Everyone is talking about a woman who was bitten by a tiger in Badaling Wildlife Park. We have seen many comments, the most common of which are as follows:

-don't die, you won't die

-She killed her family with emotion.

-A tigress can only be a paper tiger when she meets a real tiger. On the surface, she was lamenting the bitten woman: "You shouldn't! You shouldn't! You shouldn't! " But I felt the schadenfreude behind these words in my bones. Because I am not in myself, I just need to play the spectator psychology to the extreme, cynicism and curse. ...

I sorted out three key words from this matter:

Keywords 1: error

Many people think that this woman should be killed by a tiger if she makes a mistake.

What's wrong? This is against the rules.

What are the rules? Someone else did it.

What is a bar? It is a circle and a square drawn for your smooth growth and your safety.

However, don't forget that there are also negligence, carelessness, curiosity, naughty and heartfelt resistance to the rules in human nature.

Have you always followed the rules since you were a child? Should every deviant sacrifice his life? The calculation is wrong? Go to hell! Did you accidentally break the bowl? Kill! Do not listen to your parents? Tigers bite people?

You have to say that the calculation error is different from this error. But in the case of the parties, it is a kind of negligence, which is no different from calculating the wrong question.

Life is alive, bustling and changeable. In ancient times, some people saved their lives because they obeyed the rules, while others saved their lives because they didn't obey the rules. In modern times, some people are killed by a car while waiting for a red light, and some people are killed by running a red light. ...

After all, life and death are natural. We are lucky not to be bitten by a tiger in the wrong way; It's lucky not to be angry or bitten by a tiger, but we can't blame those unfortunate people for being lucky.

Just like a group of chickens in the henhouse were caught and slaughtered, other chickens were laughing at those caught chickens for being "not smart", "not alert" and "unruly" ... they were all ridiculous.

In front of nature, everything is ridiculous.

Keyword 2: Women

Women are emotional species, determined by the creator, born and hard to change.

Women are very emotional. They can elope without saying a word, no matter how difficult it is. Women are very emotional and can make a mother who can catch a child falling from a building dozens of meters away. At the last moment of creating life, care for the baby in your arms with emotion; It can also be when the child is seriously ill and the father runs away, but women can still rely on emotional support ... Of course, it also creates a woman who gets off the bus angrily in a tiger-infested area and is bitten by a tiger. ...

Women are emotional, women are emotional, and women are born perfect. As a man who has married a woman, he should know this characteristic of a woman. A character and an emotion are always two-sided. We will praise the responsibility and courage brought by this emotionalization, and we will tolerate the carelessness and recklessness brought by this emotionalization.

Women are emotional and love tears, but they can often guide a family; Just like a man, rational, cowardly but like a child.

In this incident, both men and women showed their own characteristics: a woman was bitten when she got off the bus, her mother, who was also a woman, got off the bus to save her child regardless of the consequences, and a man got off the bus and hid in the car ... no one was right or wrong. We should not excessively accuse men of not saving their wives, nor should we gloat that "such a woman deserves to be bitten by a tiger".

In this society, women are increasingly discovering the disadvantages of sensibility. Many women are trying to overcome this innate weakness, but that's just to overcome it.

Keyword 3: Sensibility

When an emotional person appears in front of you, why do you just think that she should not be emotional, instead of thinking: Why is she emotional?

Yes, why are you emotional? Her childhood experience, background of growing up, and how was life bit by bit so violent? A person with feelings must be a grumpy person. A grumpy person must be a poor person. Poor people must rely on the help of others.

What is marriage? Marriage is to slowly heal the wounds caused by family of origin. In marriage, if a woman's feelings are not removed and a man's feelings are not removed, then their marriage is not a good marriage. This is not the fault of men or women, nor the fault of family, nor the fault of society. It is the fault of the intersection of time and space, the fault of marriage, the fault of nature, and it should be so. ...

At the same time, we should also learn that it is ourselves who can really cure ourselves, so don't pin your hopes on others. If you really don't pin your hopes on others, you will be calm.

Give another example of these remarks:

1 Low IQ must be eliminated, and this IQ is not necessarily interesting.

! If you want to be a tigress, divide the territory!

3 knowing that there is a tiger in the mountain, it is biased towards the tiger mountain!

Let's just say that the bitten woman and the spectators are pitiful. ...

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