shoulders, but they can't stop every day! Because once it stops, it means that there will be problems in family life!
Third, there is no achievement in my career, and I don't know where the future is.
At this age, many people don't expect to achieve much in their careers, because although they are thirty on the surface, only a handful of people really make achievements at this age!
Most people are doing the most basic work, holding salaries that do not belong to their expectations, but live like this anyway, even if they don't know where their future and tomorrow are!
At this time, we sometimes see many people choose to give up, mostly boys! Maybe it's the pressure of life, maybe it's instability from all sides. Many boys actually choose to escape at this time, such as quitting their jobs at home for two years!
Second, personal thoughts and suggestions are for reference only.
First, we should formally face the middle-aged crisis and face it in advance;
I want to say that people must formally face the middle-aged crisis, and indeed the middle-aged crisis is getting younger and younger!
Don't think that the midlife crisis is too early for you and has nothing to do with you. You can still have enough time to have fun, and don't care too much about this time!
The so-called face beating in advance is actually a word, what kind of things to do at what age! For example, when you reach school age, you must do what you should do at this age as soon as possible, such as falling in love and getting married.
You should have a goal, go to the future, and don't wait for the time to miss before thinking about what you should have done. At this point, it is too late!
Second, we must have a sense of urgency. Being good now does not mean being good in the future.
Here, I want to say that everyone, especially the post-90 s young people, must have a sense of urgency. This sense of urgency actually exists between life and work. The main performance is that being good now does not necessarily mean being good in the future!
Maybe what you are doing now is a relatively stable job, with good income and little work pressure, so many people will think that it will be a good thing if you keep doing this!
However, we should know that many things change with time. A stable and leisurely job today does not mean that you will be treated the same in the future, so you must have this sense of urgency and make your own career planning and related preparations in advance!
Third, don't care too much about what you have now!
What we want to say is that no matter what stage we are in, whether we are successful in our career or facing failure, we should not care too much about what we have now.
Because we have to know that although the crisis of middle age has come ahead of time, for each of us, we are still young, there are still many opportunities, and we can still have time and energy to strive for greater career!
Third, introduce real case analysis.
In fact, we can see two kinds of people in our daily life:
Some people don't seem to feel any crisis. They just muddle along every day, and they can muddle along every day. Anyway, great youth lasts for a long time, so there is no need to care too much!
Then another kind of people are full of a deep sense of crisis. They know that this is the time when they are the youngest, the best and the most suitable for their career, so they are working hard every day! No matter how big or small your career is, at least your goal is clear and your attitude is correct!
Of course, we can see that the first batch of people will soon realize something with age after mixing for several years! Because they know that sometimes they can't get along, but at this time many people don't admit that they have failed before, but choose to continue to sink like this.
At the same time, we can also see the second kind of people, many of whom may have been working and living in obscurity. Of course, some people have become the most elite part of the social class through their own efforts!
But after all, we can see that the second type of people have achieved more success in their careers than the first type. When the so-called midlife crisis comes, they don't have to worry too much!
To sum up, personally, it is true that in today's era, the middle-aged crisis has come earlier and earlier, and it has gradually attacked the post-90 s world! However, the middle-aged crisis is not a battle between tigers and wolves, so there is no need to be afraid, but you must be fully prepared to deal with it! It's really sad that people get old before they get old. After 90, it was just a wonderful year. How can you feel middle-aged? That's terrible! How can you have such an old heart? This should not be the mentality that the post-90s generation should have. Cheerful, casual and creative, this is the attitude towards life that children born after 90 should have.