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Why are you jealous of someone you don't know

Think about the past. Think about the old you. At that time, although you paid attention to these, it was true, but you have never entered this state since the second day of junior high school. Think about why? What makes you linger in one place without making progress for ten years?

You used to be like this. You never change your point of view and stick to it. Although you are stubborn sometimes, you are never proud, because you are not smart, but you are willing to work hard. Although you don't have that lofty ambition, after two years of study, you should be able to understand a truth: although things seem far away, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely reach or even surpass this goal.

However, you have changed and become inferior. Only a small part of this inferiority comes from your real learning ability, and most of it comes from vanity, not being handsome enough, not being tall enough, having no money at home and so on. As a result, the naive, hardworking, kind and principled one disappeared. I just saw a child slowly becoming vain, but his innocence has not changed. Although he is vain now, I still want to treat you as a saved young man.

You start to be impetuous. You think the people around you are right because you see that they can easily get what almost everyone wants. Those are all recognized honors and temptations, so you think this is life?

In any society, most people fail not because of their lack of ability, but because they think they are a special case. We publicize those special cases all day, and those who fail because of it can only bear the responsibility of failure themselves. Why do some people succeed and you fail? But have we ever thought about it? If you think of yourself as a special case that can be achieved for nothing or easily, how should you write the history of mankind? How much beauty will there be in the sweat and tears that really move us?

At that time, no matter whether there will be beautiful women or cars, we will have a sincere dislike, and the truth will always be true.

For ten years, outside junior high school, you have never been unable to sleep for your own ideals. Outside of high school, you have never been unable to sleep for your own survival. After four years in college, you have never even been unable to sleep for your exams. All I see is that your heart is getting numb. So, now, I can't see your own soul. Everything makes me feel that you have fallen deeply into the world of mortals and are willing to be captured by it. Think about "Waiting for Godot" in high school textbooks. You are the two people who do nothing but wait all their lives. The poor feel their It's a Wonderful Life. Fantasy can fill your empty mind, boring life and vain dignity.

Is this your imaginary life?

Is this the success you expect?

Is this the happy life you are pursuing?

Is this how you spend your life? When you were born, you had no choice. When you die, you still have no choice. Is this the only courage in your life? Do you want to face the God who gave you a good life like this? Crouching under the pressure of fate?

Perhaps, we will never do anything earth-shattering in our lifetime. Maybe, no matter how hard we try, we won't live the beautiful material life that the world expects, but we can try our best to make ourselves a qualified product. If we become a qualified product, we can strive to make ourselves better. What Hemingway said in "True Noble" may make us scoff. But only those who really do it will feel more and more responsibilities, more and more resistance, more and more bumps and thorns. The more serious a person is, the simpler his performance will be outside. In fact, the material that human beings need is actually very limited. Because others are not noble, the real nobility lies in our past self. As long as we all want to do one thing for reason, no matter how bitter life is, it is as sweet as honey.

Lermontov's if.

You wasted a lot of time in your life,

Please don't make up for it with empty sighs.

Facing the painful memories of life,

The important quality is a strong will.

Tomorrow is longer than lost,

The motive force of action is our desire not to die,

No matter where the end of life is,

If you live one day, you will have one day's hope.

As long as you have an immortal ideal in your heart,

Life will always be filled with fresh plasma,

As long as you do something every day,

No matter how bitter life is, it is as sweet as honey.

Successful people are constantly running for it.

Winners should also constantly brew new goals.

Pursue it!

Even if you've never won an honor,

We are equally happy to welcome death.

In the past ten years, you have been anxious, but now you are less and less anxious. There is no absolute difference between good and bad. The key is how you choose to use them. In the past five years, you have become very anxious. Sometimes this is good. What I can't find is that I didn't take many detours because I didn't find my own direction, but I also missed a lot of scenery. Now I don't want to tell you any truth in that didactic tone. You heard these words ten years ago, but they didn't leave a deep impression on you, so you know a lot, but your thoughts are shallow. Real thoughts should be combined with concrete practice. Only practice can enrich your thoughts and your life. Only practice can make those words deeply engraved in your heart, and make a person become heavy and not dance because of the bubbles around him.

What I want to ask this time is how to be a broad-minded person, that is, to do it according to your principles, and to be a sincere person without those things. Although nothing will go smoothly at first, because "it never rains but it pours", no one will do well at the beginning. This is life. Without experience, we can only stay in a rough stage, and we will never improve spiritually, ever.

Some people imagine such a person-handsome in appearance, calm and humorous, cheerful and not lying, with extensive communication, self-respect, external circle and internal environment. This kind of person exists, but most people rarely reach this level after a lifetime of hard work, so you don't have to envy such a person. On the contrary, you should respect them, because their life is full, they have experienced countless storms, and their attitude towards life. If this person is very young, then there are two situations. In the first case, the hardships and tempering they experienced since childhood contributed to their current state, so there is nothing to say. They deserve it, and God is fair. In the second case, if you are born like this, there is nothing to complain about, because this is an obvious genius, and genius is for appreciation. Besides, genius has the pain of genius, how can we ordinary people understand it? They have their own life paths, even if they meet occasionally, they will eventually part, otherwise you are also a genius.

Besides, from this way of thinking, how many examples do you need to find to suppress your jealousy? Just remember what Hemingway said.