Father loves son, doctrine. -Song Sima Guang's "On the Ministers in the Princess Hall"

Parents' beloved son has a far-reaching influence. -"Warring States Policy Zhao Ce Si"

Self-cultivation, family, and then rule the country, rule the country and then the world is at peace. -The Book of Rites University

Don't be suspicious, don't listen to alienating language, don't do things that identify with each other, and don't take advantage of the public. -"Family Model of Ancient and Modern Books Integration"

If you are a father and can't be a father, there will be no filial son at home; If you can't be a teacher, you won't be an artist. -"Family Model of Ancient and Modern Books Integration"

A brother must love his brother and a brother must respect his brother. Don't use a little interest to hurt this feeling. -"Family Model of Ancient and Modern Books Integration"

(2) factual arguments

1, Sima Guang taught his son well. Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister. Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lessons that many sons of dignitaries could not stand on their own feet because of the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons that all virtuous people originated from thrift. Thrift makes you famous, luxury makes you lose yourself. Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. So that people with connections in the world can see Rong Zhi, although they don't fully understand Sima's son.

2. Ji Hongchang is obsessed with his father's entrustment. Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery and good fighting, and later served as commander of * * * * * and chairman of Ningxia provincial government. 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit: Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor people in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. Ji Hongchang promised tearfully. After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "officials don't get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to copy and burn it, and distributed the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. I said at the meeting of distributing porcelain bowls: Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I will keep in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. At the age of 39, he was killed by * * * * reactionaries.

3. The family instructions of Zeng Guofan, a famous minister in the Qing Dynasty, are scattered in a large number of his family books, and some publishers have selected them into the family instructions collection. Zeng Guofan's family instructions can play an important role in family education. His youngest daughter was married to a famous family in Hengyang, Hunan Province, which has developed for hundreds of years. His fourth son, Nie, studied in the United States, and after returning to China, he devoted himself to saving the country through education and industry. A man who worked hard in a shopping mall and was the first president of the Shanghai General Chamber of Commerce was also a Confucian. He attached importance to the ancestors' statements of Nie and Zeng families, published them in books and promoted them. From 19 17, he also started to create some family articles, such as "Looking for Nie Jia Hua" (later changed to "Jia Sheng"), "the purpose is to contact family feelings and learn their morality", which has become the only cultural phenomenon in China and even abroad. Ancestors passed on family precepts to protect their families, and the value system inside has many essences, from which we can see the traditional scholars' thoughts of family responsibility and feelings of saving the world.